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John · Accepted Answer

Articulate, insightful and emotive.
Thank you so much for sharing this.

Katja · Answer

Hey Lexii, you sound like a very nice and cute person.
The thing is: what you describe has nothing to do with you being disabled and you're able to change that. *yeay
Because what you describe is a typical experience of people pleaser. What you have to do is:
1) Stop trying. If you have to try hard, this people are no fit, they are not "your" people. It's never gonna work. You have to accept that. It's like wanting a sweet apple pie and pick potatoes. The outcome will never be what you desire.
2) Cut this people out of your life. I know it's hard. You probably like them and don't want to be alone. But if you stick with this people there is no space for others.
3) Choose consciously beig alone for a while. It's a little bit like a reset. Take good care of yourself, love yourself, think about what YOU really want and need.
4) Take a close look at people. Who is in front of you? Is it another potatoe, then don't engage with them. Remember the sweet apple pie. Certain ingredients are needed. Is it a pear - hmm, maybe a sweet pear pie would do it too. And if you made some experiences and are flexible enough, maybe a pumpkin could be worth a try as well.

It might be took years. But it's worth and you will see a change in your life.
Lexi, I wish you all the best. You deserve that.

JCobb · Answer

Oof I feel bads I didn’t listen b4 I commented and now that I did let me say that was a big share and I consider you valid and you matter it’s hard being a giver in a world full of takers but don’t let that dim your light you never know a pretty moth might be hovering around .

Adam · Answer

A little late to the party but I must say you should never let limitations of any kind put an end to the person you are, you dont need to change for anyone,  you still matter to those who hold you dear, aslong as you have the best support network around you, you can move mountains and you don't have to try and please others, do what makes you happy everything else will fall into place as it should when times are right, 1 important thing in my journey I learnt was you are your own best friend, when all else fails self-love if often the best thing, be happy for yourself rather than waisting it on those who are just out to exploit it. The offer goes out to you too need a ear to rant at just drop me a line and I Hope you have an amazing weekend.

Rob · Answer

Don't give up, your light is too bright to let it be buried. It can be hard when it feels like the world wants to just overlook you. Make you feel like you don't matter. Make you feel like no one would notice if you just vanish. But we all see your strength here, and truly hope that some day soon, you will find your knight. Because just like you feel like you'll never find him, somewhere, he's searching for his other half too. You will find each other. Time can only keep soul mates apart for so long.

It takes a lot of courage to open and expose yourself the way you did, and I truly respect and acknowledge that strength.

Jessica · Answer

I hear you... I feel you... I see you... Don't change my dear, your soul is glowing ✨ you will be found xxx

JCobb · Answer

Talkies !

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Mentalhealth Community

Articulate, insightful and emotive. Thank you so much for sharing this.

Oof I feel bads I didn’t listen b4 I commented and now that I did let me say that was a big share and I consider you valid and you matter it’s hard being a giver in a world full of takers but don’t let that dim your light you never know a pretty moth might be hovering around .

I hear you... I feel you... I see you... Don't change my dear, your soul is glowing ✨ you will be found xxx

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