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How do you start a conversation with a match?

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INFJ

Libra

Wait, yall are having conversations?

INFJ

Aries

I usually say "Greetings humans" while talking about our similarities like skin wearing and oxygen cycles (edited)

ISTJ

Taurus

Read their profile and find something we have in common Which means anyone that has something like "just ask me" I don't even bother with

ISFJ

Taurus

Gotta see if they pass the vibe check

ISTP

Capricorn

By navigating to the matches section, tapping the match in question, tapping "comment" to bring up the keyboard, and typing out a message. Hit the blue arrow to send.

ENFJ

Virgo

Try to find common ground on their bio if not I go for things i love which are comedy shows and movies/tv shows i can talk about them for hours haha

INFP

Gemini

I asked a girl once "you think the giving tree gives head?" Not even 5 minutes later she unmatched me lol

INFP

Virgo

If I'm gonna open up the conversation, I like to read their profile and ask them a question about an interest they have listed. When you show interest in their interests, they are more willing to speak to you because you sound ginuine, caring, and friendly. ❤️

ESFJ

Taurus

By being yourself and not rushing into it. Good intentions is a must. And you and the match must first start slowly and build it up. And talk about the pros and cons about yourself and what values you hold along with the other person explaining there values. Talk about real hobbies that you do, also, both of you must put in 100/100 of efforts to maintain the connection and make it work. If it's official and both of you start dating than you both should make a plan. If you see different experiences and mindsets of 🤔 then you should find something who would never treat you in a misguided way. For example, if the person is after your 💰 and you don't notice the signs than you should make a documentary and tell the 🌍 your story so that people would learn not to make the same mistakes that you fell for in your lifetime. Do y'all agree 👍🏿 with me on this discussion?

ENTP

Cancer

With a very helpful gif

INFJ

Pisces

Tbh I wait for the guy to text first and if they don't I just say hey and go from there

INFJ

Scorpio

Asking how thieir days are

INTP

Cancer

I mean, why not 😂 (edited)

INFJ

Aries

I just try to conversate. Usually after a few messages they stop responding or I get a message from someone and then they never respond.

ISFJ

Cancer

I've haven't tried that yet 😅

ISFP

Libra

All kinds of different ways. None of them work.

INFP

Scorpio

Just light it up and start talking 😁😆🤣

INFP

Leo

Don't get many (really any) matches to start a conversation with, but usually I start by mentioning something on their profile I liked, followed by a nice to meet you

ENFJ

Sagittarius

I'm a goofball so say "Is this the krusty Krab?" If they answer right, I lock them into conversation and reply "I see you're a person of culture. Nice to meet you!"

INTP

Capricorn

Honestly I feel too awkward to begin a conversation so it barely happens... 🙈 Nerdy/geeky references however, or a play on something said in the forum or my profile are what I respond to... And even though I don't initiate conversation, I do make an effort keeping the conversation going. There should always be a give and take in my opinion.

INFP

Sagittarius

I typically start with a pun, it's my main form of communication

ISTJ

Leo

I will make a comment about a nice photo. or ask him about one of his interests. Which they don't seen to like because they keep disappearing. Especially the ones that actually live near me. (edited)

ISFP

Capricorn

I don't have Matches😅🙈

INTJ

Capricorn

A "hay" and a question about there bio, or secret phrase from there bio

ISTJ

Aquarius

Or I just say hey to be a friend

ENFJ

Leo

It depends. I like to read their bio and questions answered so I can get a feel of who they are. Most often a "hello" but if I feel I can be silly I'll send a fun GIF. :)

INTP

Gemini

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INTJ

Cancer

I hate girls so much that they never open up.

INFJ

Pisces

Basic "hello~" 😅

ISFJ

Libra

Usually start with, "Hey, how's it going. "

INFP

Aquarius

"Match"? What is this? 🤔🤔

INTJ

Aquarius

conversation pointers from their Bio.

INFP

Capricorn

Jokes, usually bad ones, but still

INFP

Virgo

Sup

INFP

Capricorn

I don't talk to matches. If you play with fire you're gonna get burned.

ESTJ

Gemini

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Questions Community

Classic opener.

Wait, yall are having conversations?

I usually say "Greetings humans" while talking about our similarities like skin wearing and oxygen cycles (edited)

Read their profile and find something we have in common Which means anyone that has something like "just ask me" I don't even bother with

Gotta see if they pass the vibe check

By navigating to the matches section, tapping the match in question, tapping "comment" to bring up the keyboard, and typing out a message. Hit the blue arrow to send.

Try to find common ground on their bio if not I go for things i love which are comedy shows and movies/tv shows i can talk about them for hours haha

I asked a girl once "you think the giving tree gives head?" Not even 5 minutes later she unmatched me lol

If I'm gonna open up the conversation, I like to read their profile and ask them a question about an interest they have listed. When you show interest in their interests, they are more willing to speak to you because you sound ginuine, caring, and friendly. ❤️

With a very helpful gif

Tbh I wait for the guy to text first and if they don't I just say hey and go from there

Asking how thieir days are

I mean, why not 😂 (edited)

I just try to conversate. Usually after a few messages they stop responding or I get a message from someone and then they never respond.

I've haven't tried that yet 😅

All kinds of different ways. None of them work.

Just light it up and start talking 😁😆🤣

Don't get many (really any) matches to start a conversation with, but usually I start by mentioning something on their profile I liked, followed by a nice to meet you

I'm a goofball so say "Is this the krusty Krab?" If they answer right, I lock them into conversation and reply "I see you're a person of culture. Nice to meet you!"

I typically start with a pun, it's my main form of communication

I will make a comment about a nice photo. or ask him about one of his interests. Which they don't seen to like because they keep disappearing. Especially the ones that actually live near me. (edited)

I don't have Matches😅🙈

Hi

A "hay" and a question about there bio, or secret phrase from there bio

Or I just say hey to be a friend

It depends. I like to read their bio and questions answered so I can get a feel of who they are. Most often a "hello" but if I feel I can be silly I'll send a fun GIF. :)

What's your favorite sin?

I hate girls so much that they never open up.

Basic "hello~" 😅

Usually start with, "Hey, how's it going. "

"Match"? What is this? 🤔🤔

conversation pointers from their Bio.

Jokes, usually bad ones, but still

Sup

I don't talk to matches. If you play with fire you're gonna get burned.

Ask a question that invokes thought.

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