When you have reached rock bottom, what would be your motivation ?

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2y

ENFP

Cancer

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Hope and trust in God

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2y

INFJ

Capricorn

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I thought of ending my own life when I reached my lowest. It was like my whole existence served no purpose and felt like nobody was there for me. I am glad I didnโ€™t succeed in those silly attempts. Now I have myself regardless of my ups and downs. Even when I feel negative and depressed, I still have me and I acknowledge my feelings. Somehow I will make it since nothing is permanent in this world and so do my tough situations.

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2y

INTJ

Pisces

Dig deeper? Lol jk but I like to think: "at least there's only the way UP from now on, right?"

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2y

ISTJ

Aries

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1

I gave myself time to greive over the failure but remind myself that I need to keep going. Take one step at a time and not be afraid to ask for help.

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2y

ISTP

Sagittarius

9
1

First, cover your basics. Food water and shelter. After that, it's not about motivation it's about determination

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2y

ISFJ

Capricorn

5
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My motivation would be my own happiness, no one is gonna fight that for you. Fight for better days, that's my motivation.

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2y

INTJ

6
7

You can't go lower

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2y

INFJ

Aries

I dont know

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2y

ISTJ

Pisces

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First I will take a short break while clearing my mind.. my motivation would keep trying to rise because we don't know when the path will open, and of course because it's a rock bottom then I donโ€™t have anything to lose again so just keep doing things that make me happy and keep trying to grow better..

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2y

INFP

Sagittarius

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When I reach rock bottom my motivation is this phrase, "Nobody cares, so pick yourself up out of that pity party get back on your horse and keep riding". After all, the measure of a person is the strength within their will. If I can't climb my way back up the mountain I might as well give up and stay in the chasm.

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2y

ESFJ

Aries

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6

My hobbies, when it feels like all else is lost I will get out into nature, on the motorbike, bicycle or even just for a hike. Nature is my motivation

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2y

ENFP

Leo

Don't worry about what everyone else thinks, you are perfect just the way you are

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0

2y

INTP

Aquarius

8
7

Reinvent myself the way I wanna be

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2y

INFP

Libra

Love is the only motivation

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2y

ENFJ

Taurus

Loving someone is hard

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2y

INTP

Scorpio

6
5

People would be sad if I "left" and I don't want to leave a mess for someone else to clean.

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2y

ENFP

Aries

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8

Get a gallon of icecream. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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2y

INTJ

Cancer

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To everyone that replied: "There's no way but Up" ๐ŸŽˆ

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2y

INTJ

Aries

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1

There's no other place to go but up

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2y

INFP

Pisces

6
7

When you reach rock bottom, there is nowhere to go but up. At that point you have no choice but to either survive or stop trying. I guess it depends on what causes you to bottom out in the first place and there might be multiple motivators.

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2y

INFJ

Gemini

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7

Rock bottom when i was divorced. My motivation my strength, is my kids

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2y

ESTJ

Libra

4
5

Good Food

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2y

ENFJ

Taurus

Sheer grit. Tough times allow you to learn and grow, nothing changes when life is easy, we just coast. There is always a lesson to learn through difficulties. Someone's rock bottom has been tougher. Don't stop, even if you're a$$ falls off, keep going!

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2y

INTJ

Leo

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1

Can't reach diamonds without digging deep. So look around while you're down there.

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0

2y

INFJ

Taurus

6
7

I have been in the mule on the bottom for a long time, you just get used to it

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2y

INFJ

Keep functioning. Like Iโ€™ve always been. No choice no excuse to quit bruh. If I quit, I just know itโ€™d get any worse.

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2y

ESFP

Gemini

shopping sprees

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1

2y

ISTP

Virgo

2
1

Watch gurren lagann

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0

2y

INTJ

Capricorn

5
4

Self reflection

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0

2y

INFP

Aries

6
7

Stubbornness has been mine more than anything else really.

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2y

INTP

Leo

5
4

Once you hit rock bottom, the only remaining way to go is toward light. โ›…

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0

2y

INTP

Cancer

5
4

Just listen to "Always look on the bright side of life" from Monty Python's the Life of Brian.

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2y

ENFJ

Cancer

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7

It happened to be 6y ago. Then I decided to fight for myself ... now I'm happy and motivate people to be the best version of themselves

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0

2y

ISTJ

Aries

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3

My daughters are

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1

2y

INTP

Aries

6
7

There is a peace to be found at the bottom looking back up. I've always be taught its not the fall that matters so much as the rebound to get back up and try something else.

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2y

INFP

4
5

Rock bottom is the struggle. Trying to push though it is the motivation. Get that chisel and dig. Don't quit at rock bottom.

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2y

INFP

Pisces

6
7

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2y

INTJ

Scorpio

Meditation..exercise or gym..go out more I don't mean drinking but keep busy..in my situation if I remember it's been a while..I did lot more outdoor activities like fishing..nothing expensive..nature walking..

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