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Posted Friday, March 15, 2024
11mo
INFJ
Leo
1 Award
Men LOVE toxic unfriendly women or else the nice women would have been swept off their feet. Men LOVE a toxic woman the same way they claim women love Bad Boys. And no, you can’t “prove me” wrong. I’m pretty convinced on this. 🤷🏾♀️😂
All I heard growing up was how “nice guys finish last” but no one ever discussed what happens when you are an unproblematic “nice girl.” We don’t receive flowers, we get left on “read”, and we get the absolute bare minimum. We are branded as BORING. The women who get chosen are more often than not the women who learned to be a little selfish, to put themselves first, to be BOLD and DARING, less caring. Men chase, persue and go after the Bitchy women they claim drives them MAD. I feel this can be a response that is rooted in immaturity. This is why as people age they realize that chasing people with those qualities doesn’t work. It’s the reason most people choose “boring” in their 40’s when they realize the “thrill of the chase” has left them broken and bruised. When the excitement and zeal wears down, what are you left with? (edited)
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Andre'
11mo
INTJ
Cancer
Not to intentionally play devil's advocate but I agree with this assertion. The preference for toxic, narcissistic people affects both sexes. The evidence can be found on this app as well as many others. Look at the like counts of "cookie cutter" selfie-laden posts as opposed to posts that are well-written and interesting but lack cleavage and/or beauty filter(s). The numbers speak for themselves.
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Tom
11mo
INTJ
Libra
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Nyshaa
11mo
ISTP
Pisces
How can you separate the difference between a not toxic female from a toxic female?
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Xander
11mo
INTP
Scorpio
I think that something that people don't realize is that the so called nice guys or girls are usually naturally less outgoing than others, so the people that take interest in them are usually people who are more outgoing and willing to push (possibly selfishly) for something. And typically people who are more outgoing value those relationships less because they've been in more of them. Not to say that outgoing = selfish but from my experience at least the loudest person in the room is more likely to be less considerate, with exceptions of course.
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Missy Kay
11mo
ISFP
Libra
Agree 💯 they say they want a nice women but always choose the one who will treat then like rubbish even older guys in their 40's still go after the same type they never learn. I have come across so many profile saying they want a women with no drama but then they will still go with one of them. This is my own experience and so sick of it hence just stay away from men 😆
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Tim
11mo
INFP
Aquarius
Women who love you in a toxic way usually don't leave you wondering if they care about or love you.. crazy/toxic women make you actually feel loved and give you a lot in a relationship.. all you have to do is put up with a little crazy sometimes.. It's a lot better than being with a woman who always makes you wonder if she cares about you, plays games, withholds love to prove a point or feel special herself, or morally grandstands you. Sometimes toxicity provides what is needed while the other is too focused on themselves and what they get out of everything. That's at least what I've noticed by the toxic women I've been with. What works works..
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James
11mo
ISFJ
Leo
Do you love bad boys too?
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Ryan
11mo
ISFJ
Libra
If you want my opinion. And I’m only speaking for myself. I’m boring as hell. I’ve had my fill of excitement in high school and it left its mark. And it wasn’t a relationship. But I learned I don’t have time play and I would rather stay home and relax on my days off then go to a bar with my friends.
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James
11mo
ISFJ
Leo
Do you love bad boys too?
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Mäddåx
11mo
INFP
Gemini
I would consider myself an unproblematic, easy going, people pleasing, prioritizing people’s feelings, kind of person. And as such, I have experienced many sides of what you’re talking about. I’ve been in toxic relationships where I was being gaslit and controlled. I’ve been in loving relationships where the other person was as accommodating as I am (which can cause all sorts of other problems). And I’ve been in relationships with someone who had a “bad person” personality, but who couldn’t have been any more of a sweetheart towards me. There are all types of people, and all types of experiences. I think it comes down to your own experiences, and what you subconsciously go after, that dictates the type of relationship you will find yourself in. To me, it’s a ‘choose your own adventure’ type thing that has as much to do with you, as it does the other person. 🤠
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