Would you rather go for a relationship with someone who got everything you are searching for or with someone who is still at the beginning of his life and your journy together would contain for shure a lot of hurdles and challenges?

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Sagittarius

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Seriously?! Not "shure" about this 🤔 seems like it's missing some crucial information.. Let's just choose pain over all we want... why not?! 🥲👀

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ENTJ

Gemini

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I am tired.. I'll take the complete version with all the dlc, Thanx

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INFJ

Cancer

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I'd want to be with the person I know I will keep on choosing regardless. And who will do the same to me regardless.

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ENFJ

Libra

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😏😏😏 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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INTP

Taurus

first one definitely, id rather have someone who really gets me

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INTJ

Sagittarius

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I don't think the first option is remotely realistic. No one has everything you are looking for. People strive for perfection, but can never truly achieve it. The key is to find a person that will complete you and who will have bad aspects that you can live with.

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INFP

Pisces

Hmmm... do I want a fantasy or do I want real life?

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ENFP

Scorpio

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Interesting the question mentions “his”. Looks like the script flipped from yesterday’s question. (edited)

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INFP

Cancer

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Someone who already has e everything I am looking fore, I am a very busy person and I don’t really have time for hurdles and challenges

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INFJ

Aries

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Everything that I'm searching for. Otherwise, why would I be searching here? But I know how delulu I am to want what I want... so it's all relative.

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ENFP

Pisces

Character above financial status. Each has its challenges in how we prove our worth to our partners, family, friends, and community. I have suffered trying to do both, so I can't choose if I meet someone with the right character.

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INTJ

Sagittarius

Hmmm I’d have to say already has everything, safety, security, it’s boring sure but it’s safe. Also… more importantly still at the beginning of their life?!? I ain’t messing around with young ones like that….

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ENFJ

Capricorn

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Just be prepared, such as having a job and a place to live. We can help each other with other things. But if everything is ready, please teach me how to succeed like you. I like to learn. 💕

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INTP

Aries

Everything I'm looking for obviously

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

It's very difficult for me 🥺bt I love to make new mistake so Sath me girenge padege nd one day we arrchive 🧿nhi ho paya phir be itk u r my home 🎀nd it's enough 🤍

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INFJ

Scorpio

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ENTJ

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It’s not about who has it all — it’s about who chooses to grow with you, daily. (edited)

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ISTP

Libra

First option

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INFJ

Pisces

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There’s something off about this question. Is everything material items or qualities of human being? Am I at the beginning of my life with this person too? Or am i financially stable while this person is just getting started? I’m 47 rn and if this person is 23… there’s complications for me. I prefer men near my age so we can relate. Too young is just difficult to relate too. Too old and well their parts don’t work the way they were meant to. I’ll take the human qualities in a person near the same age and stage of life. Where are these people? I’m also open to all genders.

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INFJ

Pisces

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Definitely the first one! Why should you let yourself suffer again? 😌

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INTJ

Capricorn

I think the real question is would be learn to grow to get along and love eachother? If so I don’t mind a challenge but I see no point in trying to work with someone who doesn’t want to change for the better

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INTP

Cancer

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To me it really doesn't matter

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INFJ

Sagittarius

Id wanna go on the journey its the ups and downs that make any kind of relationship stronger

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ENTP

Aries

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with someone who is still at the beginning it's just seems more adventurous

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INTJ

Gemini

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let's just do it for the plot ✨

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INFJ

Aquarius

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Someone who I feel comfortable and compatible with. If I go for someone who I have been looking for then I should be someone who they are looking for too. I want someone who won't k*ll the child in me, one who will try to understand me, who will value me, and won't make me question my worth. I am growing and I want someone who is willing to grow with me. (edited)

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INFJ

Libra

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Personally, I want someone who's already stable. But if I meet someone who's still building up his career then we will make it work together. (edited)

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INFP

Scorpio

The first. I think regardless of whether or not they check off the boxes, the future will bring hurdles regardless. The difference is, I'd want to be with someone who has already taken the time to get to know themselves and I can meet them where they are at.

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ISFJ

Scorpio

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I just want to be happy, it doesn't matter either way otherwise

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ENFJ

Leo

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With someone I get along with well who shares enough common interests to fill in the gaps in the voids in my life.

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ESFP

Pisces

I'm too old to date somebody just starting their life. I am set, went through therapy. I want the same from my partner. Fixed head,fixed life :)

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INTJ

Libra

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Being realistic, nobody is perfect. Everyone may dream of going for a relationship with the 1st option but that doesn't mean there won't be hurdles or challenges. Then there is the 2nd option to consider, growth from overcoming said challenges can make the relationship stronger. Regardless, what matters is who makes you happy. 👌 (edited)

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

Ummmm. Instead of putting my pov I will prefer to stick to the question.. I will go with the person who is in his initials or in middle of things.. hustle and hurdles are part of life ... What matters is emotional support and believe ❣️ for each other ... And most mostttt important understanding. (edited)

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ENFP

Leo

Nobody is perfect so I would rather have a relationship with someone who wants to invest in a future together, which is apparently rare

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INTP

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Second options.. because I like challenging relationships 😈

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INTP

Pisces

With someone whose got everything I'm looking for

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INFP

Scorpio

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Any relationship comes with hurdles and challenges. Doesn't matter if that person is at the beginning. But I would choose the second then we can go through the hurdles and challenges together and grow together

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ISTJ

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Of course number 1, because I already have everything I want and am very settled, I wouldn't want to live with someone who has to start over from scratch with all the struggles..

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INTJ

Gemini

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Not sure how to answer this cause life itself is unpredicable. We suddenly lose and also gain.

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