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Posted Saturday, December 7, 2024
12/7/2024
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AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙
5d
ENFP
Cancer
3 Awards
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Koffy
5d
ENFJ
Sagittarius
5 Awards
My God... What is this question early morning making me think.... 🤷♀️🤷♂️🤷🙄🙄🙄 Don't wanna go back to the worst days! But I have forgiven them long ago... And now you want me back... But sorry not sorry no U turn! 🤪😆😅🤣✌️ Now I'm in my Victory Era... Please enjoy your Regret Era yourself too! Don't bother me anymore...😆😆😆 When reality striking.... 🤪😝😂🤷🤷♂️🤷♀️ Anyway cheers! Let's just be happy... 🥰🫂💖✨️🌼🌻 (edited)
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🌀𝕊𝕡𝕒𝕔𝕖 ℂ𝕒𝕕𝕖𝕥🌀
5d
ENFP
Scorpio
I lost $1,500 on a car that I sold to a friend who never finished paying it. Despite constantly reminding them each month, payments were slow and it felt like I was pulling teeth. I just cut my losses and forgave them secretly. I moved on. The car was sold cheap too because I wanted to help their family member who recently came from another country. (edited)
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Léna
5d
ENFP
Libra
Abuse because abused people abuse and while you can distance yourself, you don't have to hold on to that hate
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Aiden Hardy
5d
INFP
Virgo
I'm not sure if ever forgiven someone over a serious offence. there was a mutual friend I slapped after i was pushed over the edge by their disrespect of me and felt bad about not saying stop before hand but i was too anxious to say stop before my physical response. i was the push over in my "friend" group so i was teased a lot in my group until that point. Edit: if this comment sounds all over the place or makes no sense its because I was really drunk when I typed this out. I'm Still a bit drunk. I was drinking with my brother, Dad and uncle do I had too much to to drink now I'm just sitting on the couch with my cat typing this out sorry not sorry for you drunkeness. lol (edited)
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Mariana
5d
INFP
Libra
i don't even know. I hold grudges 💀
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Austin
5d
ISTP
Gemini
Cheating
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Kika 🐈⬛🍉💗
5d
ENTP
Sagittarius
Nah .. I'm good.
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Alex Storm
5d
INTJ
Libra
I’ve never actually forgiven anyone in my 51 years because, to me, forgiveness can sometimes be misunderstood as excusing or forgetting someone’s harmful actions. I believe that a person’s actions, especially when they’ve hurt us in significant ways, offer a clear reflection of their capacity to hurt again. When someone demonstrates that they are capable of crossing certain boundaries or causing harm, that behavior becomes a part of the reality I need to consider when making future decisions about them. To me, it’s not about revenge or harboring anger—it’s about self-protection and informed choices. Forgiving someone in a way that lets their actions fade into the background could mean setting myself up for future harm or emotional damage. Instead of forgiveness, I prefer to acknowledge the reality of the past, accept it for what it is, and use that knowledge to protect myself and ensure that I make decisions that are best for my own well-being. I think of forgiveness in this context as something that can often be a form of emotional release, but for me, I focus more on learning from the past and setting boundaries that keep me, and others safe, even if it means accepting that I may never fully 'forgive.' It’s about acknowledging the truth of a situation and allowing that truth to guide my future actions, not about diminishing the gravity of what has been done.
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Vincent
5d
ENFP
Scorpio
Pawning my jewellery... but I got it back.
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Phoebe
5d
INFJ
Aquarius
I still remember and feel everything wrong that people have done to me whenever how big or small it is.. self-betrayal is the worst offence that i haven't forgiven myself yet..
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Chinmayi
5d
ENFJ
Cancer
I forgave someone who hurted me for 3 yrs..
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Akkie
5d
INFP
Aquarius
Betrayal but not yet forgiven
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Mahi
5d
INFP
Scorpio
Cheating
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Natasha
5d
INFJ
Gemini
I have forgiven so much people I don’t know which one was the worst
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Jenn
5d
ESTJ
Gemini
Cheating.
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Rose
5d
INTJ
Leo
Cheating.
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Tyler Cale
5d
INTP
Capricorn
Cutting ties with me. They were in an abusive relationship but didn't realise it and their partner at the time made them choose between me and him. She chose him and then a few months later messaged me apologising for not noticing that he was abusive sooner. I forgave her because I had been in her position in the past so I knew what it was like
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Kory
5d
INTP
Taurus
A lot. It's easy to forgive. Just can't forget otherwise they'll do it again
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