What is your preferred method of communication between talking on the phone, messaging, and videochatting? And how often? What amount or type of communication is a deal breaker?
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Me and @ππ₯¨π Koffyπ π°π are constant communicators, which as a LDR is a good thing... Longest phone call we have had was 27 hours, and included her sleeping twice and me sleeping once, with the awake one muted so we don't wake the other. Average call is 6 hours. Longest video call was 7 hours, average of 5 hours... And texting is constant, even when we are on the phone with each other π€£π. We have even had a movie date on our 4 monthaversary, using the rave a p p. Now, on those long calls, we aren't always talking, often we are doing our own things and kind of just chatting intermittently, like a couple who has lived together for a while π« π« I love you my π€ͺπ«π
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@Dylan π§π§Έπβ¨οΈ This seems to be us...π€π₯°π I love you my lovey... ππβ¨οΈ Any communication as long theres effort, being authentic and consistent between you and your partner... And ofcourse energy are aligned... There's alot of way if you want to be connected with your special someone... The choice is yours and whatever you both feel like nothing can stop you...π«Άπ And yes 24 hours is never been enough, feeling sad when it's about to say goodbye to just sleep and rest... ππ€£ But sometimes we just put on mute but still on phone together... ππ€ͺ Cheers! π»πΌπππβ¨οΈ (edited)
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Messages, for simple catch up and checking in. Calls/videocalls every now and then, especially for serious and/or longer talks. Simply put no contact or update, at all, is a deal breaker. I do not expect to speak to anyone all day everyday. I don't even want to speak to myself that much.
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Scorpio
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Phone (with bits and pieces of video calling). This is because itβs more authentic. Iβd prefer that than messaging all the time. A deal breaker is, constantly just texting. This is because, no matter how good of a texter a person is, it can become stale. Mixing it up every once in a while doesnβt hurt at all. (edited)
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Sagittarius
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For me its messaging
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INTP
Virgo
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I prefer voice/video if I'm not doing anything in particular or if I want to work on something mundane (keep my hands free). Messaging, for the most part. Once a day is great for me. Not too fond of extremely clingy people---and I feel better knowing if people have rich lives outside me. For a special someone, I def would be calling you every night (except for special circumstances) until I/you need to sleep lol.
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Sagittarius
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I prefer texting, I get distracted easily on calls or videochats π
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INTJ
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I love phone calls but...people don't like to call me for some reason (except my mom or my boss lol) Unless i ignite the call no one ever offers so I just settle for texting or voice notes...now for texting, if I'm trying to text you but I realize you're not putting in any effort well ofc I'm going to delete that number, unfriend or unmatch. (Unless of course the person is busy and says they will be busy or we just ran out of things to talk about in the moment.) I especially like having someone to talk to on a call when I'm out in public. It helps with my social anxiety but...people have their own ways I guess. I cant fault them for that. (edited)
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INFJ
Libra
Videochatting πππ So I can see the genuineness of the person when talking to me β€οΈ
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ISFJ
Libra
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Texting then phone calls and then video chatting. Just depends on how comfortable I feel. (edited)
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ISFJ
Scorpio
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Messaging
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INTP
Pisces
Messages
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INTJ
Virgo
I'm super shy so probably going to have to say messaging and call first. Once I'm comfortable then we can video chat or meet in person π
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INFJ
Capricorn
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Messages are the best for me. You can reply to me when you have time, no rush, no pressure. Can't stand voice notes, especially if very long, at that point just call me. But still, let me know you're calling or video calling. I don't like impromptu calls, unless you're family or a close friend. As for how often, I don't mind, whanever you can reply is good for me. It just annoys me in a professional setting when someone takes ages to come back to you... (edited)
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Cancer
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I'm more of a face to face rather than just texting and all. If the opportunity is there I would either video or voice call because then there's no miscommunication through texting because of lack of emotion or intention. Most altercations I come across are those of miscommunication and texting and one thinks that the other is mad at them when really it's a misunderstanding. Through video calls it can get to the point where it feels like you two are in the same room and not really missing out at all. Through voice messages you get to hear how they're addressing you and their clear intention on what they mean. It would be nice to have a phone call, but sometimes I would get an erupted and people demanding my attention to finish other jobs that just recently came up and it gets frustrating because I'd rather give attention to the person that I'm on the phone with. A deal breaker for me is texting while the other does it reciprocate or want to engage in the conversation. Some know when I'm talking about like, when someone just answers what you sent to them and doesn't continue the conversation and they're pretty boring. I've seen many on this platform complain that some people that DM them are a no-go but if you read the text they themselves are the boring one and being rude. Not everyone Vibes with each other but to brag about it on post is very narcissistic of them.
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ENFP
Libra
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It really depends on the connection but often I love to video call if I'm close with the person - or long essay messages back and forth.. sometimes just an endless thread of reels π€£. With my parent, we rarely call or video chat (call maybe once a month max) but we do send funny and relavent info chats back and forth every week. Banter like.
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INFJ
Virgo
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Depends, based on situation. π Phone call: usually i dont use it, unless for circumstances when there is potential miscomm etc. π₯° Pics/Videos (telebubbles): meant alot imo, as it's like an update to share with the other what is happening in ur life Pertaining to the right amount, I feel that it is a 2-way thing to be able to cherish and reciprocate the effort put in by the other person. A simple, timely gesture meant alot rather than keeping the person hanging - it shows how the person resolve things as well ;)
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INFJ
Leo
Messaging
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INTJ
Aquarius
Chatting or messenging only. Video call usually preferred for family.
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ISFP
Capricorn
Messaging or phone calls
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INFJ
Capricorn
Messaging and I like it when the conversation is vibin' and not just superficial talk. Calls if it's really important.
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