When he came up to visit me on Thursday I told him I wasn't expecting any presents and that I really just wanted to see him but he said that TECHNICALLY it wasn't a Christmas present but a gift for getting a promotion at work recently and it was a lego botanical set I saw and was interested in... read more

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Arj♠️🐺🧭

13h

ENFJ

1 Award

Don't be that person.. ✋🏼 Don't let anyone make you feel low.

Please don't get caught up with the genders in the Illustration, it can go in any way.. Point is: don't be giving too much energy where it isn't reciprocated. You deserve to get as much as you give. Remember that. This isn't only about romantic relationships but all relationships, in... read more

#dating

Andrew Dunford

2mo

ISFP

Leo

It's just me

#dating

Marie Mendoza

14h

ISTJ

Aquarius

Hello. How's your day ? 💞

#dating

Josh

2mo

ENFJ

Taurus

Dating advice

The last time I dated someone, apps didn’t even exist! I now find myself single and years into the creation of these apps. What is your best dating advice? Would especially like the LGBTQIA+ perspective but all advice is welcome!

#dating

Marife

10h

INTJ

Pisces

When we think “meant to be” we automatically assume forever. But maybe it isn’t supposed to last forever. Maybe it’s just someone who is in your life to teach you something. Maybe the forever is not the person, but what we gain from them.

#dating

Devon

19h

INTJ

Leo

Why is it women refuse to admit that they've gone on dates with men just to pass the time and that a majority of men will never go on dates with women they have no sexual desire towards?

Like cmon women KNOW a guy is going to pay for the date and whether it's a waste of time or not the woman is still getting a paid experience out of it. But men especially men who value their time and money are going to be extremely hesitant to spend time and money on a woman they don't have some... read more

#dating

Jesica

INFJ

Aquarius

When is it safe to be myself?

I've been in long term relationships prior, all of which I've met the men organically, so online dating is new territory for me. One thing I enjoy about going this route is the communication aspect of it. The fact that we can dissect each other's thoughts before entering each other's little worlds... read more

#dating

Blessing

19h

ISTP

Scorpio

Why?

Is this more weird or more scary?

#dating

Edd

10h

ISFJ

Leo

Dating

if you don’t receive anything on Christmas you can have me

#dating

11h

INFP

Aries

first date q

been watching some chicken shop dates and honestly? what’s the one, unassuming, almost silly first-date question you ask to “check the vibes” with someone? i’ll go first: “if you discover you’ve accidentally worn mismatched socks just as you leave your house, but before you’ve gotten in your car,... read more

#dating

INFP

Aries

quick poll

if someone of the gender you’re attracted to respectfully offered to be a friend to help you level up your game, ie help you with advice and general moral support in rizz development, would you be offended or would you take them up on it? 🤔

I’m a guy, and nah

I’m a guy, and yea sure why not

I’m a girl, and nah

I’m girl, and yeah sure why not

I’m NB, and nah

I’m NB, and yeah sure why not

45 votes

#dating

LEAH

19h

INFP

Libra

Busy weekend..

Bored#

#dating

INFP

Aries

Compatibility???

is a myth. total bs. fake news. also whaT DO YOU MEAN IM ONLY COMPATIBLE WITH THREE OF THE RAREST TYPES OUT OF 16

#dating

Slidje

INTJ

Scorpio

Online dating is the worst

Every message, I think: "is this the one where they ghost or block me?"

#poetry

Arj♠️🐺🧭

11h

ENFJ

For those of you who are romantics... Read this 👇🏽 If the other person doesn't do that, and you don't want to do that with them.. then you're just wasting each other's time.

I'm not exactly romantic but I do that..especially with friends and feel it is still applicable 🙏🏽 #friends #love #dating #relationshipadvice

#dating

Lost Soul

13h

INTP

Virgo

Beauty filters are a turn off

Anyone else? Just makes women look fake and like they're hiding their flaws.

#dating

David

ISTJ

Scorpio

I swear I wouldn't survive most days if it wasn't for coffee ☕☕

#dating

ISFJ

Capricorn

Dating

It is already not easy with so many options but the worse kinds of interactions are those where the guy or woman tries to make you feel bad for having boundaries or standards like you are the one doing something wrong. Don't let their BS convince you that you are wrong for putting yourself first.

#dating

Devon

14h

INTJ

Leo

What do you think of the idea that a woman playing hard to get can make it harder for the man to want her and could potentially make the guy want to hook up and leave out of spite?

Granted yes a woman has to have some degree or caution to who they allow access to their bodies but If a woman makes a guy wait too long and ESPECIALLY if he hears of the other partners she had that they made wait even less it could potentially backfire on the woman.

#dating

Harris

14h

INFJ

Cancer

Is destiny real?

Yes

20 votes

#dating

Rahaf

21h

ESFP

Libra

2024 👋🏻

#dating

Tom

ISFJ

Taurus

Just me

#dating

ilo

INFP

Sagittarius

Here to flirt with you!

What’s the most bizarre place someone has tried to flirt with you? Please comment if you are still dating with that person!

Funeral

DMV

Dentist Office

Jury Duty

Haunted House

Other

8 votes

#dating

Zisannn

19h

INTP

Cancer

Which do you prefer? Do you date based on: 1 - Looks 2 - Personality 3 - Compatibility based on Boo 4 - Social Status & Money 5 - Belief System 6 - Benefits 7 - Money 8 - Religion 9 - Country Lol be honest

#dating

Dan

13h

ISFP

Libra

Wow! Dating these days is crazy

#single

Knight Ariel

22h

ENTJ

Virgo

On a very real note.

Every so often I get this feeling of unyielding loneliness. Not due to a lack of a partner necessarily. But more the idea I will never find what I want in a woman. My type is EXTREMELY rare. And so I’ve accepted the fact I will probably just live alone. I’m working on building a small hut in the... (edited) read more

#dating

David

16h

ISTJ

Scorpio

Posting pics till I get it right 👍

#dating

Kirby

ENFJ

Gemini

Sad, matched with a cutie from my home country and my type too, but no replies…. 😭 The pain of behind GHOSTED… (edited)

#writing

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

souls on fire, with longing deep, Searching for a heart, where love can seep. In a world of illusions, I hope you all find, A true and gentle soul, that's one of a kind.

#boo #betray #dating #poetry #relationship #books #philosophy #psychology #life #lifeadvice #quotes #univers #soul #book #thoughts #learning #emotions #reality #hopelessromantic #sensitivity #friends #partener #single #pov #infj #depressed #depression #mood #advice #libra #sad #lonely #poet #poem... read more

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Andrew Dunford

19h

ISFP

Leo

What

What are your kinks ?

#dating

Kenyon

10h

INFP

Virgo

Every Time

When I think "I should send a message to this person", I keep hitting the like button instead. Now, without the paid version, I doubt I will get a chance to talk with them. Oh well.

#dating

Abhijeet Ray

20h

ISFJ

Virgo

Koi hai.I need a gf who is loyal and caring.

#dating

PEARLAH

INFJ

Scorpio

Is this app real??

#dating

Tiaan

19h

INTP

Pisces

What dating me is like

I'm not possessive just over protective and territorial when it comes to the person I'm dating

#dating

Nabil

21h

INTJ

Taurus

How's your dating experience been like?

#dating

German

23h

ESTJ

Pisces

Is This The Spot?

#dating

ilo

INFP

Sagittarius

Green

What’s your “green flag” that might scare people off?

How long do you wait to start dating again after a break up?

Dating Community

Depends on you really... You can start dating right away or wait a long time ..but the advice would be ...take time to learn what made the break up happen to avoid it in the next relationship.

It's been two years and I still can't connect.

Not long since the break ups i had were due to the other person cheating. Once someone breaks my trust then i lose all feelings I ever had for them (edited)

Apparently..some ppl move faster than others...i guess if you were the dumper you'd move on right away since you didn't appreciate what you first had. If you're the dumpee then..it takes longer because of GRIEVING PAIN you are encountering that the dumper doesn't care about nor deal with..

There is nothing as such to be waited, when you feel that some one is better then what you had, it's time to enroll in new relationship (edited)

Only you can answer that.

I'm just here for the comments. :->

There is no time that is definite,and there is no rules just circumstances.

There's never a perfect time. It can smack you in the face like a cat. Bap bap, youre in it again. As long as you can heal through your previous break up and not put all that weight on someone new... Then there really isn't any stress to wait.

I don't have a set rule for that. But currently I'm going on 5 years.

I try to start again right away. Time doesn't wait for us. If it doesn't work, oh well. Accept, grieve, and move on. It sounds cold, but it's realistic.

Honestly, If you have to ask, you probably shouldn't be dating

It's take more than 3 to 5 years

When you are over the last

Everyone is different, you can't really say. When the time comes,you just know.

They say a month per year together. But..I don't really date anymore, and have been single for the better part of this last decade, so I don't know about personally

depends on how severe the breakup. its been 2 and a half years since my breakup and i still haven't been able to find that missing puzzle piece so to speak again, not that i am not trying. just the wrong pieces enter my life is all

However long it takes to heal and move on. I been single for more than a year. I don't date, I just chat. I couldn't handle it

For me, it's been 5 years. I was waiting for my plate to clean first, then I will be ready for someone to come into my life ! (edited)

Near immediately. No time, like the present.

Probably sooner than you think you should!

Untill you're ready and you're in a healthy head space.

Wait a little bit

If you want to fit in these days you start about halfway through the current one relationship lol. Or that's my observation at least

Immediately

It varies from person to person. If you have processed the relationship (your end and your ex), worked on yourself, and you feel ready. No one's season of grief is the same. Don't rush it or you will hurt someone.

Hmm good question. Maybe once you healed and matured from the past relationship otherwise your in groundhogs day waking up in bed with a different man in the same situation. I'm saying from experience. But when your ready go go go have fun and be safe about it of course.🖤

If you’re T. Swift. Constantly getting into a 3 month relationship and repeat.

Depends on how you feel and how you want to move forward

it's been three years so I am ready to date with someone else

As long as it takes you to stop hurting and be comfortable being single again.

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I dyed my hair brown 😭 is it bad? (edited)

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me

My partner got me a present! 🎀

Don't be that person.. ✋🏼 Don't let anyone make you feel low.

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When we think “meant to be” we automatically assume forever. But maybe it isn’t supposed to last forever. Maybe it’s just someone who is in your life to teach you something. Maybe the forever is not the person, but what we gain from them.

Why is it women refuse to admit that they've gone on dates with men just to pass the time and that a majority of men will never go on dates with women they have no sexual desire towards?

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Why?

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first date q

quick poll

Busy weekend..

Compatibility???

Online dating is the worst

For those of you who are romantics... Read this 👇🏽 If the other person doesn't do that, and you don't want to do that with them.. then you're just wasting each other's time.

Beauty filters are a turn off

I swear I wouldn't survive most days if it wasn't for coffee ☕☕

Dating

What do you think of the idea that a woman playing hard to get can make it harder for the man to want her and could potentially make the guy want to hook up and leave out of spite?

Is destiny real?

2024 👋🏻

Just me

Here to flirt with you!

Which do you prefer? Do you date based on: 1 - Looks 2 - Personality 3 - Compatibility based on Boo 4 - Social Status & Money 5 - Belief System 6 - Benefits 7 - Money 8 - Religion 9 - Country Lol be honest

Wow! Dating these days is crazy

On a very real note.

Posting pics till I get it right 👍

Sad, matched with a cutie from my home country and my type too, but no replies…. 😭 The pain of behind GHOSTED… (edited)

souls on fire, with longing deep, Searching for a heart, where love can seep. In a world of illusions, I hope you all find, A true and gentle soul, that's one of a kind.

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Every Time

Koi hai.I need a gf who is loyal and caring.

Is this app real??

What dating me is like

How's your dating experience been like?

Is This The Spot?

Green