So I recently started seeing this guy and we have been official for like 2 weeks now. I saw him last Friday and we had a great time nothing was off. But ever since then his responses have been flaky. He would message me and say sorry for the late responses and would go on to explain it’s because he is busy with work etc. the other day he didn’t message me at all until the next morning and he apologized again and explained again. Well he hasn’t responded to me yesterday or today so far but hasn’t unfriened me or blocked me so what do you think happend?

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Kelly

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If you feel like something is off I'd trust your intuition. It's hard to know. Perhaps something happened between now and then that had nothing to do with you, like an ex called or something. But I would be alarmed if I was officially dating someone and they were waiting until the next day to respond. That shows they're not making you a priority.

Thane

INTJ

Taurus

Seeing and texting you aren't the only things he does in life. Guy gotta work, eat, relax, sleep, not to mention friends. Give him a little more space and it'll be alright.

Sintia

ISTJ

Aquarius

He might be busy. It's difficult to assume and overthink things. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and what you have observed. You need to be honest and straightforward because doubt can poison your relationship.

Collins

ENFJ

Capricorn

Maybe he has just been too busy. Has your relationship been established yet, you don't want to assume that because you guys are seeing each other you are automatically exclusive then, or maybe you are overthinking it.

Nicole

INFJ

Aquarius

Ask him when do think he will be free or why he been so busy. If he like fine just to see you once a month or don't put into effort trying to text you back or be engaging into conversation. Even if guy is busy he would least find the time to see you or want to talk to you. I been there before when exhausted my trying to be with guy offical less than month. I gave him solution and don't want to even fix it/try and had nerve to suggest I go back on dating app to find a guy with more time. I broke up with him and never looked back since. Happily just finding another guy who can give me what I want.

Derek

INFP

Capricorn

You are too needy.

Engin

ENFJ

Taurus

He is keeping you in the pocket and trying or dating with some one else.

Abdullah Alarnous

INTJ

I think it's quite simple: Ask him it might be something in his life that's actually keeping him busy or maybe depressed, I don't really know but to be honest I doubt anyone would know other than him

Javier

INTP

Virgo

I don't know if you know this but guys have to work, no one takes us out to eat for free. We're in a recession right now so expect anyone who has to work to stay alive to be working constantly. Why are you asking strangers about his behavior? we don't know him, just talk to him and ask him straight up exactly what your problem is. Whatever it turns out to be, don't put up with BS, end it if it ain't working for you.

Long

ISFJ

Virgo

Perhaps you can bring it up to him that it is important to you that he replies to your messages the same day. And that you are okay with short responses that doesn’t lead to a decision

Chris

INFJ

Pisces

Hope everything is good between you and him

Baby

ISFJ

Libra

Take control.....message him & ask direct, then clarify it....at same time, tell him to have guts to give you closure, he own you that as much. Don't hang on expectations or wait for him, that's not good for you in the long run. It's better to know firsthand before it drags you later on. You did try.....good luck, hope this doesn't offend you🙇

Michelle

ENFJ

Aquarius

Girl im going through the same thing. It was great and really connecting and not its so damn ice cold. I dont get it.

John Charles Lynch

ESTJ

Aries

Stop texting him, let him come to you. Not in a manipulative way, if he isn't making the time for you again and again then let him figure his stuff out and reach you when he has the mental/emotional capacity. Best case he deals with his stuff and it's fine, worst case you got a head start towards moving on without him

Christopher

ENFP

Sagittarius

He could be legit busy or having 2nd thoughts. Whenever I've been on the receiving end of this it never turned out well. I would just straight up ask, otherwise you'll never know. Ask him to be honest with you and you've noticed a change in the way he talks to you, that he doesn't respond like he used to. If he is busy, ask that he try to talk to you at least once or twice a day, and how long do you think this busy schedule is going to last? If it's something else, ask that he just be honest with you.

Maecc

INFJ

Pisces

Better talk it with him, either f2f or by phone, not by text because you can't read people via text messages. Communication is needed for relationship to work, tell him how you feel, if he is serious with the relationship he will try to be better for both of you. If he can't do that , welp he is not the one.

Taz

INFP

Cancer

He wants you as a side piece or option, he's also looking for something else or someone, maybe he's on drug's or he is indeed busy with work but the above things are considerable

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