Would you live life differently if no one could judge any of your actions ?

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ENFJ

Libra

I am my own judge... and it's worse 😅

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ENFP

Scorpio

Yes, at least for the first half of my life. I was a people’s pleaser at first. Overtime, I shook this off and started to not care. (edited)

ENFP

Leo

I don't care so much about other people's judgement.. now. Maybe when I was younger, I might have made different choices.

ENTP

Libra

They're feeding me and my kids? They're take me to vacation, They're buy me and my kids clothes? Pay my bill and my kids expenses? If they would give all of that, Maybe I will care with their judgment, but if not, Me is me, I know what the best or bad for me and my kids, so, I bring and carrying my own demon and no one can judge me, they can tell me what's wrong but not judging..

INFJ

Libra

To be honest, I wouldn’t. Because I believe that God is my ultimate judger, so it’s really not possible for me to live a different, nonjudgmental lifestyle. I need people and God to judge me on how to be more responsible and mature, these things make me feel happy. Learning how to have good table manners, not looking at things I shouldn’t, not participate with low lives, and more is amazing.

INFP

Cancer

I would live better if I stopped judging myself

INTP

Virgo

Most people already don't care tbh. As most comments here suggest--- everyone's just judging themselves. Except my mom. My mom thinks I don't care enough about my life and other things. 😆

INFJ

Pisces

The only people who had a right to judge my actions are dead. I don't care what people think of me.

ENTJ

Libra

You're assuming I let people judge my actions now. If they keep it to themselves, let it die behind their teeth. If they seek to pass judgment, they will learn very quickly not to do that again. (edited)

INFJ

Cancer

I don't really mind other people ..😆 My life my rules..

INTP

In some way, I think I’m living my life differently now and not bound to please anyone around me.

ENFP

The question you seem to be asking is one of faith. If you believe in a higher power, and whatever that higher power is is cognizant of your actions whether or not others arround you notice.

INTJ

Sagittarius

Yes, I maybe at my better version of myself now but I know I'm still longing for the happiness and freedom that I never experienced. I would live differently, for my betterment and to live happily and free from other's judgment.

ENFJ

Virgo

I would probably lived a life differently.

ISFP

Leo

Our integrity is our own judge

ISTJ

Pisces

Absolutely not. Life is too short to care what anyone thinks or says.

INTJ

Cancer

I don’t care what people think.

INTJ

Sagittarius

Probably not I'm my own worst enemy

ENTJ

Scorpio

Obviously. But that's the past. I've gotten out of that zone. Very good question. It's a very relevant parameter

ENFP

Scorpio

I don't care if anyone judges me for my actions.

INTJ

Libra

Not really. I think I have built my wall high enough that I have no fear what the satellites are recording upon the roof of my compound. I certainly don't go up there to sunbathe (especially since I have such fair skin a mere 15 minutes would have me looking like a lobster ready to be cracked.) My own moral code cobbled together over the years is out of step with my culture but that's ok. There are things I certainly get judged for (I mean getting caught speeding certainly qualifies, if you can't accept the consequences don't do the crime.) Really that is my guide, in certain social contexts I will accept the consequences to my actions. Most of the time this is yes and the sarcasm flows freely at work when I see mediocrity and outright hypocritical behavior. Calling attention to it gets me in hot water (back to the lobster, interesting movie btw, check it out.) But in some ways ethical behavior means you stand up to the norm because it does not work as intended. I don't care how I'm judged, I care how clear my conscience is, and that is regulated internally, not externally. (edited)

ENFJ

Aquarius

Nope

INFJ

Gemini

Nope... Life never gets better or more meaningful until we face judgment, criticism, or betrayal from others. It's easy to say, but hard to follow. But it is what it is

ISTJ

Libra

Yes- I would travel more and rack up substantial amounts of debt in the processs. Other than that no habit would be changed

INTP

Gemini

i wouldn't have 7 facial piercings in a middle eastern country if I cared peoples opinion lol

INFP

Cancer

Nope chances are I will make the same mistakes

INTP

Cancer

No. I usually live my life with integrity, like no one is watching or judging. It's so simple that way

INTJ

Leo

Nope, I do exactly as I wish.

INTP

Scorpio

Thing is, I judge my own actions and react upon that.. self accountabilility.

ENTJ

Pisces

Yes

INFP

Capricorn

I probably would yeah!

ENTP

Taurus

I would definitely, as long as that counts myself. I've criticized myself far too much over my life thus far.

ISTJ

Aries

I've already been judged. I live my life free and how I want, until there is another life to move onto.

INFP

Libra

No. I don't do that. Judgements are background noise, they don't matter. try to do what your gut says.

ISTJ

Taurus

No

ISTP

Cancer

Yes absolutely

ENFJ

Capricorn

Now the real question would be if you learned this as a growing child, how far would you be now?

ESTP

Aries

Hell yeah! Without fear of judgment, I might feel more liberated to pursue my passions, take risks, and express myself authentically. I might prioritize personal growth and fulfillment over societal expectations, and I might be more inclined to live in alignment with my values and desires. However, it's important to note that constructive feedback and accountability can also be valuable for personal development, so while freedom from judgment can be liberating, it's also important to consider the impact of our actions on others and strive for balance in how we navigate life.

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I am my own judge... and it's worse 😅

Yes, at least for the first half of my life. I was a people’s pleaser at first. Overtime, I shook this off and started to not care. (edited)

I don't care so much about other people's judgement.. now. Maybe when I was younger, I might have made different choices.

I would live better if I stopped judging myself

Most people already don't care tbh. As most comments here suggest--- everyone's just judging themselves. Except my mom. My mom thinks I don't care enough about my life and other things. 😆

The only people who had a right to judge my actions are dead. I don't care what people think of me.

You're assuming I let people judge my actions now. If they keep it to themselves, let it die behind their teeth. If they seek to pass judgment, they will learn very quickly not to do that again. (edited)

I don't really mind other people ..😆 My life my rules..

In some way, I think I’m living my life differently now and not bound to please anyone around me.

The question you seem to be asking is one of faith. If you believe in a higher power, and whatever that higher power is is cognizant of your actions whether or not others arround you notice.

Yes, I maybe at my better version of myself now but I know I'm still longing for the happiness and freedom that I never experienced. I would live differently, for my betterment and to live happily and free from other's judgment.

I would probably lived a life differently.

Our integrity is our own judge

Absolutely not. Life is too short to care what anyone thinks or says.

I don’t care what people think.

Probably not I'm my own worst enemy

Obviously. But that's the past. I've gotten out of that zone. Very good question. It's a very relevant parameter

I don't care if anyone judges me for my actions.

Nope

Nope... Life never gets better or more meaningful until we face judgment, criticism, or betrayal from others. It's easy to say, but hard to follow. But it is what it is

Yes- I would travel more and rack up substantial amounts of debt in the processs. Other than that no habit would be changed

i wouldn't have 7 facial piercings in a middle eastern country if I cared peoples opinion lol

Nope chances are I will make the same mistakes

No. I usually live my life with integrity, like no one is watching or judging. It's so simple that way

Nope, I do exactly as I wish.

Thing is, I judge my own actions and react upon that.. self accountabilility.

Yes

I probably would yeah!

I would definitely, as long as that counts myself. I've criticized myself far too much over my life thus far.

I've already been judged. I live my life free and how I want, until there is another life to move onto.

No. I don't do that. Judgements are background noise, they don't matter. try to do what your gut says.

No

Yes absolutely

Now the real question would be if you learned this as a growing child, how far would you be now?

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