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How does one go about having a romantic relationship, even if one has had a history of commitment issues?

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Wow, this is becoming Dr.Phil... Alright, then... ermm. How about, you don't commit straight away and take it slow. Get to know people, as friends, see what type of people you like, then slowly choose who you may want more with.. Hopefully you're comfortable enough with someone to take them out, so then just ask and go from there. "I'm so smooth, butter wants to taste me." (Yes, this is an original "A" quote, I wrote down a few years ago 😅)

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INFJ

Gemini

🤪🤣😉🫶🫰😎✌️

INFJ

Scorpio

Well, Pepé can tell you how NOT to go about it

ENTJ

Leo

Work on yourself. Way too many try to fill the void in their own lives by dragging others along as a form of personal therapy. Get yourself right first.

ENFP

Virgo

Hey Joey, I'm no expert, but I think it's about finding someone who's on the same page as you. If you're both willing to work on your issues together, that's half the battle. Don't be afraid to take risks and be vulnerable.

ENFJ

Sagittarius

Start with figuring out WHY you have commitment issues and work on that. Then figure out why and what you want in a relationship then it's just being a nice human and showing mutual affection and respect.

ENFP

Leo

Love is a risk, and we all are just players in this game. You choose the speed, and how fast it goes but you can not lose yourself 💪

INFP

Leo

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ENFP

Aries

Therapy first you don’t want to make a second one

ENFJ

Sagittarius

1. Open communication .Be honest with your partner about your commitment issues. Open communication is key to building trust and understanding in a relationship. Discuss your concerns, fears, and boundaries openly and listen to your partner's perspective as well. 2. Set realistic expectations.Understand that no relationship is perfect, and it's normal to have doubts and fears. Accept that relationships require effort, compromise, and vulnerability. Set realistic expectations for yourself and your partner. 3.Build Trust. Trust is essential in any relationship. Work on building trust with your partner through consistent communication, honesty, and reliability. Trust takes time to develop, so be patient with yourself and your partner. There is us one more but let me construct the paragraph first 😅

ESTP

Gemini

Taking it one day at a time

INTJ

Cancer

Why not find another red flag person with commitment issues to start a relationship? It’s a win - win for everyone!

ISFJ

Capricorn

Therapy and Learning how to trust someone (edited)

ENFP

Aries

Therepy bro.

INFP

Sagittarius

I don’t know the answer to this

INFP

Capricorn

Take it slow, and go to therapy (to learn if there's a deeper cause to that detachment)

INFJ

Leo

Learn how to fix or cope with the issues then try, never get into one til ready because it’ll be unfair to the other party.

ENTP

Aquarius

What's commitment has to do with a bit of romance ? If you love someone do you have to bind it to a set of rules ? Are we going back to middle ages ? Give her a flower, open a door, say a nice compliment, tell her/him a nice story, a small gift, a walk in a park, whatever... A nice candle light dinner and a massage.. spa for 2, whatever sexy times you might fancy ... Enjoy time together, don't make foolish promises that you might break it's just good times. Use good protection and you might have no issues ☺️😉

INTJ

Capricorn

For me, it's simple: if someone can show me they're genuinely interested in me and willing to put in the work, I'm open to exploring something real. No games, no pretenses. Just honesty and mutual respect.

INTJ

Virgo

Just put in effort the issues are just fear and an excuse.

INFJ

Aries

Its a difficult question to answers it really from how i see it and there are certain things in life that don’t have all the answers too..and sometimes it’s true love really is blind.. 🤷🏻‍♀️just my two cents.

INFP

Don't know 😶

INTP

Aries

Nah i actually need advice bro...the question is my life

ENFJ

Gemini

Work on yourself first. Understand why you have commitment issues. Is there something you need that you aren't getting? Is there a trauma that isn't healed? You can't and shouldn't depend on a partner saving you or making you healthy or better. You absolutely don't have to be perfectly healthy to get into a relationship but you should be working on yourself and you should be getting better.

ENFJ

Libra

Get to the root of the commitment issues. Then try to find that romantic relationship.

ESFP

Scorpio

Romantic feel is one of the beautiful feelings for our human life... If someone really loving a person, whom they wanna be with them for long-term. That will make strengthen their romance become stronger with commitment. Even though their previous history of bad in commitment. The person who really love and have romantic relationship. That will change the wrong person into honest true loving commitment person..... True Love can make wonders💞

INTP

Sagittarius

Therapy seems like the obvious answer

INTP

Gemini

I'm in a similar boat. I just try to move forward. Worst has already happened 🤷🏽‍♀️

ESTJ

Gemini

Communication and understanding are key, find someone who understands your concerns and is willing to work through them together. It's okay to slow things down and prioritize your own emotional well being.

INFP

Libra

Hmm i guess that would depend on the reason for the commitment issues. If its wondering sex drive issues then maybe relationships are not for you. If its argumentative issues then maybe your just with the wrong person. If its fear or resentment to get married then there is probably an underlying reason for it. To be honest in this society so many people fear commitment due to either bad past relationships or hearing or seeing stories unfold that made the fear it. Woth this situation its just a case of finding someone you feel you can honestly trust, if you don't trust them enough to commit to them maybe its not the right person.

ISTP

dont think,

INTP

Good luck

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Therapy

🤪🤣😉🫶🫰😎✌️

Start with self exploration.

Well, Pepé can tell you how NOT to go about it

Work on yourself. Way too many try to fill the void in their own lives by dragging others along as a form of personal therapy. Get yourself right first.

Hey Joey, I'm no expert, but I think it's about finding someone who's on the same page as you. If you're both willing to work on your issues together, that's half the battle. Don't be afraid to take risks and be vulnerable.

Start with figuring out WHY you have commitment issues and work on that. Then figure out why and what you want in a relationship then it's just being a nice human and showing mutual affection and respect.

Love is a risk, and we all are just players in this game. You choose the speed, and how fast it goes but you can not lose yourself 💪

..

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Taking it one day at a time

Why not find another red flag person with commitment issues to start a relationship? It’s a win - win for everyone!

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Therepy bro.

I don’t know the answer to this

Take it slow, and go to therapy (to learn if there's a deeper cause to that detachment)

Learn how to fix or cope with the issues then try, never get into one til ready because it’ll be unfair to the other party.

For me, it's simple: if someone can show me they're genuinely interested in me and willing to put in the work, I'm open to exploring something real. No games, no pretenses. Just honesty and mutual respect.

Just put in effort the issues are just fear and an excuse.

Its a difficult question to answers it really from how i see it and there are certain things in life that don’t have all the answers too..and sometimes it’s true love really is blind.. 🤷🏻‍♀️just my two cents.

Don't know 😶

Nah i actually need advice bro...the question is my life

Get to the root of the commitment issues. Then try to find that romantic relationship.

R

Therapy seems like the obvious answer

I'm in a similar boat. I just try to move forward. Worst has already happened 🤷🏽‍♀️

Communication and understanding are key, find someone who understands your concerns and is willing to work through them together. It's okay to slow things down and prioritize your own emotional well being.

dont think,

Good luck

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