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Posted Wednesday, May 22, 2024
1mo
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Aries
Pre - Judgement and it's Effect..
Imagine this: You're beginning to talk with someone, and everything is going smooth and great.. not a problem in sight!! ..Then, All of a sudden - you become misinterpreted from a statement or opinion.. and the mood completely changes! Not because of what you said, but because it's triggered memories for that other person!! This, is what I call Pre - Judgement.. and it's a common thing that most people find very difficult to accept within themselves!! Ever since I became aware of doing it at Times, I've been very Quick to own my mistakes and at least apologise for my part in it... sadly though, some seem to delight in triggering such events.. and kind of, you can actually tell - because they intentionally keep "needling" the point or rubbing salt into the wound.. they don't realise the emotional and psychological effects that has... being judged, based on other people's actions towards you.. is wrong. But having said that, it's also important to recognise that those are the feelings they are experiencing in that moment too.
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Its a survival mechanism for most people with unhealed trauma and they become avoidants. One way to express or create distance is by pre-judging in order to avoid closeness because of assumed ir expected “betrayal” so the person avoids or leaves before that “happens”.
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