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Universes
Posted Monday, December 18, 2023
12mo
INFP
Libra
2 Awards
How high are your hopes?
I’m 39. Half of me is wiser and more capable now, but the other half is jaded and discouraged from relationship experiences. How hopeful are you of finding real love?
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Ita
12mo
INTP
Scorpio
I'm 35 and I'm hopeful
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Rex
11mo
INFJ
Gemini
Most relationships end whether it be from too compatible Souls reshaping each other until they're no longer compatible or some infeasible construction of hope spawned from desire for growth towards someone we admire. The challenge of a relationship is that of making infeasible unrealistic pipe dreams a reality for your partner in a way that they interpret the fostering of your mental well-being as tools not weapons. Personally I just want to partner who can learn and teach at the same time
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Tyler
11mo
INFJ
Pisces
1 Award
34 here and certain of it. As I improve myself, I improve my chances, and if I don't and won't settle for less than ideal, then I won't be muddying myself just for attention or validation and decreasing my chances with the kind of person I'd prefer to be with. I can validate myself, through succeeding in my given pursuits. It'll happen, but until then, I'm working on me, my habits and development. I believe that if you're aligning yourself with what you want from life, not with the mindset of needing/desperation, but adding/abundance, it makes a big difference. People see it. You've got to be enriching your life, and the lives of those you encounter. If not, then we're at best neutral, and at worst, a drain, and nobody wants that for themselves, or (hopefully) their partner/friends. You gotta love yourself, girl. And if you don't just yet, then find who you are, by yourself, and explore that. You're okay in this very moment. The fear is about the future, or looking back to the past. But this moment, right here? You're okay. So let's feed that notion eh? If you want to talk more about this, feel free to say hi.
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James
11mo
ISTP
Scorpio
“real love” I know real love for the people I actually keep in my life. In that sense it has already been found and cannot be taken from me. whether or not I find someone to love me on the same merits and without condition as I have love for myself, and to strive for the same love towards them as they for themselves, remains to be seen. doubtful such a thing exists, but there is hope in spite of doubt.
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Hons
11mo
ISFJ
Aries
1 Award
I'm 32 and I've learned that I am extremely difficult for most people to get along with in long term relationships. I guess I fall in the jaded category. 🤷 At this point in my life I just want to get back on track with all the goals I failed to reach over the last 10 years. Get my business off the ground and enjoy the solitude. 🧘 I've been going through a lot of personal changes and you should always be patient when becoming someone you've never been before.
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Richard
11mo
ENFJ
Capricorn
Not hopeful at all I’ve been deceived ripped off conned blackmailed by all different types of woman todays woman should be ashamed of themselves ( admittedly probably not all women ) why should I change my trusting loving 🥰 kind Christian nature a lot of women seem to like the bad guys
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Jay
11mo
ENFJ
Sagittarius
My hopes are high , but expectations are low. I'm not willing to settle again and I worry that might be limiting me. Maybe I'm too picky...
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Josiah St Rose
11mo
INTJ
Sagittarius
In my opinion, everything is bleak right now, but i do believe we can all find our special someone. Dont feel hopeless, okay ? Just be yourself and try. There are good men everywhere its just we arent perfect. Neither are the women too. We gotta accept that and grow together i believe.
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Damian
11mo
ESTP
Taurus
I don't care about real love. If I find it, nice, but if I don't, whatever. It's not the most important thing in the world. But from what I see, 99% of relationships are built on self satisfaction. They don't care bout the other one. "I love to be with you", "I'm so happy when you're around", "I miss you" Those are phrases that indicate egocentrical views. People don't even realize what love is. What they have is lust. And there's a difference between lust and love. Lust is when you take. Love is when you give. And give without waiting anything in return. Until the day you find a person that is capable of such a thing, well, there's no way there's gonna be any true love 🤣
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Marius
11mo
INFP
Virgo
I'm pretty hopeful, I used to be very discouraged about finding meaningful bonds, but I have realised I shouldn't have expectations about love or even about relationships with people. Attachment generates suffering, but so does aversion. So it's good to just live a joyous life and seize the opportunities at hand, if it seems like there are no opportunities, then we should change the way we see things, because life is too big to not have opportunities of joy.
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Carlos
11mo
INTP
Scorpio
I stopped looking and had way more positive experience with people. Relationships may come and go but the Universe is what brought them in the first place. Not every relationship ends terribly and not all sparkling stars but I cant complain. I am hopeful for one day to have a major match.
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Jatin Tanwar
11mo
INFJ
Scorpio
Well, I've never dated before but I'm hopeful you'll find yourself someone who deserves all of you. Good luck!
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Eli
11mo
INTP
Gemini
Low enough you couldn't limbo under them if your name was Hermes Conrad. But it's because my underlying personality doesn't mesh with other people. I'd love to find something really meaningful, but that is incredibly unlikely for me. So I'm aiming to make new friends, hoping for some dates, and if I'm really lucky maybe something that'll be a regular thing because something regular would be damn nice.
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Hatch
11mo
INFP
Sagittarius
We all grow better than before
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Sinmo
11mo
INFP
Sagittarius
I’m 27
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Devang
11mo
ISFJ
Sagittarius
Heyyy
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