what is your biggest challenge when it comes to dating?

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ISTJ

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1.Finding a guy who won't be focused on sex only 2.or who will actually meet with me in reality, without promising to come 3. or a guy who'd value me and considered me as a priority

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INFP

Leo

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๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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Most people wearing different mask! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐ŸŽฏ Too pretentious! Too Assuming! ๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿคช๐Ÿ˜… Let's be real! Be Authentic! ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‹โœŒ๏ธ Cheers! ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’–โœจ๏ธ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒป

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INFJ

Scorpio

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I guess standing out while being authentic

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INFP

Cancer

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All sorts of

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ENFJ

Libra

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๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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INFJ

Aries

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Where to park my dragon? ๐Ÿ‰ I guess dinner up in the sky! lol. I canโ€™t risk it. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†”๏ธ p/s: Kindly referred to my yesterdayโ€™s answers. Have a good day fellas!

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INTJ

Libra

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Dating It's a lot. Like, balancing work and trying to have a love life is a struggle. Itโ€™s harder to meet new people organically outside of work or dating app, I'm a bit wary because of past relationships, and it's just frustrating when we want different things. I'd love a perfect romance, but, realistically, I know that's not how it works.i'd love a fairy tale, a little delusional I know...๐Ÿคญ It's a mess, it's unpredictable,confusing but I'm still hoping it's worth the effort and continue trying. ๐ŸƒI'm choosing to learn, after all it's an amazing feeling finding the beauty in an messy love story๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป Love is not nuisance, satiety or riddles, is someone who will just get itโœจ

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ENFP

Pisces

I feel like people either have little to no goals in life and I would spend forever nagging them to think bigger or they outdo me tenfold and I can't keep up. Then there is my attachment style. So, I am aware of what's going on but not entirely sure how to fix it. I feel a great deal of it is simply me being in the house too much though.

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INTP

Taurus

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That even thou i start the conversation, noone ever replies back, like come on give me a chance!

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INFJ

Virgo

Actually getting to know someone

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9mo

INTP

Capricorn

Since I mostly talk to people that are far away, I would say distance is the number 1 challenge for me

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INFP

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Don't mind me just reading your hilarious responses. These are wild! ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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ISTJ

Aquarius

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When he has no clue about what to do with a woman who is not in for money and looks.

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ISTP

Pisces

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Finding someone

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ENFP

Pisces

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Meeting someone that meets my expectations

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9mo

INFP

Pisces

having to actually socially interact and bond

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9mo

INTP

Gemini

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The biggest challenge in dating is finding someone who truly understands and accepts you while building trust and keeping communication open.

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INFJ

Aquarius

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Building trust and maintaining it.. (edited)

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INTJ

Pisces

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~Someone who can keep up with me โœจ๏ธ ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿค—

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ISTJ

Cancer

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9mo

INFJ

Taurus

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Currently in a relationship... Biggest challenge is distance / time differences... We are currently working around the time difference issues. Distance is going to need more work to resolve, but I'm confident that with patience, time, and hard work we will be able to close that gap and start living our lives together.

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INFJ

Cancer

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...generally i'm afraid of human(S) ๐Ÿ™ƒ

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ENFP

Leo

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I think it's about knowing how to deal with differences

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9mo

ENFP

Cancer

Communication

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ENFJ

Virgo

Not knowing if someone is be there true self or wearing a mask

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9mo

INFJ

Aries

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Trust. It takes me forever to trust a person. It'll take me even longer to determine if they're the painfully specific person that I'm looking for. I just can't let people close like that. It's not worth the risk. :(

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INFP

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To get a loyal guy

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INTJ

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Safety

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INTP

Taurus

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The fact that I no longer know how to date. Everything seems so awkward ๐Ÿคฃ

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9mo

INFJ

Gemini

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Initiating conversations or date ideas and finding a guy who is not only intersted in being physical but will want to go on adventures with me and just be satisfied with me.

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INFP

Sagittarius

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Creating a safe haven for your partner, free from judgment and criticism, allows them to breathe freely and be their authentic self. However, not accepting and loving your partner for who they truly are can be damaging to the relationship.

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INFJ

Cancer

This.

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9mo

ESTJ

Leo

A lot don't even know where to start (edited)

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INTP

Taurus

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Just getting back into it it's daunting. It's been many years since I was single, and it's intimidating

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