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Cody

Cody

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Why do people get so hung up on ghosting?

Maybe this is unpopular, because I see a lot of posts complain about ghosting. When I get ghosted (when someone stops replying) I don't take it personally. It could've been cuz I was boring, or they don't have the app anymore, or they thought I was ass ugly, or they died. The reason is irrelevant, I think people have the right to do that if they want. Yeah it doesn't feel amazing on the receiving end sometimes but it's not a big deal in my opinion. I guess it would've been cool to know exactly what they were thinking, but thats not how interactions always play out. If you don't know, don't assume its about you if you know whats good for you ๐Ÿ˜ Let me clarify some more, obviously it depends on context. If your boyfriend of 5 years ghosts you, to me, thats wrong. But on this app with someone you've messaged 5 times? It's not a big deal to me (edited)

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Carla

Carla

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INFJ

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I created a post saying the same. Look into my posts๐Ÿ˜‚ I donโ€™t take it personal. I think people need to work on themselves so they donโ€™t allow it to affect their fickle self-esteem. Itโ€™s just not that big of deal if youโ€™re thinking rationally.

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Daneya

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I agree, Iโ€™ve honestly never understood the big deal about getting ghosted, even to the effect of making an mtv show about it, likeโ€ฆ come on

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