What do you do if you regret what you did/said to someone you care about ?

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

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I confront them and say "I'm sorry because" or "I'm not sorry because"... I don't like leaving things unanswered and that's why the weak run and why my circle is small. I do find the best people that way though, so I cherish them ❤ They understand me. Spent today with one of them after having a pretty horrible week.. she lifted my spirits. Also why I keep few people on this app (if you aren't bl0cked you aren't fake I'm just lazy to keep people I don't message, but I still appreciate you 🙏🏼). (edited)

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ENFJ

Libra

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😠

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INFP

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If I care about them of course I'm going to apologize to that cute adorable soul. Even if they didn't see it as a big deal.

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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It's done! What else to do?!🤷‍♀️🤦‍♂️😵‍💫😵🤥😶‍🌫️ That's why always be mindful before reactiing! 🫤😏🤐🫢🤨 And be accountable! 🙆‍♀️🙆😮‍💨🫣 Cheers! 😜🧚‍♀️✨️💕🌼🌈 (edited)

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ENFJ

Pisces

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Be honest with your feelings, communicate with honesty and make a genuine apology. The most important part is having your actions prove your words otherwise your words lose reliability and trust.

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INFJ

Libra

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ESTP

Scorpio

an apology and a kiss. matter settled

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INFJ

Scorpio

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If I make a mistake I try to amend it promptly…I think I answered the question

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INFJ

Libra

Apologize

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INFP

Cancer

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Not the confrontational type, I always need my time to cool down so I won't say anything I can't take back or something I'll regret later. In rare outburst, I'll apologize and try to make it up to the person I hurt.

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ENTP

Libra

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I prefer to apologize directly cuz I don't like to avoiding or pretending

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INFJ

Pisces

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mostly I would say sorry first for what I did, the rest depends on what situation we're in

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ENFP

Libra

Try to be a better person

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INFP

Libra

Apologise and remember not to repeat it again

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INFJ

Aquarius

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Before: self-pun*shment and excessive apologizing to the person whether I am the one who did wrong or not. Now: shame, guilt, remorse. If I know that I am in the wrong I will apologize, explain myself and make up for the mistakes that I did. If they don't want to accept my apology and becomes rude then I detach.

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INFJ

Cancer

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Hablar con esa persona. (edited)

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INFJ

Pisces

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I apologize although I can't take back what I said,I can learn from it and if I'm truly sorry I can express that to the person I said it to and hopefully they forgive me ,even though they don't have to.

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ISFJ

Scorpio

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Apologize and try to make things right

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INFJ

Leo

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"Apologies "

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INTJ

Capricorn

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Drive away

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ENFP

Pisces

If I trust them, I apoligize quickly, often instantaneously. I can even apologize as a form of professionalism easily. I'm easygoing with everyone on the surface level. However, going beyond the surface is a bit hit or miss. It's like that with most people though, isn't it? I only recently started talking to my neighbor after 4 years now. (edited)

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INTJ

Libra

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So far I haven't said anything too reckless. But if in case I did, common sense. Apologize sincerely.

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INTJ

Cancer

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Do it again😈

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ISFP

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I'll say sorry

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ENFP

Pisces

Well, firstly, overthink😅 But I'll definitely try to make it up to them and show how much they mean to me and that I'm truly sorry for what happened. The rest depends on what that person prefers. Small gifts/alone time/a long talk. All of us are different and I'll try to show you that I care in the way you'll understand.

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INFP

Virgo

Take ownership for what I've done and apologize. (edited)

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INFP

Gemini

I apologize I’m hungry like hyper critical person of myself so I apologize and then I kind of like blame myself and go out of my way for that

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INTJ

Scorpio

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I apologize

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INTJ

Leo

Apologise

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INFP

Virgo

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ENFP

Aquarius

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Can't ever go back and change a regret you can only learn from it and do better

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ENTP

Aries

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So far, I've small regrets, touch wood, so can apologize and be silly at the same time to make them laugh since the purpose of apologizing is for the other person to feel better after they know you'll do your level best not to hurt them again x

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ESFJ

Leo

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Find away to make it right if I'm the one to blame for my words

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ENFP

Leo

Constantly stress about it till I forget.

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ESFJ

Cancer

I would apologize 🙂

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ESFP

Taurus

I cry and to say sorry

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ENTP

Virgo

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If I really care about them I'll apologize and will give them gifts 🤔

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ESFP

Scorpio

I take accountability, sincerely apologize and make it right. Respect if they ask for space to process.

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