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Would you rather go for a relationship with someone who got everything you are searching for or with someone who is still at the beginning of his life and your journy together would contain for shure a lot of hurdles and challenges?

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7mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

Seriously?! Not "shure" about this 🤔 seems like it's missing some crucial information.. Let's just choose pain over all we want... why not?! 🥲👀

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ENTJ

Gemini

I am tired.. I'll take the complete version with all the dlc, Thanx

7mo

INFJ

Cancer

I'd want to be with the person I know I will keep on choosing regardless. And who will do the same to me regardless.

7mo

ENFJ

Libra

😏😏😏 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

7mo

INTP

Taurus

first one definitely, id rather have someone who really gets me

7mo

INTJ

Sagittarius

I don't think the first option is remotely realistic. No one has everything you are looking for. People strive for perfection, but can never truly achieve it. The key is to find a person that will complete you and who will have bad aspects that you can live with.

7mo

INFP

Pisces

Hmmm... do I want a fantasy or do I want real life?

7mo

ENFP

Scorpio

Interesting the question mentions “his”. Looks like the script flipped from yesterday’s question. (edited)

7mo

INFP

Cancer

Someone who already has e everything I am looking fore, I am a very busy person and I don’t really have time for hurdles and challenges

7mo

INFJ

Aries

Everything that I'm searching for. Otherwise, why would I be searching here? But I know how delulu I am to want what I want... so it's all relative.

7mo

ENFP

Pisces

Character above financial status. Each has its challenges in how we prove our worth to our partners, family, friends, and community. I have suffered trying to do both, so I can't choose if I meet someone with the right character.

7mo

INTJ

Sagittarius

Hmmm I’d have to say already has everything, safety, security, it’s boring sure but it’s safe. Also… more importantly still at the beginning of their life?!? I ain’t messing around with young ones like that….

7mo

ENFJ

Capricorn

Just be prepared, such as having a job and a place to live. We can help each other with other things. But if everything is ready, please teach me how to succeed like you. I like to learn. 💕

7mo

INTP

Aries

Everything I'm looking for obviously

7mo

ESFJ

Sagittarius

It's very difficult for me 🥺bt I love to make new mistake so Sath me girenge padege nd one day we arrchive 🧿nhi ho paya phir be itk u r my home 🎀nd it's enough 🤍

7mo

INFJ

Scorpio

7mo

ENTJ

It’s not about who has it all — it’s about who chooses to grow with you, daily. (edited)

7mo

ISTP

Libra

First option

7mo

INFJ

Pisces

There’s something off about this question. Is everything material items or qualities of human being? Am I at the beginning of my life with this person too? Or am i financially stable while this person is just getting started? I’m 47 rn and if this person is 23… there’s complications for me. I prefer men near my age so we can relate. Too young is just difficult to relate too. Too old and well their parts don’t work the way they were meant to. I’ll take the human qualities in a person near the same age and stage of life. Where are these people? I’m also open to all genders.

7mo

INFJ

Pisces

Definitely the first one! Why should you let yourself suffer again? 😌

7mo

INTJ

Capricorn

I think the real question is would be learn to grow to get along and love eachother? If so I don’t mind a challenge but I see no point in trying to work with someone who doesn’t want to change for the better

7mo

INTP

Cancer

To me it really doesn't matter

7mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

Id wanna go on the journey its the ups and downs that make any kind of relationship stronger

7mo

ENTP

Aries

with someone who is still at the beginning it's just seems more adventurous

7mo

INTJ

Gemini

let's just do it for the plot ✨

7mo

INFJ

Aquarius

Someone who I feel comfortable and compatible with. If I go for someone who I have been looking for then I should be someone who they are looking for too. I want someone who won't k*ll the child in me, one who will try to understand me, who will value me, and won't make me question my worth. I am growing and I want someone who is willing to grow with me. (edited)

7mo

INFJ

Libra

Personally, I want someone who's already stable. But if I meet someone who's still building up his career then we will make it work together. (edited)

7mo

INFP

Scorpio

The first. I think regardless of whether or not they check off the boxes, the future will bring hurdles regardless. The difference is, I'd want to be with someone who has already taken the time to get to know themselves and I can meet them where they are at.

7mo

ISFJ

Scorpio

I just want to be happy, it doesn't matter either way otherwise

7mo

ENFJ

Leo

With someone I get along with well who shares enough common interests to fill in the gaps in the voids in my life.

7mo

ESFP

Pisces

I'm too old to date somebody just starting their life. I am set, went through therapy. I want the same from my partner. Fixed head,fixed life :)

7mo

INTJ

Libra

Being realistic, nobody is perfect. Everyone may dream of going for a relationship with the 1st option but that doesn't mean there won't be hurdles or challenges. Then there is the 2nd option to consider, growth from overcoming said challenges can make the relationship stronger. Regardless, what matters is who makes you happy. 👌 (edited)

7mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

Ummmm. Instead of putting my pov I will prefer to stick to the question.. I will go with the person who is in his initials or in middle of things.. hustle and hurdles are part of life ... What matters is emotional support and believe ❣️ for each other ... And most mostttt important understanding. (edited)

7mo

ENFP

Leo

Nobody is perfect so I would rather have a relationship with someone who wants to invest in a future together, which is apparently rare

7mo

INTP

Second options.. because I like challenging relationships 😈

7mo

INTP

Pisces

With someone whose got everything I'm looking for

7mo

INFP

Scorpio

Any relationship comes with hurdles and challenges. Doesn't matter if that person is at the beginning. But I would choose the second then we can go through the hurdles and challenges together and grow together

7mo

ISTJ

Of course number 1, because I already have everything I want and am very settled, I wouldn't want to live with someone who has to start over from scratch with all the struggles..

7mo

INTJ

Gemini

Not sure how to answer this cause life itself is unpredicable. We suddenly lose and also gain.

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Seriously?! Not "shure" about this 🤔 seems like it's missing some crucial information.. Let's just choose pain over all we want... why not?! 🥲👀

I am tired.. I'll take the complete version with all the dlc, Thanx

I'd want to be with the person I know I will keep on choosing regardless. And who will do the same to me regardless.

😏😏😏 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

first one definitely, id rather have someone who really gets me

I don't think the first option is remotely realistic. No one has everything you are looking for. People strive for perfection, but can never truly achieve it. The key is to find a person that will complete you and who will have bad aspects that you can live with.

Hmmm... do I want a fantasy or do I want real life?

Interesting the question mentions “his”. Looks like the script flipped from yesterday’s question. (edited)

Someone who already has e everything I am looking fore, I am a very busy person and I don’t really have time for hurdles and challenges

Everything that I'm searching for. Otherwise, why would I be searching here? But I know how delulu I am to want what I want... so it's all relative.

Character above financial status. Each has its challenges in how we prove our worth to our partners, family, friends, and community. I have suffered trying to do both, so I can't choose if I meet someone with the right character.

Hmmm I’d have to say already has everything, safety, security, it’s boring sure but it’s safe. Also… more importantly still at the beginning of their life?!? I ain’t messing around with young ones like that….

Just be prepared, such as having a job and a place to live. We can help each other with other things. But if everything is ready, please teach me how to succeed like you. I like to learn. 💕

Everything I'm looking for obviously

It's very difficult for me 🥺bt I love to make new mistake so Sath me girenge padege nd one day we arrchive 🧿nhi ho paya phir be itk u r my home 🎀nd it's enough 🤍

It’s not about who has it all — it’s about who chooses to grow with you, daily. (edited)

First option

Definitely the first one! Why should you let yourself suffer again? 😌

I think the real question is would be learn to grow to get along and love eachother? If so I don’t mind a challenge but I see no point in trying to work with someone who doesn’t want to change for the better

To me it really doesn't matter

Id wanna go on the journey its the ups and downs that make any kind of relationship stronger

with someone who is still at the beginning it's just seems more adventurous

let's just do it for the plot ✨

Personally, I want someone who's already stable. But if I meet someone who's still building up his career then we will make it work together. (edited)

The first. I think regardless of whether or not they check off the boxes, the future will bring hurdles regardless. The difference is, I'd want to be with someone who has already taken the time to get to know themselves and I can meet them where they are at.

I just want to be happy, it doesn't matter either way otherwise

With someone I get along with well who shares enough common interests to fill in the gaps in the voids in my life.

I'm too old to date somebody just starting their life. I am set, went through therapy. I want the same from my partner. Fixed head,fixed life :)

Nobody is perfect so I would rather have a relationship with someone who wants to invest in a future together, which is apparently rare

Second options.. because I like challenging relationships 😈

With someone whose got everything I'm looking for

Any relationship comes with hurdles and challenges. Doesn't matter if that person is at the beginning. But I would choose the second then we can go through the hurdles and challenges together and grow together

Of course number 1, because I already have everything I want and am very settled, I wouldn't want to live with someone who has to start over from scratch with all the struggles..

Not sure how to answer this cause life itself is unpredicable. We suddenly lose and also gain.

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