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Posted Saturday, November 26, 2022
1y
INTJ
Leo
When men cry
I've seen men cry in front of me, some are young, some are old and I don't think anything negative. It's ok to cry because that shows you are human. Crying in front of a woman doesn't make you weak, I wish people would stop regurgitating such nonsense.
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Capricorn
It doesn't make us look weak but Men have a need to be a leader and in times of grief prefer to console others vs get consoled many have different boundaries with this like I cry in front of friends or a significant other but only when we are alone I cannot cry in front of my family its not that I can't express myself that way its a sense of responsibility not to
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1y
INFP
Gemini
I agree, but at the same time most men come to the conclusion of don't cry infront of others, especially women. through experiences... I know I did. Not saying it's true! It is good to cry, but I can't count the number of people, specifically women who have walked out of my life because I've shown vulnerability. Was it them at fault and not me? Yeah, probably. But my perspective for the longest time was cemented in that I was wrong. And I think a lot of guys need to know that it's okay. But it might be hard to convince some of them because of what they've experienced.
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