We use cookies on our website for a number of purposes, including analytics, performance, and advertising. Learn more.

OK!

Copied link!

Boo

Home

Match

Messages

Profile

Personality Database

Personality Tests

Resources

We stand for love.

Terms

Privacy

FAQ

Safety Tips

#questions

Question of the Day

Skylism

Posted Thursday, November 23, 2023

11/23/2023

INFP

Capricorn

How could the other/your partner comfort you when your feelings are hurt?

580

1857

Comment

Questions Community

The questions community, chat, and discussion.

JOIN NOW

best

new

Yammy (Yamyam)🇵🇭

INFJ

Cancer

2 Awards

A big big hug..🥺😅 just make me laugh and we're fine again .😮‍💨🤣😅😂

260

Ree

ENTP

Libra

4 Awards

They never comfort me, and that's a fact, but i hope if one day i have a partner again, i just wish he can make me comfort with this 😁 i need to cuddle without he ask or i ask...😊

136

ENFJ

Libra

1 Award

with ice cream and cuddles And if it was his fault, he better get out of my sight after leaving the ice cream 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

Gregolonious

INTJ

Aries

Come on over.

Jessi👻

INFJ

Scorpio

2 Awards

Just physically being there, giving hugs, cracking jokes to make me smile and probably some headpats

Arthur

INFJ

Libra

Just being there and knowing they care

Kristen

INFJ

Pisces

Close quiet time, or intimate laughter (not sexy, but like, jokes that are between the two of us, does that make sense?)

𝖘𝖍𝖆𝖉𝐲 𝖘𝖆𝖓𝖙𝖔𝖘 ♫︎

INTJ

Cancer

By buying me nice things 💵 (edited)

Kevin

ENFP

Aries

By being there instead of leaving

Nares

INFJ

Taurus

Buying me celery😌😌😌

Dona 🦝👻🦝

INFP

Scorpio

1 Award

Sometimes loneliness helps you/me regenerate

SuSu

INFJ

Sagittarius

A big hug and cuddle.... Hearing me out... After I'm feeling bit better: Dancing with me Cracking jokes Lovely Talk Good food Ice cream 😂😂

Richard🇦🇺🦦

INTJ

Sagittarius

1 Award

Just sitting quietly 🤫

Unmesh

ENTP

Cancer

I think I speak for most (wo)men here: First of all, exist. Secondly, a partner who is willing to give a patient ear and then be ready to share some affection and then together fix it is the way to go. Goes without saying that it should be mutual for it to ever work.

Max

INTJ

Cancer

1 Award

My feelings can be hurt, it's not a huge problem. My potential partner can (please, do) comfort me by not hurting my feelings. Then I'm fine.

Nilakshi

ENFJ

Leo

Crying me a river, hunting for forgiveness with endless apologies until I am satisfied or irritated, cooking good stuff, buying me new books, and most importantly handling all my tantrums like his life depends on it. 🤣

Bluu

ENFP

Taurus

I never had one, but my imagination would be, maybe some warm hug or a energetic distraction maybe 🤔

Nick

INTJ

Well when feelings are hurt, they can comfort us just by sitting with me head to head for a long time. 🤞

Natasha

INFJ

Gemini

By not hurting my feelings in the first place

Josh

INFP

Capricorn

1 Award

Hi Skylism! It really helps me when my partner validates my feelings and reassures me that they understand what I'm going through. How about you?

♥️ Silly_girl 😘

ISFP

Libra

Hugging me tight and give me a lot of kisses 😍💋💋 and of course he was brought my favorite ice cream and chocolate 🤭 that was before 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

Jordan

INFJ

Leo

A nice long hug and then just trying to get me to do some things I enjoy together would be very helpful. I will say sometimes just letting me stew can help too.

Sarah

ISTP

Gemini

What is with "the other"? What is that supposed to mean? Also, does anyone else see this question as "what is your love language?"?

Andy🇬🇧🦂🕷️💀

ISFP

Scorpio

Leave me alone

Cato

ENFJ

Taurus

I want him to dig deep & tell me what's bothering him. If I'm upset, it's bc he's not happy. I want to understand why so I can be with him through it, and feel comfort in knowing our love beats both ways.

Alexander Guardado

ENFP

Aries

Just being there ❤️it is a blessing when someone else is next to you only to calm your heart

Emma

ISFP

Sagittarius

Listen and cuddle to make it all better

Mark

ISTJ

Sagittarius

Ryan taylor

ISTJ

Aquarius

By listening and try to make you feel better not try to fix everything

Sasha

ESFJ

Existing would be a great step in the right direction. 🥴

Pamela

ENFJ

Scorpio

He gave me reassurance with loving words and koala/bear hugs 🫂 If he was the one who caused the hurt then acknowledging his mistake, apologising and finally hugging did work. (edited)

✨Femme Fatale✨

ENFP

Libra

By making me talk it out and just being there to listen 👂 then work on things that hurt me and maybe do something goofy to make me laugh and we hug it out in the end

Mademoiselle Amy

INFJ

Aries

A shoulder to cry 😭on with a warm big hugs 🫂 and kisses 😘 yup that will do for me. 😊

Jhocelyne

ISFP

Aries

A big hug and time to listen to me. 🤗

Ralph

ENTP

Capricorn

Sometimes depending on the reason, just give space.

Tito

INTP

Aquarius

Idk....my feelings don't really get hurt ngl

Kris

INTJ

Cancer

As long as I can see that partner is there, silently waiting for me to get better, offer big hug and therefore shows that she respects our differences and always will deeply care. Short version: Be close and try to hug me until I let you :|

Maru

ESTJ

Capricorn

Meet New People

50,000,000+ DOWNLOADS

JOIN NOW

Question of the Day

Edd

2/17/2025

INTP

Scorpio

What was the most challenging part of your relationship?

119

983

Question of the Day

Where do you feel most comfortable?

2/16/2025

519

4623

Question of the Day

How long does it take to fully open your heart to someone?

2/15/2025

524

4347

Question of the Day

Slim

2/12/2025

INTJ

Sagittarius

Do you think you can start over a friendship with a lover that broke your heart and betrayed you?

586

5236

Question of the Day

Imagine that there were other states of human besides life and death. What do you think they could be?

11/22/2023

411

1394

Question of the Day

How do you know when you've found the one?

2/13/2025

514

3926

Question of the Day

Dany

2/14/2025

INFJ

Aquarius

If you could take your partner back in time with you and allow them to share with you ONE personal experience from your past that you're fond of, what would it be?

424

2669

Question of the Day

Whats your top conversation starter on a first date?

11/21/2023

493

1961

Question of the Day

Meh

2/11/2025

ISTP

How would you tell a blind person what the color red was like?

503

3566

Question of the Day

Do you believe in karma?

11/20/2023

2162

3288

Question of the Day

What is the most difficult life lesson you’ve learnt?

2/10/2025

481

4505

Question of the Day

If you could choose what animal you could be reborn as, what animal would you choose?

2/8/2025

498

5116

Question of the Day

What's one thing anyone can do to develop more self-love and respect?

2/9/2025

524

4131

Question of the Day

Mateo

2/7/2025

INFP

Sagittarius

What makes you get up out of bed every day?

409

4627

Question of the Day

If you could change one thing about your life, what would it be?

2/6/2025

476

4372

Question of the Day

2/4/2025

ISFJ

Pisces

What's your first thought when you wake up?

489

5453

Question of the Day

What things are you trying to unlearn about yourself and the world?

2/5/2025

437

3811

Question of the Day

When was the last time you were lost?

2/3/2025

478

4473

Question of the Day

If you could erase certain memories, would you?

2/1/2025

547

4908

Question of the Day

If you could create a new law, what would it be?

2/2/2025

469

4438

Question of the Day

What is the turning point in your life?

1/31/2025

425

3971

Question of the Day

How to identify in Love and Attraction?

1/29/2025

476

3549

Question of the Day

Parav

1/26/2025

INFP

Aquarius

What is the biggest regret of your life ?

416

4527

Question of the Day

Aiden

1/30/2025

INTJ

Capricorn

What is your most controversial or unpopular opinion that people mostly disagree with and try to change your mind about it?

465

4539

Question of the Day

Is it wise for two different cultures to mix and fall for each other?

1/27/2025

835

4970

Question of the Day

How can you describe yourself using an ice cream flavor?🍧🍨

1/28/2025

498

4693

Question of the Day

What's your view on going to concerts alone?

1/24/2025

554

4848

Question of the Day

What did you want to be when you were small?

1/25/2025

508

5344

Question of the Day

What's something you used to believe about relationships but no longer do?

1/21/2025

506

4598

Question of the Day

Why are you so passionate about the future?

1/22/2025

458

4496

Question of the Day

Have you cheated with a neighbor?

1/20/2025

445

5977

Question of the Day

Meh

1/19/2025

ISTP

What should be the biggest priority in life?

568

5052

Question of the Day

What's the most embarrassing thing you did as a kid?

1/23/2025

425

4008

Question of the Day

Who is the most important person you dont wanna lose in your life?

1/14/2025

589

4746

Question of the Day

What's something you would invent if you had all the money in the world?

1/18/2025

454

4246

Question of the Day

Which is more important to you? Being loved or feeling safe?

1/13/2025

715

5738

Question of the Day

Do you think you are truly living authentically?

1/17/2025

619

4203

Question of the Day

What are the requirements for your perfect partner?

1/16/2025

486

4608

Question of the Day

💖Sarita💖

1/15/2025

ESFJ

Libra

What is your Ideal Date?

554

4637

Question of the Day

What makes a person interesting?

1/11/2025

542

4876

Question of the Day

What is the biggest sacrifice you have had to make?

1/12/2025

447

4365

Question of the Day

Arjun

1/8/2025

ESFJ

Scorpio

What is that argument you failed at the end?

320

3309

Question of the Day

Addy Drew

1/9/2025

INFJ

Cancer

If you could be any animal, what animal would you be and why?

382

4470

How could the other/your partner comfort you when your feelings are hurt?

Questions Community

A big big hug..🥺😅 just make me laugh and we're fine again .😮‍💨🤣😅😂

They never comfort me, and that's a fact, but i hope if one day i have a partner again, i just wish he can make me comfort with this 😁 i need to cuddle without he ask or i ask...😊

with ice cream and cuddles And if it was his fault, he better get out of my sight after leaving the ice cream 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

Come on over.

Just physically being there, giving hugs, cracking jokes to make me smile and probably some headpats

Just being there and knowing they care

Close quiet time, or intimate laughter (not sexy, but like, jokes that are between the two of us, does that make sense?)

By buying me nice things 💵 (edited)

By being there instead of leaving

Buying me celery😌😌😌

Sometimes loneliness helps you/me regenerate

A big hug and cuddle.... Hearing me out... After I'm feeling bit better: Dancing with me Cracking jokes Lovely Talk Good food Ice cream 😂😂

Just sitting quietly 🤫

I think I speak for most (wo)men here: First of all, *exist*. Secondly, a partner who is willing to give a patient ear and then be ready to share some affection and then together fix it is the way to go. Goes without saying that it should be mutual for it to ever work.

My feelings can be hurt, it's not a huge problem. My potential partner can (please, do) comfort me by not hurting my feelings. Then I'm fine.

Crying me a river, hunting for forgiveness with endless apologies until I am satisfied or irritated, cooking good stuff, buying me new books, and most importantly handling all my tantrums like his life depends on it. 🤣

I never had one, but my imagination would be, maybe some warm hug or a energetic distraction maybe 🤔

Well when feelings are hurt, they can comfort us just by sitting with me head to head for a long time. 🤞

By not hurting my feelings in the first place

Hi Skylism! It really helps me when my partner validates my feelings and reassures me that they understand what I'm going through. How about you?

Hugging me tight and give me a lot of kisses 😍💋💋 and of course he was brought my favorite ice cream and chocolate 🤭 that was before 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

A nice long hug and then just trying to get me to do some things I enjoy together would be very helpful. I will say sometimes just letting me stew can help too.

What is with "the other"? What is that supposed to mean? Also, does anyone else see this question as "what is your love language?"?

Leave me alone

I want him to dig deep & tell me what's bothering him. If I'm upset, it's bc he's not happy. I want to understand why so I can be with him through it, and feel comfort in knowing our love beats both ways.

Just being there ❤️it is a blessing when someone else is next to you only to calm your heart

Listen and cuddle to make it all better

By listening and try to make you feel better not try to fix everything

Existing would be a great step in the right direction. 🥴

He gave me reassurance with loving words and koala/bear hugs 🫂 If he was the one who caused the hurt then acknowledging his mistake, apologising and finally hugging did work. (edited)

By making me talk it out and just being there to listen 👂 then work on things that hurt me and maybe do something goofy to make me laugh and we hug it out in the end

A shoulder to cry 😭on with a warm big hugs 🫂 and kisses 😘 yup that will do for me. 😊

A big hug and time to listen to me. 🤗

Sometimes depending on the reason, just give space.

Idk....my feelings don't really get hurt ngl

As long as I can see that partner is there, silently waiting for me to get better, offer big hug and therefore shows that she respects our differences and always will deeply care. Short version: Be close and try to hug me until I let you :|

Related Posts

What was the most challenging part of your relationship?

Where do you feel most comfortable?

How long does it take to fully open your heart to someone?

Do you think you can start over a friendship with a lover that broke your heart and betrayed you?

Imagine that there were other states of human besides life and death. What do you think they could be?

How do you know when you've found the one?

If you could take your partner back in time with you and allow them to share with you ONE personal experience from your past that you're fond of, what would it be?

Whats your top conversation starter on a first date?

How would you tell a blind person what the color red was like?

Do you believe in karma?

What is the most difficult life lesson you’ve learnt?

If you could choose what animal you could be reborn as, what animal would you choose?

What's one thing anyone can do to develop more self-love and respect?

What makes you get up out of bed every day?

If you could change one thing about your life, what would it be?

What's your first thought when you wake up?

What things are you trying to unlearn about yourself and the world?

When was the last time you were lost?

If you could erase certain memories, would you?

If you could create a new law, what would it be?

What is the turning point in your life?

How to identify in Love and Attraction?

What is the biggest regret of your life ?

What is your most controversial or unpopular opinion that people mostly disagree with and try to change your mind about it?

Is it wise for two different cultures to mix and fall for each other?

How can you describe yourself using an ice cream flavor?🍧🍨

What's your view on going to concerts alone?

What did you want to be when you were small?

What's something you used to believe about relationships but no longer do?

Why are you so passionate about the future?

Have you cheated with a neighbor?

What should be the biggest priority in life?

What's the most embarrassing thing you did as a kid?

Who is the most important person you dont wanna lose in your life?

What's something you would invent if you had all the money in the world?

Which is more important to you? Being loved or feeling safe?

Do you think you are truly living authentically?

What are the requirements for your perfect partner?

What is your Ideal Date?

What makes a person interesting?

What is the biggest sacrifice you have had to make?

I think I speak for most (wo)men here: First of all, exist. Secondly, a partner who is willing to give a patient ear and then be ready to share some affection and then together fix it is the way to go. Goes without saying that it should be mutual for it to ever work.