What mistake did you learn the most from?

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ISTP

Aries

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Getting married

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ENTP

Taurus

Falling in love too quickly.

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ISFP

Aries

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Not giving myself the chance to experience more of life before having a kid. Falling for a narcissist. (I know people misuse that term a lot now, but he basically checked off the entire list)

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ENFP

Scorpio

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When I was in my early twenties, I wasted time and money on college because I didnโ€™t try. The reasoning was, I didnโ€™t do it for myself. I was afraid of disappointing my loved ones. My reasoning and will was weak. The money and time spent, was a lot. However, Iโ€™m back in the game. This time, with my own motivation. Doing much better because of it. Your motivation in life really does make a difference on how you do things. Reason being is because, that same reason will continue to push you, even when times get tough. If your reason and will is weak, then weak results will produce. If itโ€™s strong, your results will reflect this. (edited)

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1y

ESFJ

Sagittarius

Loving and giving it all. Learned that you need to love yourself too.

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1y

ENFJ

Libra

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Underestimate life Not being responsible with this step through life and not being aware that we are moments ๐Ÿซ‚

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1y

ENFP

Scorpio

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Taking loans out at an early age for someone else. Never do this, no matter how much you trust someone!

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1y

ISTJ

Taurus

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Being too nice to people thinking that people will respond to that kindness how I would, but instead ending up being taken advantage of ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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1y

ISTJ

Taurus

begging for people to stay

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1y

INFP

Libra

My biggest mistake is that I didn't believe in myself enough when I was younger.

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1y

INFJ

Gemini

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I was in college when I met my ex bf. It was my first real relationship but fell apart when I got pregnant. I do not regret having a baby even if he totally abandoned us because my kid, who is now an adult, is a beacon of light in my life. But I wish I waited a bit and set up a comfortable life for her. The first 10 years was tough. (edited)

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1y

ISFJ

Taurus

Never take anyone in your life for granted

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1y

ESTP

Aries

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Don't lend your money to a friend. You might lose both sooner or later!

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1y

ISTP

My biggest mistake was my ex.. What a let down. But at least one good thing came out of it... I know mixed martial arts now ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜Ž

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1y

INFJ

Cancer

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Being crazy in love..๐Ÿ™‚ I end up being a single parent.. But its okay I learned so much about that not to expect so much in everyone..and not to trust easily ..๐Ÿ˜Š

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1y

ENTJ

Libra

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They say a smart man learns from his mistakes, but a wise man learns from the mistakes of others. And the mistake I learned from the most was when my mom married my dad. Those two definitely showed me what I did NOT want in a marriage ๐Ÿ˜–๐Ÿ˜–

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1y

INFP

Taurus

My upbringing taught me not to ask for help - I had to unlearn that because I now notice people are happy to help if you ask!

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1y

INFJ

Aries

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Trusting someone so blindly just because they were nice to you

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INFJ

Gemini

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When you decide to get married make sure you can live with that person with all their baggage and behaviors for the rest of your life

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

When I left home at 15 because I wanted to be independent and I faced hard times! I went through a lot but I have learned that THEREโ€™S NOTHING YOU CANNOT MANAGE by yourself so I pushed myself to live ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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ENFP

Leo

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Always give it 3 months before fully accepting a person's behavior. A person can only keep up an act for around 3 months. Don't let the beauty of the past validate their actions of the present. You will only end up hurting yourself๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

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1y

INFJ

Scorpio

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I learned I had to read and take notes in college. Cost me a semester.

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1y

INTJ

Aquarius

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5

Forgetting something on the stove X-x

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1y

ENFP

Pisces

Anytime I did anything out of thinking that the grass is greener elsewhere. The grass is greener where you water it, and the rest is on God.

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1y

ENFJ

Capricorn

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Marrying my ex wife. She lied about who she was and I paid the price. I ignored the red flags because I thought I was in love

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1y

ESTJ

Taurus

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Dating ...

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1y

INFP

Libra

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Not trusting my gut.

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ENTP

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Loving someone for their potential instead of what they are

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ISTJ

Pisces

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To keep on embracing toxic people. The biggest life mistake ever made and taught me a lesson. To get the rid of them, the fastest, no matter what

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1y

INFP

Libra

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Learnt from a mistake that itโ€™s actually perfectly okay to say no ๐Ÿ˜„ (edited)

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1y

INFJ

Sagittarius

Falling in love to the wrong person.

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2

1y

INFP

Capricorn

Putting too much trust in people

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1y

INFP

Aquarius

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Never let someone you thought loved you and had your best interest control your body. Never let them to speak for your wants and needs.

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INTP

Gemini

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Trusting that family will always be there for me. It's never that way for me I learned the hard way

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INFP

Aquarius

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Don't lie.. it can ruin your whole life and future

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