How do you know from the first conversation that someone is right for you?

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3mo

INFJ

Scorpio

It takes time to get to know someone. Some real horrible people have charm.

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3mo

ENTP

Libra

When we are like this with each other 😊

3mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

You don't. People are complex. One conversation can't possibly be enough to figure that out...and most people lie. Take care of yourself, be prudent with who you trust.

3mo

INFP

Scorpio

I don't think you really can after 1 conversation. For me it would take a quite a few considering they ain't blocked me before then lol

3mo

INFJ

Libra

3mo

ESFJ

Sagittarius

Enery alignment... You are connected genuinely and authentically... You can simply feel it and ofcourse trust your intuition... And you can just simply be yourself no matter what, in terms of high or low...🥰😉🤝❣️ Thank you my love @Dylan 🧀🧸💕 from the first day until now you remain the same... And our feelings for each other just getting better each day... I love you always my baby love... 💝🥰😘🫂🫂 Cheers! 🌻😍🌈💓✨️🌻 (edited)

3mo

ENFJ

Aquarius

By a feeling that can't really be explained

2mo

INTJ

Aquarius

Very difficult, because just in few word you can not know how is the person, it's judging a book by it's cover. We must merge on the conversation and explore their world.

2mo

ESFJ

Virgo

When their approach is respectful from the start, also bonus if they’re funny :)

3mo

INTP

We find each other funny

2mo

INFP

Virgo

If they start asking about my personal interests

3mo

INTP

If they don’t annoy me

2mo

ENFJ

Aries

You don't, but if your values/beliefs, interests, and personalities align in a two-puzzle-pieces-that-fit way...then it's looking good for you. Dating is rough these days, but try to stay positive and be content with whatever decision you make.

2mo

INFJ

Aquarius

If I find them interesting then they might be worth knowing..

2mo

INFJ

Libra

I have heard some people say that they knew at first glipse, that must be magic … happy for them ☺️

2mo

ENFJ

Pisces

To tell if someone is right from the first conversation, then it would definitely be a long one. A conversation full of wonder and exploration. One would be filled with curiosity and eagerness; The kind of energy the body and heart has been yearning. The other person will display feeling the same through engagement.

2mo

ENFP

Virgo

You don’t. But it may feel that way because of things such as; the ease of flow. Finishing each other’s sentences. Etc

2mo

INFJ

Pisces

It really is just a vibe. 🤷‍♀️

2mo

INFP

Sagittarius

It’s a gut feeling that I can’t explain, like when you hear someone out in the wild talking about that niche hobby or interest you share. But even that gut feeling can be wrong sometimes. Consistency after is the real indicator.

2mo

ENTJ

Cancer

I never get the chance to know this from the first conversation.!

2mo

INTP

Virgo

They use more then one word when they answer. But seriously, when you have that feeling that you've been talking only minutes, but hours have passed

2mo

INFJ

Cancer

You don't.

2mo

ENFP

Pisces

If they laugh at my dumb joke

2mo

ENFP

Cancer

I get a feeling of instant certainty

2mo

INTJ

Libra

If they show empathy and kindness. Thats a good start.

2mo

ENFJ

Leo

Instincts.

3mo

INFJ

Gemini

That’s a very good question

2mo

INTJ

Aquarius

I think for short term interactions one can know based on the vibes and how the conversation starts, but for long term more disearnment is required. 🤷🏽

3mo

INTP

Leo

I doubt that you can that quickly in most cases. You can probably tell if they aren't right for you though...But I suppose not many of us have met anyone right for us yet, or else we wouldn't be here

2mo

ENFP

Leo

You click instantly! Lowkey just a feeling

2mo

ENFJ

Leo

Highly unlikely but not impossible, just like people believing in love at first sight. In my case i believe if there is no spark, it is either your friendzoned or cut off completely 😅, i would trust my gut feeling for sure. Logic and heart play tricks, as for our gut, it is seldom ever wrong. 😆😆 Whereas trusting our heart and so called logic makes us fall quick and fast and not always the right way....🙄🤪💣

2mo

INFJ

Cancer

I don't think you always know this right away. Sometimes attraction is instant and sometimes it takes time to grow.

2mo

ENFP

Pisces

when i’m talking with someone and i can see their eyes light up about the same things that fire me up, you know we’re on the same wavelength. if they're down to chase after experiences and embrace the chaos that life throws our way, then that’s how i know they’re someone i want to keep around. it’s all about that shared curiosity and wanting more from life, you know?

2mo

INFP

Virgo

A good sign that we are compatible is if the conversation doesn't feel like it'll end, like we talk for an extended period of time because we are enjoying the conversation.

2mo

INTP

Virgo

You usually understand and ask some basic informations so you can understand if the person may be a match or not for your personality / persona

2mo

INTP

Pisces

When somebody say Jesus is our saviour. (Sharing the same believe)

2mo

INFJ

Virgo

You don't. You find out over time.

2mo

INTP

Aries

I don't think I could know it just from first conversation. Perhaps, I'll feel some kind of abstract feelings?? (edited)

2mo

INFP

Scorpio

Butterflies 🦋

2mo

INTJ

Aquarius

I think the question should be, "how could you possibly know from a single conversation (assuming messages here) that someone is potentially compatible? 🤷‍♂️I don't think it's possible.

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It takes time to get to know someone. Some real horrible people have charm.

When we are like this with each other 😊

You don't. People are complex. One conversation can't possibly be enough to figure that out...and most people lie. Take care of yourself, be prudent with who you trust.

I don't think you really can after 1 conversation. For me it would take a quite a few considering they ain't blocked me before then lol

By a feeling that can't really be explained

Very difficult, because just in few word you can not know how is the person, it's judging a book by it's cover. We must merge on the conversation and explore their world.

When their approach is respectful from the start, also bonus if they’re funny :)

We find each other funny

If they start asking about my personal interests

If they don’t annoy me

You don't, but if your values/beliefs, interests, and personalities align in a two-puzzle-pieces-that-fit way...then it's looking good for you. Dating is rough these days, but try to stay positive and be content with whatever decision you make.

If I find them interesting then they might be worth knowing..

I have heard some people say that they knew at first glipse, that must be magic … happy for them ☺️

You don’t. But it may feel that way because of things such as; the ease of flow. Finishing each other’s sentences. Etc

It really is just a vibe. 🤷‍♀️

It’s a gut feeling that I can’t explain, like when you hear someone out in the wild talking about that niche hobby or interest you share. But even that gut feeling can be wrong sometimes. Consistency after is the real indicator.

I never get the chance to know this from the first conversation.!

They use more then one word when they answer. But seriously, when you have that feeling that you've been talking only minutes, but hours have passed

You don't.

If they laugh at my dumb joke

I get a feeling of instant certainty

If they show empathy and kindness. Thats a good start.

Instincts.

That’s a very good question

I think for short term interactions one can know based on the vibes and how the conversation starts, but for long term more disearnment is required. 🤷🏽

I doubt that you can that quickly in most cases. You can probably tell if they aren't right for you though...But I suppose not many of us have met anyone right for us yet, or else we wouldn't be here

You click instantly! Lowkey just a feeling

I don't think you always know this right away. Sometimes attraction is instant and sometimes it takes time to grow.

A good sign that we are compatible is if the conversation doesn't feel like it'll end, like we talk for an extended period of time because we are enjoying the conversation.

You usually understand and ask some basic informations so you can understand if the person may be a match or not for your personality / persona

When somebody say Jesus is our saviour. (Sharing the same believe)

You don't. You find out over time.

I don't think I could know it just from first conversation. Perhaps, I'll feel some kind of abstract feelings?? (edited)

Butterflies 🦋

I think the question should be, "how could you possibly know from a single conversation (assuming messages here) that someone is potentially compatible? 🤷‍♂️I don't think it's possible.

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