how do you know that you are loved?

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Virgo

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Small and constant gestures that make you feel heard and cared for

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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Because I love myself that's more than enough! 🤭😆🤣😂🫠🤷‍♀️🤦 You won't expect it from someone without having it for yourself first! Everything starts within you! And that's your power! 🥰😍🫶 Cheers! 💕✨️🌸😋🌻🌈

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ESTP

Scorpio

He is present in difficult times, not just in easy ones.

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ENFJ

Libra

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with a simple questionnaire: 😄🤣😂

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INFJ

Scorpio

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Action, family doesn’t vocalize it.

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

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They show up. Their actions speak louder than their words. The food my mother makes and shares is her love language. The cheeky smiles shining bright through the eyes of my niece and nephews. The way some people may get annoyed but never give up on you.. Romantically, who knows 🤷🏽‍♀️ (edited)

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INFP

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Still trying to figure that one out.

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INTJ

Sagittarius

I know I’m loved if I feel supported and cared for, even when things are difficult. It's in the small gestures, the attention to my needs, and the patience people show. Love isn’t always loud or dramatic, but it’s in the way people stay with me, listen, and accept me for who I am. It’s the feeling of being seen and valued, even during the quietest moments.

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INFJ

Libra

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INFJ

Scorpio

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Good question. Let’s all gaze into the horizon until we figure this out

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INFP

Capricorn

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when I feel safe to talk freely about how I feel. that's when I know I'm loved.

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INFJ

Taurus

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It really depends on the person and how they communicate their love. My LDR GF likes to be on phone with me as much as she can; calling me during her lunch, after I wake up in the morning, and all day on the weekends... Honestly, I worry for her health during the morning calls because they are late night for her and she will sometimes stay up really late or wake up in the middle of the night (her time) because she is craving to hear my voice. She also shows her love by being her free, unrestrained authentic self around me. And *cough* oh my can she send me into a tizzy. 😍😍😘

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ENFP

Aries

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When someone does something just because they thought it would be nice.

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INTJ

Taurus

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When the person validates my thoughts and feelings... When they don't make fun of my ideas, but try to understand them even without fully agreeing

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INFJ

Sagittarius

they wanna keep you safe and will defend you no matter what

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INFJ

Leo

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When people go out of their way to do things for me I didn't ask them to do

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INFP

Capricorn

What is love?

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INFJ

Aries

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I know I am loved when someone stays consistent with me, even when I pull away. When they notice my silence, reach out, and make space for me to just be myself—without expectations or pressure. Love, to me, is found in the little things, the unspoken understanding, and the feeling that someone genuinely enjoys my presence without needing a reason.

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INFP

Aries

Like in disney princess, when they pursue you and take a challenges to be with you and end up happily ever after🤭

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INTJ

Capricorn

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I figured out what hated, tolerated, and none of the above are, put them in the sand and draw a line.

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INFJ

Pisces

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He always chooses me.

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INFJ

Scorpio

For me, it’s the little gestures that matter—like when someone remembers your favorite snack or checks in on you. How about you?

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INFP

Taurus

Random moments of “I saw this and thought you” / “I grabbed this for you today because I know you like it” etc.

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ISTP

Taurus

Consistency of what their words

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INFP

Libra

When Things turn out as how I want and,when that makes me happy, when I pray to God for something and he gives me immediately,when good things happen.

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ENFP

Libra

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Once you love yourself, it is very easy to tell when someone else loves you, they look out for you, they make small gestures and most importantly they listen and make the effort to understand you. Recently with my redundancy, I found that I have a lot of people around me that love me and want me to stick around, it has been eye-opening, so I'm making light of a negative situation

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INFP

Aquarius

When I really feel comfortable being myself around someone

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INFJ

Cancer

They choose to be with you everyday.

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INTJ

Scorpio

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When my partner smiles at me :)

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INFP

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when someone pays attention.

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INTP

Aries

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When I know I’ve messed up really badly, but I have people who have my back and will try to help me out. Or just be there for me..

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INFP

Cancer

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By still feeling that person pressence around and they show how much they care about you

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ESTP

Scorpio

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You know you are loved when you feel seen, valued, and supported for who you truly are. Love isn’t always grand gestures; it’s in the small, everyday things—someone remembering your favorite meal, checking in on you when you're quiet, or simply respecting your space while still being there when you need them. Love is also in the way people encourage your growth, stand by you in tough times, and celebrate your victories. It’s in their patience, understanding, and willingness to listen. Even when love isn’t expressed in words, it’s felt through actions—through consistency, kindness, and the feeling of warmth in their presence. Most importantly, knowing you are loved starts from within. When you love and accept yourself, you recognize the love others give you more clearly.

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INFJ

Leo

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I assume it’ll feel different than whatever I’m feeling now.

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ISTJ

Pisces

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When they have stick with you during and after your darkest moments

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INFJ

Cancer

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The small things, the compromises, the safety and the gestures that shows that they care

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INFP

Aries

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As simple as checking on me, it's the small things that matter & def the fact that someone thought of me ❤️

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