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Posted Friday, August 16, 2024
1mo
INTJ
Sagittarius
a brief rant into the void
Today I’m looking for a break.. From feeling like I need to constantly improve myself.. and become “better”... I’m tired. I know you’re looking for someone “confident, ambitious, successful, attractive, muscular, engaging” I just don’t know if I can be that for you right now. Sometimes I want to give and receive love as if I were a cat, or a dog, or hamster, whatever. Not meaning in a “furry” kink way (no judgment there (maybe that is a path worth exploring?)) but in a way of “being”..not expecting to impress one another, just being able to be present, for a moment out of loneliness with another beautiful human soul. A break from not worrying if I’m enough
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1mo
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I totally get where you're coming from. Sometimes, it feels like there's so much pressure to constantly improve and be the 'ideal' version of ourselves. But honestly, some of us are just looking for authenticity and a genuinely good person to connect with. Being present with someone who values you for who you are, without the need to impress, is truly what matters.
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Chris
1mo
INTP
Cancer
Don't improve yourself for others , do it for yourself, the confidence you build will attract people but be warned it doesn't attract good people
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Allymist
1mo
INFP
Yes. Just this.
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Lexi
1mo
ISFJ
Aries
We are constantly putting on fronts for each other, even without notice. Though sometimes it can be very overwhelming to keep up with such a high status, and ways you down making life seem so much harder. I hope you get the reassurance you need. And know your worth is never determined by how others will perceive you. You are doing great, and it is more than okay to take a break
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Christine
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INFJ
Aquarius
You are enough as you are. A good human will have a open mind and accept you as you are.
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Azrael
1mo
ENTJ
Libra
Absolutely, yes. Everything in moderation, esp self improvement… otherwise one loses self in other’s ideas while also forgetting to enjoy things authentically. No one can be perfect… where’s a partner that gets that and still cares enough not to cause harm repeatedly? Its a balance. And sometimes everything needs laid down for play/rest’s sake.
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Georgie
29d
INFP
Pisces
I could speak for hours about this... It hits so close to home you have no idea. No one should feel like that and it makes me feel sad that you had face those thoughts. Let me be brief here: You are enough. You're great, awesome and super cool. Be whatever you wanna be, and do what makes you feel happy. People should love and gravitate around you for what you are and not what they think you should be. Most importantly, if you don't already know what or who makes you happy, focus on searching that answer. Better yourself, learn and live new experiences. Never feel less than, because you're awesome. At least I think that ^^ (edited)
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