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How do you say goodbye to someone who was never yours?

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Virgo

Write a letter, fold it into a paper plane, let it fly into the river/ lake/ ocean. (edited)

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INTP

Sagittarius

Maybe start processing that first we can't own people and second that ideal you formed in your head is not real, never was and probably won't be. Sounds harsh, but it's easier that way (edited)

INTJ

Aries

Goodbye! And in case I don't see ya, good afternoon, good evening, and good night!

ENTP

Sagittarius

"Take care of yourself, wish you good luck."

INTP

Pisces

This question needs more clarification lol, but I'll interpret it as getting over a breakup/crush on someone. Here's some advice based on my past experiences 😅 The best way to do so is by forgetting them. It seems difficult but it can be done. Do things you enjoy, hang out with friends more and volunteer during your spare time so you don't always think about them. Remind yourself that they're not for you and there's someone better out there. It will keep your hopes up as you continue to be yourself. You'll eventually get over it and boy, does it feel great!

INFP

Aries

I'll say like this: Thank you for giving me time to know you Thank you for letting me like you even tho i really cant have you Thank you for giving smile in my face Thank you for all the good memories that we've share i know its hard for me coz i think im falling in love with you but i know i can move on with my life without you Even tho we cant be together but the memories we've share is something i'd like to remember and cherish i hope you will be better in the way you choose to be and i hope the same to me Please always take care of yourself always i hope even for just a short time i also make you happy as well may God bless you always and forever (edited)

INFP

Aquarius

I cry until I realize that its not worth it. Trying to focus on what really matters.

INTJ

Libra

Just act like he or she doesn’t exist

INFJ

Scorpio

Just move away without saying nothing, focus on yourself and another things in life, act like they vanished, you'll not even remember them At first it's really hard, but when you get used to it, it's easy

INFJ

Leo

U don't

ENFJ

Taurus

ISTJ

Libra

Disappear from his/her life.

INFJ

Cancer

no words just leave

INFP

Cancer

Hmm... So I hope I'm right in assuming you still have feelings for him/her.. The goodbye part is not that complicated, something like "goodbye" or "have a good life" will suffice. Or if you want something more flowery, you could always go with "good riddance, go F* yourself!!" 😏 The issue is how to deal with the lingering emotions.. We all know it's not as easy as "just forget about him/her". There are two solutions to that issue. 1= Take all the time you need to stand up again. 2= To forgive (be it yourself or the other party) Both are not one off.. They are processes. So take each day at a time, and don't be too hard on yourself. One last thing I'd like to add.. Maybe best not have any contact with the other party, lest you end up feeling worse. When you have healed, you can decide if yall can "just be friends". But only once you have healed! Oh and sorry if the assumption I made was incorrect.. That would be embarrassing 🤭🤭 (edited)

INTP

Capricorn

They're not yours, so there was no one to say goodbye to.

INFP

Cancer

Same way i say goodbye to anyone else. I don't own people anyway.

INTJ

Do you have to? I suggest just closing the door or turning the page. Then if you really need to burn some sage ✨🙂✨

ENTP

Aries

I'm going through the same thing actually. It's not just the person you are saying goodbye to... it's the feelings and the memories too. I think the best thing( eventhough I'm not the one to talk) is to be honest and acknowledge your feelings. Be honest with them and then focus on moving forward knowing that you both are your own people, and you both have new beginnings ahead of you. (edited)

INTP

Leo

Hmmm... good question seriously

INFJ

Write in my journal.

ISTP

ENFJ

Sagittarius

I'd literally write him emails once in a while, but instead of sending them to him, i sent those emails to me, because i know I probably like the idea of him that i constructed in my head, not the real him because he never really gave me the chance to know the real him.

ESFP

Aries

Is unnecesary, I mean now one belongs to each other in any aspect :( , so what's the reason to do that?

INTP

Leo

Difficult question when you ask yourself if you still like them. I loved a girl for a really long time, stayed loyal but my feelings were never reciprocated. It's easy to say goodbye, but when you have had many years of getting to know them. People grow apart so it's not something you do naturally, but something that happens without influence. Doesn't make the growing apart part easier though. But I feel like we all get used to this eventually and grow stronger from it. Meeting even better people so it's bad at first, but if you can push past all that pain, you will find someone more precious 😌

INTJ

Taurus

With a lot of stank and passive aggressiveness. 🤣 Jk. Regardless, it's always very difficult, no matter the circumstance. But the best I've known is to just be upfront, honest, and straightforward. Let whatever feelings and/or grievences that are there BE expressed, that way there is nothing left to go back to. PS: if your circumstance shows that feelings are only one sided, it's best to just ghost, as you will NEVER get closure on that, and you will need to find closure yourself.

INTJ

Scorpio

if we are friends i usually get them a gift, it’s like my last attempt to show emotions, then i shut the emotions down. if not, i go to shut down mode directly. might not be healthy but works for me.

INTP

Gemini

One last sad kiss.. a possible "something wrong?" from their part, an explanation and a goodbye.

INFP

Leo

Deeper question, how do you say goodbye to someone who was never yours but you both have feelings, circumstance is just in the way? 🤔

ENFP

Virgo

Bye

ENTP

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ISFP

Aquarius

Goodbye 👋 😐😐

INFP

Sagittarius

Im still trying to figure it out. So far i have cry it out wait a bit and cry some more. Then move on.

ENTJ

Gemini

Wish them all the best and let them live their live.

ISTJ

Pisces

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Write a letter, fold it into a paper plane, let it fly into the river/ lake/ ocean. (edited)

Maybe start processing that first we can't own people and second that ideal you formed in your head is not real, never was and probably won't be. Sounds harsh, but it's easier that way (edited)

Goodbye! And in case I don't see ya, good afternoon, good evening, and good night!

"Take care of yourself, wish you good luck."

I cry until I realize that its not worth it. Trying to focus on what really matters.

Just act like he or she doesn’t exist

Just move away without saying nothing, focus on yourself and another things in life, act like they vanished, you'll not even remember them At first it's really hard, but when you get used to it, it's easy

U don't

Disappear from his/her life.

no words just leave

They're not yours, so there was no one to say goodbye to.

Same way i say goodbye to anyone else. I don't own people anyway.

Do you have to? I suggest just closing the door or turning the page. Then if you really need to burn some sage ✨🙂✨

Hmmm... good question seriously

Write in my journal.

I'd literally write him emails once in a while, but instead of sending them to him, i sent those emails to me, because i know I probably like the idea of him that i constructed in my head, not the real him because he never really gave me the chance to know the real him.

Is unnecesary, I mean now one belongs to each other in any aspect :( , so what's the reason to do that?

if we are friends i usually get them a gift, it’s like my last attempt to show emotions, then i shut the emotions down. if not, i go to shut down mode directly. might not be healthy but works for me.

One last sad kiss.. a possible "something wrong?" from their part, an explanation and a goodbye.

Deeper question, how do you say goodbye to someone who was never yours but you both have feelings, circumstance is just in the way? 🤔

Bye

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Goodbye 👋 😐😐

Im still trying to figure it out. So far i have cry it out wait a bit and cry some more. Then move on.

Wish them all the best and let them live their live.

You dont

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