Trauma Community

#universe

Brittany

18d

INFJ

Scorpio

4

5

Will someone please read my entire bio and facts about me and tell me your honest opinion?

First, I'm not looking for pity, Second, I've never been loved the right way... I've only been treated like an option, an object, a joke, and friend zoneed right away…I just want to be enough and find my jack (Nightmare Before Christmas reference) to watch horror movies like train to Busan,... (edited) read more

73

68

#funny

Trisha

6d

INFP

Aquarius

And honestly, anyone who takes it personally or makes you feel bad for that kind of trauma you carry can literally shove it.

28

12

#ptsd

Jacky

1d

INTJ

Pisces

8

9

A must read for understanding trauma

5

0

#questione

Annie

6d

ENFP

Cancer

Whats your life goals?

Mine is to work through my trauma and hopefully find someone who will stay by my side and support me while i do, then to travel and have a family

25

31

#dating

Cody

5d

INTP

Pisces

5

4

Moving past Trauma & Red Flags

I asked my grandmother about her relationship with my late grandfather, as they had been together for easily 60 years before his passing. After her story, my thoughts were that he was incredibly lucky to find a woman who would add to his life in every way and have the patience to live with a man... read more

8

4

#mbti

Melissa

18d

INFJ

Capricorn

2

1

On INFJ intuition...

Sometimes I wonder how much is nature and how much is nurture. A lot of INFJ descriptions sound like they could also possibly be trauma responses. Thoughts?

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7

#relationshipadvice

Angela Maria 🇨🇴🇮🇹

22d

INFP

2

1

Praying that you all find true love, make real connections, genuine happiness and to help heal you mentally and emotionally (which may have been caused by past trauma.) But remember, YOU are loved and worthy of a loving, safe, and supportive relationship. 🫠💖 (edited)

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8

#dreams

Trisha

9d

INFP

Aquarius

Dreams are mad weird, man.

I, quite literally, woke up from a dream just now and it was so bizarre, that I just decided to post it here while it's fresh. I dont remember how it started, but the main part of the dream ends up in this huge place/house that (starts off) is supposed to be part of my family's home. My stepmom... read more

15

6

#food

Gwenn

2d

INFP

Aquarius

Does anybody else get emotional from a good meal?

Don't know if it's just me, the trauma, or just appreciation for good food, but man I get teary eyed sometimes.

6

4

#selfimprovement

Nova

3d

INTP

Taurus

9

1

Alchemists know

That suffering is often part of the process; grieving is part of inheriting new strengths, connections that end are often protection, and doors that close are usually redirection! I welcome these hard times lately with open arms, as today my understanding is that they're meant to reveal things in... (edited) read more

11

1

#philosophy

Raysha

25d

INTP

Libra

6

7

Amor Fati (Love Your Fate)

Amor fati is associated with the philosophy. It's also associated with Friedrich Nietzsche, who described it as "loving what is necessary" and "not merely bearing it". If your life is lacking or less than desirable and you knew it wouldn't get any better than this, or maybe you find out you will... (edited) read more

11

9

#lifeadvice

Jess 🖤

19d

INTJ

3

4

The things we take for granted, someone else is praying for.

Remember— recognizing what we have does not take away from our hardships, trauma or pain. They can both co-exist. 🖤 (edited)

14

4

#psychology

Theresia

13d

INFP

Aries

The way i show affection

I was speaking to my ex husband and we were discussing what went wrong in our relationship and how he felt i hadn‘t been affectionate enough. It reminded me of a conversation many years ago with a friend who said i always go into relationships like i am a feral cat who has only recently been... read more

11

5

#life

Rhys

1d

INFJ

Taurus

8

7

Emergence

Well, you were laid in verse, living on a promised word Well, I am the rose you relinquished again You and I are down headfirst in another world, I heard I have a feeling we're close to the end So come on, come on Out from underneath who you were Come on, come on now You know that it's time to... read more

7

0

#writing

Taylor Farrell

24d

INFJ

Gemini

6

5

A poem I wrote

Title: Autism Note: Based on my real-life ***TRIGGER WARNING***: Mentions of bullying and trauma You can read every single book on autism ever written You can read every published article by PhD professors ever written You can even ask a psychologist But you will never truly know what it's... read more

10

4

#psychology

Marina

14d

INFP

Aquarius

Trauma bond/true love Just remember this. Especially when your hormones are dancing fantastically 😜

10

4

#deepconversation

Zach-Alias

2d

INFP

Libra

2

1

A Man is Made.

A man who has endured trauma, failure, heartbreak, and loneliness and still rises from the ashes can survive anything. Because his soul has been dipped in the flames and reforged into steel. For a real man is not born, he's made, through courage, blood, and sacrifice. That's what I think. And no... read more

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4

#books

Pat♡

8d

INFP

Virgo

6

5

🫀My takeaway from this book

Psychology, trauma, therapy, neuroscience, adversity (edited)

1/3

10

2

#lifeadvice

♡Happy Bird♡

19d

INTP

2

3

Just because you got hurt doesn't mean you have to hurt them or others. ☺️

Learn, adapt, improve and make sure you're not the one out there giving people trauma. ❤️

11

0

#poetry

Jess 🖤

20d

INTJ

3

4

Moments in the Symphony…🎻🪈🎶

Moments… They passed in time. Each like a symphony along a winding road— every instrument with its own purpose, all a piece of the grand scheme of the orchestra. And when we walked along that road, each and every note played its tune, slightly different each time. The flute, with its soft,... read more

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6

#mentalhealth

Benjiggity

22d

INFJ

Capricorn

6

5

Company

It is probably pathetic, I am severely lacking in some mental faculties but it helps logging on here because for awhile I don't feel so alone. I've been so isolated. I lost my mom and rest of my family, I am probably weak to some perspective, I just I guess I'm afraid of dying alone. And I know... read more

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10

#psychology

TH

14d

ENFP

Gemini

8

7

13 Existential Dread Signs

Not sure if you’re experiencing existential dread or not? Here’s a simple list of signs: *** When prolonged, existential dread can often turn into existential depression, especially if you’ve experienced some kind of shock or trauma in your life, like the death of a loved one, a relationship... read more

1/3

6

6

#longtermrelationship

Justin

4d

ESTJ

Libra

Love's tricky path

Finding love is tricky, but loving your self is even trickier. You can't find love like you quite deserve, until you've found love in your self, and shouldn't expect someone to fix every crack another may have left in you. True happiness is found within and not given to you. -J Short trauma... (edited) read more

3

1

#psychology

Blackrose

28d

INFJ

Capricorn

5

4

The pain of an invisible wound is even more painful than a visible wound 🥀

Sorry for all my imperfections, but for some wounds will never heal just by apologizing , and yeah some wounds will heal but not the trauma .

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2

#astrology

Daniel Fisk Bennett

8d

ENTJ

Virgo

3

2

Astrology is breathtakingly stupid

Astrology is the only system where people think the gravitational pull of Jupiter (some 500 million miles away) has more influence on their personality than their own parents. It’s like saying your mood swings are due to Mercury retrograde, not the three espressos and unresolved childhood trauma.

4

20

#romance

Viraj

9d

INFP

Capricorn

Anyone suffering from trauma or any depression??

2

18

#memes

Chris

22d

ISFJ

Taurus

8

7

Ways to deal with trauma

6

1

#funny

Med Amine

22d

INTP

Leo

8

7

"Your trauma made you stronger" It absolutely did not, it did make me funny tho

6

1

#history

Ariel

28d

ENFP

Taurus

Trauma from Boston tea party

not to trauma dump or anything but during the boston tea party, I was actually thrown into the boston harbor because they thought my body was tea. it was really scary. I almost drowned

26

15

#kdrama

Moonie

12d

INFP

Once upon a small town (2022)

I don't why but this series reminded me of "Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha". I only watched it now for I liked the actor's performance in "Trauma code". Trying to finish this drama slowly unlike the previous dramas I binged watch. 😅 (edited)

4

2

#spiritual

Wimukthi

2d

ENFJ

Scorpio

7

8

Now It's your opportunity to put an end to the generational trauma.

It ends with us ...

3

0

#love

Larry

27d

ESFJ

Taurus

9

1

Note to self

"Loving someone means working on yourself so that their wounds does not become your trauma."

4

2

#quote

Joseph

8d

INFJ

Capricorn

6

5

This really hit me because it's so true and relatable in so many levels.

The trauma and everything man it's wild I felt this so much and wanted to share lol

1/2

5

2

#infp

Brandon

14d

INFP

Cancer

Realising I'm Ambiverted/ introverted

So like, I'm very outgoing and loud. Talkative. But it was mostly due to trauma as a kid and the fact I didn't get to have much personal space. But I'm sort of realising, at 27, that I'm pretty much more an ambivert/introvert. I love hanging out with people. I do really love it, but I also have a... read more

4

1

#photo

Nabi🦋

9d

INTJ

Cancer

2

1

🦋

—got cheated by the man I was relationship with for 7 years — being used by the man who I thought could heal me after the trauma I've been through lol —now being ghosted by the man I chose to love coz I thought online relationship will work but nope! (edited)

4

1

#dating

Michael

16d

ENFJ

Pisces

“Red Flaggers” ~A discussion iv been curious about.

. While it appears like a preference on the surface, when someone says, “Swipe left if…”—it's rarely just a preference. It's more accurately: A boundary or a judgment disguised as a preference. --- Let’s break it down: 1. A Preference is: Based on what they like. Framed with openness to... read more

4

1

#writing

Ann

17d

ISFJ

Sagittarius

2

3

L.

He's not lying—he really does love you. But I get it, when you've been through hurt, when your mind has been conditioned to expect the worst, it's hard to believe something real when it's right in front of you. Your trauma and anxiety whisper doubts into your ear, making you question his words, his... read more

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