It's one of the main questions right, what are we looking for being on this app? Tbh, I haven't the slightest idea why I'm personally on here.. I mean, okay maybe just a little but while I scroll through, I find myself asking this to myself over and over. I'm not entirely looking to fall in love, but I'm not oppose to it. Platonic relationships are perfectly fine for me but 99% of the people I come across want something serious so then I'm turned off to even try to conversate because of the pressure. Feeling like being on here is pointless. I just wanna connect with some people with similar interests and go cafe hopping with, watch movies, etc etc. But without being constantly asked "where is this going". I must be the problem here yeah? Edit: Yeah I get that I was rambling somewhat nonsense but the few of you who were so keen to "call me out" on something, only to delete your comment to hide from embarrassment because i actually retaliated, is just laughable. I'm open to opinions but spitting ridiculous accusations at me is unnecessary. I didnt word my original post in the best way but attacking me just because someone else probably hurt you by not being honest, is not my fault. 🤷‍♀️ I actually am honest about not wanting anything serious, and yes it IS on my profile. (edited)

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I don't think you are the problem, I think you want something but naturally and not forced. Someone to chill wit and if something happens then ok but if not then ok.

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Nah, not at all. I get what you mean love. You are here to converse with other like-minded people who fit in your specific set of interest and who can actually keep a conversation. Problem is people are pushing the boundaries and wanting more out of the relationship. You just want people who you can vibe with and go out to do simple things with. You aren't asking for much

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I'm just on here looking for friends and people to chat with. It doesn't even have to be serious friends 🤷‍♂️ just someone to chat with or vent to or whatever.

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All in do time

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Don't worry. You're not the problem. I've been here for over a year and made some friends. Could never find that special girl, but somewhere very deep inside me still thinks there could be a chance somewhere out there too. Just stay around. You'll find that the legit people stay and the desperate ones disappear.

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I wouldnt say that you are. Im not into anything serious either

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I just got out of realtionship and I honestly felt alone a lot of friends are no longer around so I went to find more people to meet and try to enjoy life again a lot of people don't understand that good realtionships form natural over time and need a mutual understanding of each other to avoid issues some people are just way too worried about the getting serious bit and not the effort it takes to actually know a person and how you yourself feel

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To ask me out on a date. I thought we were in the same page. What the heck! Lol

Gerald

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Yeah, sounds about right. You have 'dating' set on your profile, and nothing in the profile indicating that you aren't looking for something serious or any form of clarity on what you want, or even the fact youbare confused. Clear that up, and you'll stop confusing people and wasting their time. (edited)

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To the person who deleted their comment, I read part of it and I don't see how what I said means I want a "slave" for my convenience. When has wanting to make connections with like minded people and not moving fast into a non-platonic relationship become wanting a slave or a plaything? So is having friends not normal anymore? Are friends of the opposite sex now just playthings for one's own convenience? Am I not allowed to form platonic relationships just because some want to jump into a long term relationship? I offended you so much that you needed to attack my use of grammar and tell me I'm out of league to require such a simple thing as a platonic relationship aka FRIENDSHIP.

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