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1y
INTJ
First of all recognize your value, only then will you understand that you deserve to be loved. Before you look for the right person, be it the right person and how can you do it? Loving yourself, I do not speak of “loving” praising your own ego, but loving yourself in knowing that you have value, to know that you are loved, and know that you deserve this feeling. Allow yourself to love and allow someone to love you even if you have already been hurt many times. When we hurt with the thorn of a flower, we will not exclude all the flowers of our lives. The same thing fits our connivance, we often hurt because we are too stubborn, we do the same thing waiting for a different result. Valori -ze, even if you need to walk against the world. While many talk about banal things, look for something for life… because in the end that's what matters.
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Karma
1y
ENFP
Aquarius
Love yourself first!
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Stephanie
1y
ENFJ
Scorpio
Love ourselves ☺️
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Chris
1y
INFJ
Virgo
Continue to give the love, friendship, and kindness to others who are as deserving.
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Haseeb
1y
INTP
Aquarius
Love yourself
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Toni
1y
ISTJ
Cancer
Be our best selves. Love ourselves and put ourselves first. Or something like that idk. That's what I've been told at least. (edited)
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Douglas
1y
ENFP
Gemini
Realize that you don't "deserve" anything. The world doesn't owe you a damn thing.
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Anna
1y
INFP
Learn to love yourself first... then learn to give love... and learn to receive love
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Zabrina
1y
INTP
Aquarius
First and foremost, STOP IGNORING RED FLAGS! But also one has to learn to love and embrace their self. Once someone truly starts to love their self, they will begin to see what their self worth is. And from that point on, it's just a matter of not accepting anything less than the love you deserve.
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Eri
1y
INTJ
Sagittarius
Firstly, love yourself.
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R3n
1y
ESTP
Aquarius
Give the same love you deserve to receive.
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Labyrinth
1y
ENFJ
Pisces
Sometimes there is nothing you can do. If you have to....Maybe that is not the relationship you should be in or want to be in.
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Gypsy
1y
ENTJ
Scorpio
Very well said buddy. I think that's what's @Paty is trying to achieve through her question. Unless we recognise our worth and appreciate it, we will never be able to appreciate others.
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Phoenix
1y
INFJ
Sagittarius
If you don't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. Positive people attract other positive people and misery loves company. People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Teach people how to love you and don't settle for less. All anyone can do is spread kindness. Treat people the way you want to be treated but don't be a fool..... Give what you get. If someone will not love you how you deserve then don't block the door for someone who will.
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Jackie
1y
INFJ
Virgo
You have to start with yourself before you can love others.. sometimes it takes awhile to heal from whatever you went through.. I'm going through a ugly divorce with a boy that is abusive to me n my kids. I’m not sure if I'll ever be be be ready after I break completely free .my kids come first
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MJ
1y
INFP
Leo
We should 'be/do' the love that we deserve, first for ourselves, and also for others around us..We attract what we are!!
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Dishani
1y
INFP
Scorpio
I think we cnt do anything in this matter bcz eventually we won't get what we deserve
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SajiNoKami
1y
INTP
Capricorn
Well if you have to do things you wouldn't normally do, then it wasn't for you. Be you, the nontoxic version, and the right thing for you will be presented.
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Haru
1y
INTJ
Libra
Know your own boundaries and limits. You won't even know what is this 'love you deserve' if you don't yet know what you don't
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Jeff
1y
INFP
Scorpio
Communicate clearly about our boundaries and don't compromise them for anyone.
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Nicholas
1y
INFP
Taurus
Love our self only then we can love and be loved
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Vincent
1y
ENFJ
Gemini
Wait, be patient.
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Steven
1y
INFP
Libra
We can be the Love that we want to see in others
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