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Posted Thursday, September 29, 2022
2y
INTJ
Leo
Do you want someone who is just like you, or the opposite of you?
And why? (edited)
Just like me
Opposite
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Neibaf
2y
INTP
Sagittarius
Middle ground, but closer to be like me. The opposite of me would be an extremely extraverted and not-intellectually-stimulating person (yes, I'm trying not to be PC here). That means I would be intensely tired of her in less than day... But someone too much like me? Some of our common flaws would lead to terrible outcomes. For starters, it would take ages to just decide on doing stufd, and we'd end up either not doing anything, or just wing it.^^'
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Alison
2y
INTP
Taurus
I feel this is hard. I want both. I want someone who is my opposite, but not to much to be against me. I want someone like me but not in a way that would be annoying. I want someone who is both my strength and my weakness, someone who compliments my weakness and I make up for in their own. I want us to be a match, not someone who's just like me to the point I get annoyed (because I'm well aware i can be annoying), but someone that can coax me out of my shell
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Muse
2y
INFJ
Scorpio
There should be a mixture I believe. To have a good listener-speaker, giver-getter. So for mutual understanding, in one part you may be cometent and your partner need to be interested to listen. In anoter part, other way around.
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🦆 Arti™
2y
INTP
Aquarius
I don't want to date myself. However, the core interests and important lifestyle aspects need to match though, as this is the (also scientifically proven) better constellation for a long-term relationship.
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Austin
2y
ESFP
Cancer
So this is a false question. It's supposes the person you pick is your partner but it's bad faith because maybe both relationships are bad or maybe one side will be worse... Ppl will pick the better relationship If Cassandra re wrote the question like "Do you want someone who is just like you, or the opposite of you? Both are your type and what you're looking for " They're I fixed it
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Phobytoby
2y
INFP
Leo
Opposite cuz I hate myself
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Terra
2y
ENFP
Leo
I feel like it's really a balance of both. You want someone who is like the yang to your yin, but if you guys have very different opinions and beliefs it will get in the way and maybe cause some fights. I'm a super hyper person and I am often attracted and appreciate someone who brings my energy down and calm my nerves. Everything in life is just about balance, in my opinion. Extremes of anything will ultimately be your downfall<3
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Cody
2y
ENTJ
Scorpio
Both.
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Brandon
2y
ENFJ
Cancer
Both?
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