What are some first date tips?

5/8/2023

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2y

INTJ

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First date is only a tryout for both sides, don't take it seriously, and always split the bill, neither side is obligated to the other

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2y

ENFJ

Pisces

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Donโ€™t do it if your not thinking of marriage and have financial backing to support such thought.

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2y

INFJ

Virgo

Don't get into there car. Make sure someone knows your location (honestly, share your location via Google). Don't leave them alone with your drink. Don't go home with them. Make sure you have a plan incase you need to leave the date.

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INFP

Scorpio

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Grooming, stay sharp, be open minded, read the room, pamper yourself (feel good), like someone else said split the bill, don't take things so serious pretend like its not a first date but instead you're meeting a old friend you haven't met in a while if you feel dense going in, and bring that million dollar smile you have ๐Ÿ˜ (edited)

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2y

INFP

Pisces

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-Try not to have expectations -Learn how to read body language so you can make sure your date is comfortable & enjoying themselves -Choose something to do that's interactive if you can -Pick something that lasts under 2 hours so you have an out if it's not going well, but the ability to extend if you're enjoying each other's company

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2y

INFP

Virgo

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Shower, put deodorant and be your self

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2y

ESFJ

Leo

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BE HONEST about your intentions.

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2y

INFP

Cancer

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Bold of you to assume people date on here ๐Ÿ˜‰Take it with a grain of salt. A lot of people are nervous on their first date so manage expectations. Also, maybe pick a mutual interest to keep it fun and low key.

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2y

INTJ

Pisces

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Avoid any tips at all cost!

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2y

INTJ

Cancer

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Always have #Food present! ๐ŸŒฎ (edited)

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2y

INFJ

Sagittarius

Be yourself. Have fun. Either they like you for your authentic self or they don't but at least you'll know rather than wasting your time or pretending to be something you're not.

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2y

ENFJ

Leo

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Expect nothing, appreciate everything. You're both taking a risk. You're both just hoping you connect. You're both seeing if there's anything there. There are no hard feelings if it doesn't workout. You aren't friends with everyone, why would you expect to be able to date everyone? And if you go into it open minded you might leave with a fun night at the least, and a potential partner at the most with anything inbetween. So be honest, be clear, and just go with it. Now I just need to follow my own advice......and actually find some dates.

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2y

ISFJ

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Please don't get pregnant or don't get anybody pregnant

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2y

INTJ

Pisces

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Don't date๐Ÿ™„

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2y

ISFJ

Capricorn

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Be genuine with yourself and your intentions.

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2y

ENFP

Scorpio

Well, be relaxed, and try to make it fun at all times. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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2y

ISFP

Cancer

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Get to know the preference of the person (like if she likes more quiet or agitated places), try to praise her first (this is for girls too), see if she is comfortable with everything

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2y

ENFP

Taurus

Movies

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2y

INTJ

Aquarius

For first dates, I don't think it should be something where you have to sit down across each other and talk one-on-one like an interview. The person is just going to feel pressured, nervous and awkward and we should not judge them instantly from that. Therefore, I think it's ideal to have an activity for the day as a first date. Eg.: Going hiking, walk in the park, cooking classes, arcades etc. It should be something that helps you and the partner to relax and be comfortable within each other's presence and see the fun side of them.

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2y

INTJ

Capricorn

Expectations need be quelled. Ask questions, never assume, and showing basic respect goes a long way.

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2y

ENFJ

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Don't laugh too much

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2y

ISFJ

Cancer

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I think the important thing is communication, that both parties are comfortable and agree on how to make the date. And I feel that a good date is to go for a coffee or a dinner to talk and get to know each other more ๐Ÿ’•

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2y

ENFP

Leo

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Don't take them to a movie, go to a public place, coffee is a good place for a first date

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2y

INTJ

Taurus

Be loyal because first impressive is the priority:)

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2y

ENFJ

Libra

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Getting the date is hard part. So just relax, they're into you if your out and about.

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2y

ISFP

Pisces

No sex on the first date

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2y

ENFP

Virgo

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Ask the deep and important questions early. Better to not waste anyoneโ€™s time ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธand see the compatibility

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2y

INFP

Libra

Keep in mind, this person may come to mean everything. Be respectful and pay attention. Sorry if that's too serious.

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2y

INTJ

Cancer

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Bring a hammer

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2y

INFJ

Gemini

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Be yourself, with good manner

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2y

ENFP

Capricorn

R u trying to make us feel jealous bro?

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2y

INFJ

Leo

4
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Don't expect too much)

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2y

INFJ

Taurus

Don't be yourself

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2y

INTJ

Taurus

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Damn, anybody knows how I can be back to russian speeking community?๐Ÿ˜‚I donโ€™t like it here ๐Ÿ˜…there are no questions there about who should payโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ™„

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2y

ENFP

Gemini

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1. Don't talk about your past. 2. Don't talk about your exes. 3. Don't talk about your sex-life. 4. Don't talk.

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2y

ESFJ

Scorpio

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Just be yourself

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2y

INTP

Aquarius

Put the cell phone down. That's the ultimate turn off on a date for me, plus it's rude. If you'd rather focus on your device stay home and don't waste both our time

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