Meme
Meme

2y

ENTP

Pisces

7
8

Should you follow your heart or head?

I'm so lost on what to do now my heart is telling me to stay.. but my head is definitely telling me to leave because of all the signs. What's a girl to do....

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SleeplessSongbird

SleeplessSongbird

2y

INTJ

Aries

8
7

It depends on the circumstances. In your case, I'd say it sounds like whatever is going on, you have had more than a few warnings and that should be all you need. If you feel unsafe, or don't think love is enough for whatever is happening, *GO.* (edited)

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Olli

Olli

2y

INFJ

Libra

5
4

It depends on the situation i guess

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Brandon

Brandon

2y

INTJ

Scorpio

7
8

The reason this world is so evil and messed up is everyone falls into the trap of "just follow your heart". The heart is very easily deceived and emotions can be fickle like a wave in the ocean! Never follow your heart! It takes discipline, but you must lead your heart ❤️ it doesn't mean you stop having emotions, but that instead of following them you use them at the proper times to maintain compassion and connection with the people you encounter along your journey.

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Tbowler265

Tbowler265

2y

INTP

Taurus

Normally the saying is to follow your heart but if your receiving signs that's telling your mind you should leave then that's where you follow your gut and you lean more to what's going to benefit you more is staying going to help u or hurt you in the end if it's going to hurt you then leaving is your best option

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Bryan

Bryan

2y

ENFP

Scorpio

8
7

If it's a bad relationship leave. If you think you can "fix" him, sure stay, but you will regret it on way or another. Being serious and leaving Kierkegaard out of it, if it's a bad experience/relationship, I'd recommend leaving for something that is not as stressful. But you have to want to leave. Really want it.

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Saleh

Saleh

2y

INTJ

Sagittarius

7
8

Mix of two is needed

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Ryan

Ryan

2y

INFP

Virgo

3
4

Leave, gotta be smart with your feelings and who you give them to these days

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Dana

Dana

2y

INFP

Pisces

I've done both. Head wins!

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Pat

Pat

2y

INFJ

Virgo

4
5

Flip a coin lol

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Majon

Majon

2y

INFP

Capricorn

Follow your instincts sometimes following our heart brings more misery because the fact we love that person they can easily control that sn keep doing you wrong because they know you'll forgive them because one isn't strong enough to leave the heart can be deceiving but end of the day do what's right for you. Your happiness doesn't end where it's at now you deserve genuine happiness when you shouldn't have to doubt your worth or be confused on where you stand.

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𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕝𝕚𝕖

𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕝𝕚𝕖

2y

INFP

Scorpio

I always follow my heart; can't say I recommend it. It's just the only way that I know by this point.

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Ayan

Ayan

2y

INTJ

Gemini

Toss a coin 😊

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Ivan

Ivan

2y

INTJ

Aries

5
6

Your reasoning is there to evaluate the facts and present the logic, but ultimately no decision will be made without emotions being consulted, whether you like it or not.

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Seth

Seth

2y

ESTP

Cancer

9
1

Listen to your gut. It's seldom to be wrong.

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Robert

Robert

2y

INTP

Gemini

8
7

The two aren't mutually exclusive, maybe use both , they should work together

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Nick

Nick

2y

ISFP

Aquarius

Depending on how smart your heart is?

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Hanna

Hanna

2y

ISFP

Aries

2
1

I don't know anything about your situation, but the 2nd option sounds better as for me. I try to trust my mind/logic/intuition more than my feelings. Sometimes it's really hard:(

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RK

RK

2y

ESFJ

Aquarius

When it comes to family & friends go with your heart. When it comes to duty go with ur head.

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Jane

Jane

2y

ISFP

Libra

9
1

The million dollar question... Only you can answer this my friend... For me, if there are consistently more tears than laughter, then it's time to cut n run

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Eugene sega Coulibaly

Eugene sega Coulibaly

2y

INFP

Pisces

8
7

Both your heart and your head know the answer but you won’t be able to apply it , I suggest you should follow your pride

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Balaji

Balaji

2y

ENFJ

Sagittarius

2
3

Follow head . The heart is going to feel anyways, heal and ll continue to beat for a new life.

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Matt

Matt

2y

INFJ

Pisces

6
7

Your heart. Most people make bad decisions with their head

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Faiz Aathif

Faiz Aathif

2y

ESFJ

Aries

8
7

Don't ask to third person weather it may be urs best friend or someone els because you have been choosed the path for urs own self because all have different paths and different experience as well go on easy 😄

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Praneeth

Praneeth

2y

ESFJ

Taurus

4
5

Heart tells you to go forward Head tells you to move forward and at the same time it adds.."careful and watch where you going " part also.. So what do you think is the best to follow

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Rick

Rick

2y

ENFJ

7
8

We need much more context than that, but usually the head has the right answer, but we choose the heart because of the instant pleasant reward.

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Cody

Cody

2y

ISTJ

Aquarius

Some combination of both. Its like you compromise between intuition and logic that feels right to you.

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Louie

Louie

2y

INFJ

Sagittarius

I am a hopeless romantic no matter how many times I get hurt. I just went through what you are in my most recent relationship. I just saw all the signs chose to ignore them as me being paranoid. Then started to get the feeling I always get in my stomach when I know something isn't right. When I get that feeling I always want the person I am dating to prove me wrong. Prove what I am feeling and sensing is wrong. I have always wanted to be wrong. But it never happens and my ex failed aswell. Listen to you head you'll save yourself alot of pain.

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Duane

Duane

2y

INFJ

Aquarius

Depends but follow your head especially if you got signs already

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