Alright men, it's getting rather yucky on here. I've searched the depths of Helheim to find you some tips for, hopefully, success. 1. Matches don't equal səx = just because a very kind woman has decided to match with you doesn't give you the green light to assume she wants səxy time with you. Avoid thinking this at all costs. Even if all her pics are a thìrst trap, pretend you have control over your little heàd. 2. Don't over do it with the messages = you are excited, i get it. She's pretty, you're eager. But spªmming messages when a person has yet to reply is not how to do it. Let someone breathe. Sending 4 or 5 messages before they even got a chance to read your first will make you look dəspərate and creəpy. 3. Don't over do it with the questions = asking too many things too quickly without having the right time for it can immediately make you creəpy. There is no rush to yaŋk all the information out of someone in the first few messages. Act like you've talked to someone before, not just a woman. This also includes asking too personal things too quickly. You don't need to know where someone lives within 5 or even 100 messages. 4. Don't stªlk = this should be pretty obvious, but liking everything, commenting everything, finding them on other apps, finding them irl. Huge No! Think if someone did that to you, would you feel swoony lovey things? Not, you weìrdo! This isn't the moment to become their shadow, in fact, no moment is, avoid at all expense. 5. You don't love them = you saw their pic, you fell in love. NEGATIVE. You like the way someone looks, okay nice. We all have things we find attràctive and desirable. But you do NOT know this person, you basically looked over their pics, maybe their profile. That's not love. A person is layers, depth, traŭmas, thoughts, opinions. Learn that first, then decide if it's love. 6. Cøndəscending talk = idk when it became cool to bəlittle someone you're trying to "date", but it's quite puzzling. Making someone feel inferior, small, useless, etc. Isn't the way to generate convo. This includes mànsplaining, superiority complexes, and gød complexes. I think this is tied to the whole "alpha" image. You look rùde, you look uninformed, and you come across as a jərk. No one sleəps with that person. 7. Løve bømbìng = immediately confessing to your ŭndying feelings for someone you just started talking to is rather creəpy. It shows a lack of self control, you look unable to regulate your emotions, and you give the image that you probably do that with anyone. Which, you probably do. This also includes immediately calling someone pet nàmes before any sort of connections. 8. Your pics = you own no shirts, you never smile, you post pictures of yourself holding weapons, you are glaring/scowling, etc. These all give off serìal kìller energy. And contrary to the bøøm in true crìme genres, women don't want to get dəad. Your pics show us a piece of your personality, present yourself in the best light. If you look like a mŭrdərer, you are going into creəpy corner. Be well. 🙂🍵

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Just when you thiiinkk this might actually knock some sense into them yet it doesnt lol atleast you tried 😂, also you know they expect you to be as creepy as them or else you're viewed as rude/snob/arrogant etc🤷🏻‍♀️ really can't win.

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INTJ

Capricorn

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I fell asleep 3 words in. What now?

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INTJ

Libra

I came on time! 🏆

Ree

7mo

ENTP

Libra

🥂🥂say it loud brother🌹👏🏼👏🏼

Hector

7mo

INTJ

Scorpio

Feel like this is all common sense. Though people nowadays lack that lol

× Curious Girl ×

7mo

ISTJ

I believe these guidelines are insightful for everyone to reflect upon ^^ it's good to be relaxed when getting to know someone new, even though it's challenging at the beginning.. pay attention to how they make you feel when they're around.. it's also important to be realistic; idealizing someone can lead to disappointment.. keep in mind that people may present a better version of themselves, so it's wise not to rush things, true colors tend to reveal themselves over time anyway.. :)

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7mo

INFP

Taurus

2 Awards

Interesting that everyone who seems to feel 'targeted' by this post are jumping through hoops to make you seem like some kind of prude. How can someone interpret this as anything BUT a friendly PSA with a bit of cheek? :')

SuSu

7mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

THAT'S it 💯 Thank you Greg 🥹🌻🤗 Facts

Sarah

7mo

ISTP

Gemini

All true. Hopefully the creeps take the time to read this And learn.

Zack

7mo

ENFJ

Virgo

No need for a laundry list, all these rules arise from the following: 1. Treat everyone as a person: listen, empathize. 2. Golden rule: give the respect you expect, if not more. 3. Seek balance by being patient, open, and genuine at all times. So many men have a hard time truly empathizing with women, yet hopefully everyone gets there at some point.

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7mo

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Taurus

These are fairly obvious no?

Kevin

7mo

ISTP

Gemini

They teach kids differently these days🤷‍♂️🫣🤦🏽‍♂️

Max

7mo

ISFJ

Taurus

Such a beta.

Nopezilla42

7mo

INTP

Gemini

1. Don't be creepy 2. Be confident 3. Throw all other worries out the window, if the girl is creeped out by you it's better she finds out sooner rather than later. 4. If she's creeped out(and tells you), leave her alone. Delete your past messages and never message her or her friends you met through her again. 5. Be smart / don't waste time.

Nico

7mo

ISTJ

Taurus

So basicly nice guys are creepy

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7mo

INTJ

Taurus

Not trying to sound like an ass but serial killers who target WOMEN don't come off as CREEPY instead they put off some kind of charming vibes to lure in their victims which is why one of the major reasons why they so hard to catch. U made some good points but serial killers aren't like that. Serial killers who target MEN specifically come off as creepy cause they prefer a more brutal force method. This is all facts really. (edited)

Tracy

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Aries

appreciate you so much for this

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7mo

INTP

How could you say something so controversial yet so brave?

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7mo

INTJ

Gemini

The fact this needed to be said is very sad 😔

Karun

7mo

ISTJ

Leo

I like the VIRTUE signalling and the Mansplaining in this post, it's hot 🔥😉

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7mo

ISTJ

Aries

Well said

Rachel

7mo

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Aries

I agree with it, and personaly if most guy was following it, it would make my experiance here way smoother.

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7mo

INFJ

Pisces

Kinda in the love bomb category, had someone send a first message asking how I was, and because I'm honest, I replied that actually I was feverish so I might not be chatty immediately. They did the whole "oh, I wish I were there to take care of you" thing.... noooo dude I do not want some utter stranger here right now..... (And to be fair, my favorite connection has a scowly profile pic and it is adorbs.🤣)

Jadon

7mo

INTJ

Virgo

Indeed! Gotta control ourselves. Be mindful of having respect and patience for others. Even if you do feel like you've just seen an angel 😂 get a hold of yourself man! Youre not Austin powers!

Arjun

7mo

ESTJ

Aries

I wish every guy understood this 😭

Mademoiselle Amy

7mo

INFJ

Aries

THANK YOU 🤗

Robert Patton

7mo

INTJ

Gemini

Ok but what if hunting or marksman is something I'm interested in? Guns should not make someone's profile creepy. Like yeah if that's your whole profile that's weird but a pic or two shouldn't be an issue, especially if it's a big part of your life

Marius

7mo

INTP

Virgo

Solid advice there

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6mo

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Cancer

Step no.1: don't text someone anything you wouldn't say to Mike Tyson to his face. There is no step no.2

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7mo

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Sagittarius

Yess go off 🤙🤙

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INFP

Scorpio

Lol, so true. Really enjoyed this

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INTJ

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Help instructions unclear , I messaged Oprah

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I just found this post when changing the timeline feed from new to the best all the time and agree with you. This post deserves to be one of the best posts on this app.

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Not only men but also women should pay attention to such things

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Sir, I hope all your Monday mornings are amazing.

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Finally someone sensible in here.

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The girl of your dreams of your desires and fantasies is probably laying in bed right now farting up a storm. Just fyi

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Me displaying affection.

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Just when you thiiinkk this might actually knock some sense into them yet it doesnt lol atleast you tried 😂, also you know they expect you to be as creepy as them or else you're viewed as rude/snob/arrogant etc🤷🏻‍♀️ really can't win.

I fell asleep 3 words in. What now?

I came on time! 🏆

🥂🥂say it loud brother🌹👏🏼👏🏼

Feel like this is all common sense. Though people nowadays lack that lol

Interesting that everyone who seems to feel 'targeted' by this post are jumping through hoops to make you seem like some kind of prude. How can someone interpret this as anything BUT a friendly PSA with a bit of cheek? :')

THAT'S it 💯 Thank you Greg 🥹🌻🤗 Facts

All true. Hopefully the creeps take the time to read this And learn.

These are fairly obvious no?

They teach kids differently these days🤷‍♂️🫣🤦🏽‍♂️

Such a beta.

So basicly nice guys are creepy

appreciate you so much for this

How could you say something so controversial yet so brave?

The fact this needed to be said is very sad 😔

I like the VIRTUE signalling and the Mansplaining in this post, it's hot 🔥😉

Well said

I agree with it, and personaly if most guy was following it, it would make my experiance here way smoother.

Indeed! Gotta control ourselves. Be mindful of having respect and patience for others. Even if you do feel like you've just seen an angel 😂 get a hold of yourself man! Youre not Austin powers!

I wish every guy understood this 😭

THANK YOU 🤗

Ok but what if hunting or marksman is something I'm interested in? Guns should not make someone's profile creepy. Like yeah if that's your whole profile that's weird but a pic or two shouldn't be an issue, especially if it's a big part of your life

Solid advice there

Step no.1: don't text someone anything you wouldn't say to Mike Tyson to his face. There is no step no.2

Yess go off 🤙🤙

Lol, so true. Really enjoyed this

Help instructions unclear , I messaged Oprah

I just found this post when changing the timeline feed from new to the best all the time and agree with you. This post deserves to be one of the best posts on this app.

Not only men but also women should pay attention to such things

Sir, I hope all your Monday mornings are amazing.

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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Finally someone sensible in here.

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