What is your preferred method of communication between talking on the phone, messaging, and videochatting? And how often? What amount or type of communication is a deal breaker?

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ENFJ

Libra

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πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜‚

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INFJ

Libra

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In person please. Gotta feel the aura.

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INFJ

Taurus

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Me and @πŸ”†πŸ₯¨πŸ”…KoffyπŸ”…πŸŒ°πŸ”† are constant communicators, which as a LDR is a good thing... Longest phone call we have had was 27 hours, and included her sleeping twice and me sleeping once, with the awake one muted so we don't wake the other. Average call is 6 hours. Longest video call was 7 hours, average of 5 hours... And texting is constant, even when we are on the phone with each other πŸ€£πŸ˜‚. We have even had a movie date on our 4 monthaversary, using the rave a p p. Now, on those long calls, we aren't always talking, often we are doing our own things and kind of just chatting intermittently, like a couple who has lived together for a while 🫠🫠 I love you my πŸ€ͺπŸ«˜πŸ’“

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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@Dylan πŸ§€πŸ§ΈπŸ’–βœ¨οΈ This seems to be us...🀭πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜ I love you my lovey... πŸ’•πŸ’‹βœ¨οΈ Any communication as long theres effort, being authentic and consistent between you and your partner... And ofcourse energy are aligned... There's alot of way if you want to be connected with your special someone... The choice is yours and whatever you both feel like nothing can stop you...πŸ«ΆπŸ’˜ And yes 24 hours is never been enough, feeling sad when it's about to say goodbye to just sleep and rest... πŸ˜†πŸ€£ But sometimes we just put on mute but still on phone together... 😜πŸ€ͺ Cheers! πŸŒ»πŸŒΌπŸ˜πŸŒˆπŸ’–βœ¨οΈ (edited)

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INFJ

Aquarius

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I love texting, voice notes and phone calls. Video calls drain my phone’s battery super fast πŸ₯² and having to hold it lowkey annoys me 🫠

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

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Messages, for simple catch up and checking in. Calls/videocalls every now and then, especially for serious and/or longer talks. Simply put no contact or update, at all, is a deal breaker. I do not expect to speak to anyone all day everyday. I don't even want to speak to myself that much.

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INFJ

Scorpio

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Text and gifs

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ENFP

Scorpio

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Phone (with bits and pieces of video calling). This is because it’s more authentic. I’d prefer that than messaging all the time. A deal breaker is, constantly just texting. This is because, no matter how good of a texter a person is, it can become stale. Mixing it up every once in a while doesn’t hurt at all. (edited)

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INFP

Sagittarius

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phone call over text,

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ENTP

Scorpio

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I can text all day. I'll talk on the phone for hours. But if you try to video call me and make me put on clothes.....

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INFJ

Aries

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Texting mostly, If i want talk i would prefer offline/ irl, which is impossible, we all know that. So definitely text. πŸ’¬ Unless it’s emergency, i have to do calls. πŸ™„

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INFP

Sagittarius

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For me its messaging

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INTP

Virgo

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I prefer voice/video if I'm not doing anything in particular or if I want to work on something mundane (keep my hands free). Messaging, for the most part. Once a day is great for me. Not too fond of extremely clingy people---and I feel better knowing if people have rich lives outside me. For a special someone, I def would be calling you every night (except for special circumstances) until I/you need to sleep lol.

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INFP

Sagittarius

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I prefer texting, I get distracted easily on calls or videochats πŸ˜…

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INTJ

8
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I love phone calls but...people don't like to call me for some reason (except my mom or my boss lol) Unless i ignite the call no one ever offers so I just settle for texting or voice notes...now for texting, if I'm trying to text you but I realize you're not putting in any effort well ofc I'm going to delete that number, unfriend or unmatch. (Unless of course the person is busy and says they will be busy or we just ran out of things to talk about in the moment.) I especially like having someone to talk to on a call when I'm out in public. It helps with my social anxiety but...people have their own ways I guess. I cant fault them for that. (edited)

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INFJ

Libra

Videochatting πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹ So I can see the genuineness of the person when talking to me ❀️

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5mo

ISFJ

Libra

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7

Texting then phone calls and then video chatting. Just depends on how comfortable I feel. (edited)

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5mo

ENFP

Aquarius

I love FaceTiming calling is alright but I express myself the best in movements and showing

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5mo

ISFJ

Scorpio

2
1

Messaging

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5mo

INTP

Pisces

Messages

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ESTP

Leo

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2

Preferably with breaks in between. I can't and don't want to talk or write 24/7. I need my space (edited)

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INFJ

Leo

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7

Preferrably in person. But of course i prefer video chat too ( due to distance)

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INFJ

Libra

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Chatting and texting...I am a camera shy type person..video chatting is my ultimate weakness...

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INTJ

Virgo

I'm super shy so probably going to have to say messaging and call first. Once I'm comfortable then we can video chat or meet in person πŸ˜‰

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5mo

ENTP

Aquarius

I love meeting in person more, But if the options are those three.. unless they're the closest one to me I dislike videochatting. Texting is more generally preferable for me unless you are that special someone. If you are him, I would love to have a call with you everyday :)

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INFJ

Capricorn

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1

Messages are the best for me. You can reply to me when you have time, no rush, no pressure. Can't stand voice notes, especially if very long, at that point just call me. But still, let me know you're calling or video calling. I don't like impromptu calls, unless you're family or a close friend. As for how often, I don't mind, whanever you can reply is good for me. It just annoys me in a professional setting when someone takes ages to come back to you... (edited)

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INTJ

Leo

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I’m bad on writing than I prefer calling or meet in real time

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INFJ

Cancer

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I'm more of a face to face rather than just texting and all. If the opportunity is there I would either video or voice call because then there's no miscommunication through texting because of lack of emotion or intention. Most altercations I come across are those of miscommunication and texting and one thinks that the other is mad at them when really it's a misunderstanding. Through video calls it can get to the point where it feels like you two are in the same room and not really missing out at all. Through voice messages you get to hear how they're addressing you and their clear intention on what they mean. It would be nice to have a phone call, but sometimes I would get an erupted and people demanding my attention to finish other jobs that just recently came up and it gets frustrating because I'd rather give attention to the person that I'm on the phone with. A deal breaker for me is texting while the other does it reciprocate or want to engage in the conversation. Some know when I'm talking about like, when someone just answers what you sent to them and doesn't continue the conversation and they're pretty boring. I've seen many on this platform complain that some people that DM them are a no-go but if you read the text they themselves are the boring one and being rude. Not everyone Vibes with each other but to brag about it on post is very narcissistic of them.

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5mo

INFJ

Aries

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Telepathy πŸ˜† All of them, any way really, just pls be consistent haha

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5mo

INFP

Scorpio

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5

Messaging, my anxiety provents me doing the other 2 (edited)

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5mo

ISFJ

Pisces

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Mostly messaging for every other person bt for close person it is call. Already told what level of closeness i needed to messaging or call. (edited)

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5mo

ENFP

Libra

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It really depends on the connection but often I love to video call if I'm close with the person - or long essay messages back and forth.. sometimes just an endless thread of reels 🀣. With my parent, we rarely call or video chat (call maybe once a month max) but we do send funny and relavent info chats back and forth every week. Banter like.

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ENTP

Sagittarius

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7

Texting is easier although I take a bit to reply

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INFJ

Virgo

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Depends, based on situation. πŸ“ž Phone call: usually i dont use it, unless for circumstances when there is potential miscomm etc. πŸ₯° Pics/Videos (telebubbles): meant alot imo, as it's like an update to share with the other what is happening in ur life Pertaining to the right amount, I feel that it is a 2-way thing to be able to cherish and reciprocate the effort put in by the other person. A simple, timely gesture meant alot rather than keeping the person hanging - it shows how the person resolve things as well ;)

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5mo

INFJ

Leo

Messaging

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5mo

INTJ

Aquarius

Chatting or messenging only. Video call usually preferred for family.

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5mo

ISFP

Capricorn

Messaging or phone calls

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5mo

INFJ

Capricorn

Messaging and I like it when the conversation is vibin' and not just superficial talk. Calls if it's really important.

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ESFJ

Libra

Finally another good QOD! It’s gotta be a balance. And if they aren’t intitiating it’s a no from me. (edited)

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5mo

ENFP

Taurus

I am ok with texting but i love voice or video . i don't always understand tone in text unless ur a gif or emoji user. Plus i have a thing for voices (edited)

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