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Question of the Day

Skylism

Posted Thursday, November 23, 2023

11/23/2023

INFP

Capricorn

How could the other/your partner comfort you when your feelings are hurt?

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Yammy (Yamyam)🇵🇭

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Cancer

2 Awards

A big big hug..🥺😅 just make me laugh and we're fine again .😮‍💨🤣😅😂

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Ree

ENTP

Libra

4 Awards

They never comfort me, and that's a fact, but i hope if one day i have a partner again, i just wish he can make me comfort with this 😁 i need to cuddle without he ask or i ask...😊

136

ENFJ

Libra

1 Award

with ice cream and cuddles And if it was his fault, he better get out of my sight after leaving the ice cream 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

Gregolonious

INTJ

Aries

Come on over.

Jessi👻

INFJ

Scorpio

2 Awards

Just physically being there, giving hugs, cracking jokes to make me smile and probably some headpats

Arthur

INFJ

Libra

Just being there and knowing they care

Kristen

INFJ

Pisces

Close quiet time, or intimate laughter (not sexy, but like, jokes that are between the two of us, does that make sense?)

𝖘𝖍𝖆𝖉𝐲 𝖘𝖆𝖓𝖙𝖔𝖘 ♫︎

INTJ

Cancer

By buying me nice things 💵 (edited)

Kevin

ENFP

Aries

By being there instead of leaving

Nares

INFJ

Taurus

Buying me celery😌😌😌

Dona 🦝👻🦝

INFP

Scorpio

1 Award

Sometimes loneliness helps you/me regenerate

SuSu

INFJ

Sagittarius

A big hug and cuddle.... Hearing me out... After I'm feeling bit better: Dancing with me Cracking jokes Lovely Talk Good food Ice cream 😂😂

Richard🇦🇺🦦

INTJ

Sagittarius

1 Award

Just sitting quietly 🤫

Unmesh

ENTP

Cancer

I think I speak for most (wo)men here: First of all, exist. Secondly, a partner who is willing to give a patient ear and then be ready to share some affection and then together fix it is the way to go. Goes without saying that it should be mutual for it to ever work.

Max

INTJ

1 Award

My feelings can be hurt, it's not a huge problem. My potential partner can (please, do) comfort me by not hurting my feelings. Then I'm fine.

Nilakshi

ENFJ

Leo

Crying me a river, hunting for forgiveness with endless apologies until I am satisfied or irritated, cooking good stuff, buying me new books, and most importantly handling all my tantrums like his life depends on it. 🤣

Bluu

ENFP

Taurus

I never had one, but my imagination would be, maybe some warm hug or a energetic distraction maybe 🤔

Nick

INTJ

Well when feelings are hurt, they can comfort us just by sitting with me head to head for a long time. 🤞

Natasha

INFJ

Gemini

By not hurting my feelings in the first place

Josh

INFP

Capricorn

1 Award

Hi Skylism! It really helps me when my partner validates my feelings and reassures me that they understand what I'm going through. How about you?

♥️ Silly_girl 😘

ISFP

Libra

Hugging me tight and give me a lot of kisses 😍💋💋 and of course he was brought my favorite ice cream and chocolate 🤭 that was before 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

Jordan

INFJ

Leo

A nice long hug and then just trying to get me to do some things I enjoy together would be very helpful. I will say sometimes just letting me stew can help too.

Sarah

ISTP

Gemini

What is with "the other"? What is that supposed to mean? Also, does anyone else see this question as "what is your love language?"?

Andy 🦂💀

ISFP

Scorpio

Leave me alone

Cato

ENFJ

Taurus

I want him to dig deep & tell me what's bothering him. If I'm upset, it's bc he's not happy. I want to understand why so I can be with him through it, and feel comfort in knowing our love beats both ways.

Alexander Guardado

ENFP

Aries

Just being there ❤️it is a blessing when someone else is next to you only to calm your heart

Emma

ISFP

Sagittarius

Listen and cuddle to make it all better

Mark

ISTJ

Sagittarius

Ryan taylor

ISTJ

Aquarius

By listening and try to make you feel better not try to fix everything

Sasha

ESFJ

Existing would be a great step in the right direction. 🥴

Pamela

ENFJ

Scorpio

He gave me reassurance with loving words and koala/bear hugs 🫂 If he was the one who caused the hurt then acknowledging his mistake, apologising and finally hugging did work. (edited)

✨Femme Fatale✨

ENFP

Libra

By making me talk it out and just being there to listen 👂 then work on things that hurt me and maybe do something goofy to make me laugh and we hug it out in the end

Mademoiselle Amy

INFJ

Aries

A shoulder to cry 😭on with a warm big hugs 🫂 and kisses 😘 yup that will do for me. 😊

Jhocelyne

ISFP

Aries

A big hug and time to listen to me. 🤗

Ralph

ENTP

Capricorn

Sometimes depending on the reason, just give space.

Tito

INTP

Aquarius

Idk....my feelings don't really get hurt ngl

Kris

INTJ

Cancer

As long as I can see that partner is there, silently waiting for me to get better, offer big hug and therefore shows that she respects our differences and always will deeply care. Short version: Be close and try to hug me until I let you :|

Maru

ESTJ

Capricorn

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A big big hug..🥺😅 just make me laugh and we're fine again .😮‍💨🤣😅😂

They never comfort me, and that's a fact, but i hope if one day i have a partner again, i just wish he can make me comfort with this 😁 i need to cuddle without he ask or i ask...😊

with ice cream and cuddles And if it was his fault, he better get out of my sight after leaving the ice cream 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

Come on over.

Just physically being there, giving hugs, cracking jokes to make me smile and probably some headpats

Just being there and knowing they care

Close quiet time, or intimate laughter (not sexy, but like, jokes that are between the two of us, does that make sense?)

By buying me nice things 💵 (edited)

By being there instead of leaving

Buying me celery😌😌😌

Sometimes loneliness helps you/me regenerate

A big hug and cuddle.... Hearing me out... After I'm feeling bit better: Dancing with me Cracking jokes Lovely Talk Good food Ice cream 😂😂

Just sitting quietly 🤫

I think I speak for most (wo)men here: First of all, *exist*. Secondly, a partner who is willing to give a patient ear and then be ready to share some affection and then together fix it is the way to go. Goes without saying that it should be mutual for it to ever work.

My feelings can be hurt, it's not a huge problem. My potential partner can (please, do) comfort me by not hurting my feelings. Then I'm fine.

Crying me a river, hunting for forgiveness with endless apologies until I am satisfied or irritated, cooking good stuff, buying me new books, and most importantly handling all my tantrums like his life depends on it. 🤣

I never had one, but my imagination would be, maybe some warm hug or a energetic distraction maybe 🤔

Well when feelings are hurt, they can comfort us just by sitting with me head to head for a long time. 🤞

By not hurting my feelings in the first place

Hi Skylism! It really helps me when my partner validates my feelings and reassures me that they understand what I'm going through. How about you?

Hugging me tight and give me a lot of kisses 😍💋💋 and of course he was brought my favorite ice cream and chocolate 🤭 that was before 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

A nice long hug and then just trying to get me to do some things I enjoy together would be very helpful. I will say sometimes just letting me stew can help too.

What is with "the other"? What is that supposed to mean? Also, does anyone else see this question as "what is your love language?"?

Leave me alone

I want him to dig deep & tell me what's bothering him. If I'm upset, it's bc he's not happy. I want to understand why so I can be with him through it, and feel comfort in knowing our love beats both ways.

Just being there ❤️it is a blessing when someone else is next to you only to calm your heart

Listen and cuddle to make it all better

By listening and try to make you feel better not try to fix everything

Existing would be a great step in the right direction. 🥴

He gave me reassurance with loving words and koala/bear hugs 🫂 If he was the one who caused the hurt then acknowledging his mistake, apologising and finally hugging did work. (edited)

By making me talk it out and just being there to listen 👂 then work on things that hurt me and maybe do something goofy to make me laugh and we hug it out in the end

A shoulder to cry 😭on with a warm big hugs 🫂 and kisses 😘 yup that will do for me. 😊

A big hug and time to listen to me. 🤗

Sometimes depending on the reason, just give space.

Idk....my feelings don't really get hurt ngl

As long as I can see that partner is there, silently waiting for me to get better, offer big hug and therefore shows that she respects our differences and always will deeply care. Short version: Be close and try to hug me until I let you :|

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I think I speak for most (wo)men here: First of all, exist. Secondly, a partner who is willing to give a patient ear and then be ready to share some affection and then together fix it is the way to go. Goes without saying that it should be mutual for it to ever work.