If the person you met on a dating app and fell in love with, turned out to be faking their identity, would you still love them?

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Libra

Identity theft is not a joke, Jim 🥸 &you need to watch the Tinder Swindler, billionaires don't use dating apps 🗿

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INFJ

Libra

Nope. They're a liar. Can't trust them.

INTJ

Cancer

You can't build a relationship on lies. Trust is a must!

ESFJ

Cancer

If someone thinks it’s okay to lie about crucial details involving themself, can you trust they won’t lie about smaller things? Can you believe they aren’t lying about anything else? The relationship would be over before it started, and there’s no road to redemption. Trying to pursue from there would be unhealthy for everyone involved.

INFP

Aries

Only if they were this man:

INFJ

Scorpio

Trust, respect and honesty come before love. Therefore, never talk to him again as he never existed, and move forward.

INFJ

Gemini

No! How can u love someone who was fake from the very beginning with u. Honesty matters alot.

ISFJ

Aries

No, because I don't believe in lying, and you can't start a relationship based on lies, no matter what it is.

ESFJ

Leo

I'm sorry but your question of the day is complicated cause you shouldn't love anyone just chatting on a dating app without meeting that person we all know how many fake people there are out there 🙈🙉🙊

ENTP

Gemini

Thats a good question but I guess every one does some thing for a reason even if you don't understand it but that doesn't mean I will then trust them

ENTJ

Libra

If depends how much you felt for that person you talk too, or the person you think to talking to. And honestly always make sure whom youre falling for, unless you don't fall every week 😂

INFJ

Aries

either way there's a really cool musical about that concept called 36 questions- it's about a man discovering the woman he had been with was lying about everything ever since their first date, when he suggested they play a game of 36 questions. And now, they have to "play it again" as he tries to meet the real her!!!

ENTJ

Scorpio

Depends. It's on a case to case basis.

INTP

Taurus

I do not fall so easily so before it goes down to the extreme i do my investigation

ISFJ

Pisces

Oh.boy... let's clarify the steps: I like you I'm in love with you 💕 OMG you lied to me about your identity!!! WHY? How could I trust you now? I still like.you but I cannot feel I can trust you anymore, hence I love you less I do not love you anymore. THE END.

INFP

It would hurt a lot... but I would choose no and try to process my feelings as much as possible... that also goes with not just general identity but other facades such as pretending to have faith/values/interests similar to you just to get your attention etc..

INTP

Aries

Nope 🤷‍♀️

ESFJ

That's just my freakin' luck. I'd be so sad...

ENTJ

Leo

No. The relationship would be built off a lie.

INTP

Pisces

Yeah but I would still end it cuz I would feel like they lied about everything and they aren't the person I fell for

INFP

Aquarius

I wouldn’t fall in love with a liar but maybe that’s just me lol. If they’re pretending to be like a real person or celebrity that’s really weird, but if they just don’t like showing their face until we meet in person though like that’s understandable and isn’t really faking an identity. But if they’re straight up saying they’re some random person and getting random pics of ppl from anywhere not them that’s like odd and a red flag.

ENFJ

Aquarius

If I met a person on a dating app and fell in love turns out to be fake... hmm let me think here🤔🤔🤔

INFP

Cancer

No. It's built on a foundation of lies

INFP

Cancer

Hmmm.. Hard questions but its really happen in all dating apps.. For me, it d3pends on how far he lied and the reason behind dat.. Still loving him? Hmmm.. It depends also..😂😅✌🏼✌🏼

INFP

Gemini

No, because the whole relationship was built on a lie👴

INFJ

Sagittarius

Depends on to what degree they were faking their identity. If they decided to use a nickname that wasn't their real name sure. If they are a completely different person no

ENTP

Aries

Yes because love doesn't just turn off. I might feel betrayed, lied to, like I can't trust them to be honest because they didn't lead with that or disclose early in relationship before love. Yes. The answer is yes.

ENFP

Sagittarius

Hell no

ENTP

Taurus

Just depends on how deep the lies actually go. Some stuff I can overlook because we all have insecurities sometimes and fear judgement, but you still gotta be honest about most of yourself for that to work

INTP

Capricorn

Depends on why and how I found out.

INTJ

Aquarius

If it is only limited to a fake name and location, then I would likely have no change in feelings.

ISFJ

Libra

No. That's a huge amount of deceit.

INFJ

Virgo

If it's just faking their identity (i.e. name/address/etc) but not their personality, beliefs, and feelings, particularly towards me, then I would listen to the explanation. But there would have to be a damn legitimate reason for the deception. And they would have to understand that although when I love someone it is unconditional it does not mean I am masochistic.

INFP

Pisces

as much as i love a good romance trope, this is the real world and thas a big nono 😬 (edited)

ESTJ

Taurus

To all guys who's been personally DM'ed me: Don't fall in love with me. I'm a shemale. 😘 Wakakakakakakakakakakaka!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

INFJ

Aquarius

You lost me at "met on a dating app and fell in love with" Has that EVER actually happened?????

INTJ

Cancer

I'm assuming this means it's a major lie...if that's the case then no, relationships need to have trust in the foundation and if they've been lying to me about most everything then trust was never involved from their end I mean if you lied about who you are from the very beginning then how can I trust you when you "reveal" your true self?

INFJ

Sagittarius

Nah once a fake always a fake

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Identity theft is not a joke, Jim 🥸 &you need to watch the Tinder Swindler, billionaires don't use dating apps 🗿

Nope. They're a liar. Can't trust them.

You can't build a relationship on lies. Trust is a must!

Only if they were this man:

Trust, respect and honesty come before love. Therefore, never talk to him again as he never existed, and move forward.

No! How can u love someone who was fake from the very beginning with u. Honesty matters alot.

No, because I don't believe in lying, and you can't start a relationship based on lies, no matter what it is.

I'm sorry but your question of the day is complicated cause you shouldn't love anyone just chatting on a dating app without meeting that person we all know how many fake people there are out there 🙈🙉🙊

Thats a good question but I guess every one does some thing for a reason even if you don't understand it but that doesn't mean I will then trust them

If depends how much you felt for that person you talk too, or the person you think to talking to. And honestly always make sure whom youre falling for, unless you don't fall every week 😂

Depends. It's on a case to case basis.

I do not fall so easily so before it goes down to the extreme i do my investigation

Oh.boy... let's clarify the steps: I like you I'm in love with you 💕 OMG you lied to me about your identity!!! WHY? How could I trust you now? I still like.you but I cannot feel I can trust you anymore, hence I love you less I do not love you anymore. THE END.

It would hurt a lot... but I would choose no and try to process my feelings as much as possible... that also goes with not just general identity but other facades such as pretending to have faith/values/interests similar to you just to get your attention etc..

Nope 🤷‍♀️

That's just my freakin' luck. I'd be so sad...

No. The relationship would be built off a lie.

Yeah but I would still end it cuz I would feel like they lied about everything and they aren't the person I fell for

If I met a person on a dating app and fell in love turns out to be fake... hmm let me think here🤔🤔🤔

No. It's built on a foundation of lies

Hmmm.. Hard questions but its really happen in all dating apps.. For me, it d3pends on how far he lied and the reason behind dat.. Still loving him? Hmmm.. It depends also..😂😅✌🏼✌🏼

No, because the whole relationship was built on a lie👴

Depends on to what degree they were faking their identity. If they decided to use a nickname that wasn't their real name sure. If they are a completely different person no

Yes because love doesn't just turn off. I might feel betrayed, lied to, like I can't trust them to be honest because they didn't lead with that or disclose early in relationship before love. Yes. The answer is yes.

Hell no

Just depends on how deep the lies actually go. Some stuff I can overlook because we all have insecurities sometimes and fear judgement, but you still gotta be honest about most of yourself for that to work

Depends on why and how I found out.

If it is only limited to a fake name and location, then I would likely have no change in feelings.

No. That's a huge amount of deceit.

as much as i love a good romance trope, this is the real world and thas a big nono 😬 (edited)

To all guys who's been personally DM'ed me: Don't fall in love with me. I'm a shemale. 😘 Wakakakakakakakakakakaka!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You lost me at "met on a dating app and fell in love with" Has that EVER actually happened?????

Nah once a fake always a fake

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