It is very easy in these times to become lost in the hustle bustle of society. But before you put on a mask to dance for society, ask yourself if it feels right to you. Put your fears of survival on the back burner & look at yourself in the mirror if what you are doing is sitting right within you or are you simply following orders just to be accepted. There are many wrongs parading around as rights in these times, and truthfully it is most recommended to look yourself in the mirror, your own place of feeling if you are chasing a personal reality or a pretending sham. One of these choices will most oftentimes omit your own "mid life crisis" later down the timeline of your personal path. We start young, we start discarding pieces of our genuine selves to become a living husk, devoid of passion & motivation for ourselves. We start living through others, seeking praise, seeking some type of being heard & seen goal. The truth is, you are already enough as you are because you came here to find your drive in life. Your personal happiness to develop from within & project onto the world, to share your Talents, your Gifts, not from a place of being recognized but moreso from a place of Confident Conviction(Belief) that you will make it no matter what. If you were allowed to be your great self, if you were allowed to be seen & heard - you would not have to pretend & chase after your individuality. You would be content because you wouldn't be functioning from a place of Comparison & Lack. The society we function in, at this time, has become extremely imbalanced. You know this. You feel it. So why aren't you saying anything about it? Why is it that we have to forsake our emotions, our purity, for someone else's ideals when we can actually live in a harmonious way? Agreeing to Disagree is not negative by any means but we have been conditioned to react in a manner that creates ruffled feathers all around & then turns a conversation into an Ego battle. There is no need for that especially since many man-made concepts are up for individual interpretation & yet we are given slop even the pigs wouldn't touch. That's gotta tell you something. Do you know why you become exhausted so easily? It is due to the constant worry, the upkeeping of appearances, the consistent negative frequencies emitted on this planet to keep you, as a species, divided - fearful - doubtful - obedient - confused and eventually forced to come to the subconscious choice of self sabotage. The reason you feel a pull to disconnect, is not from your fellow man, it is the society that has been manipulated for generations - you are starting to see the good being punished & the awful being rewarded. Simply saying No to the countless manipulative tactics scattered about, from your own individual standing, will start to create something simultaneously with the collective energy - an energy of disobedience & true freedom. I know this looks like an oxymoron of a post, but trust me when I say, the more you shun the traps in society the less you will see them impacting your daily life. More taking care of your emotional well-being & less snooping in another's life due to your own boredom like you want to be entertained. More living by your own example, less spewing ideals like facts. We know nothing, until we start reconnecting with our own inner knowing & much of it consists of harmony, a grounded approach, communicative compromise, and finally unity. When you start working on your own internal well-being, you will start to develop a healthy confidence which will appear intimidating most times but it will be your personal truth that you can share or not - by no means force onto others though. I channel at home quite frequently with my parents, the sessions last for about 2 hours, and yes the Eye is connected during those times, I ALWAYS get these messages; "Start focusing on yourself." "You, as a species, are not yet ready for technological advancements because you haven't even learned how to take care of your own kin." "We cannot force You (the Human race as a whole) to pick a path, but we suggest you to work on your internal worlds before looking to the next ones." "We do not want you to corrupt other systems, which is why we are asking you to work on what you currently have - this world for starters & that will come when you are emitting healthier vibrations from within." So basically, we are at a plateau at this time, because of our conditioning to look outside ourselves for "saving" we will never learn...we will only pretend to care, pretend to sympathize, pretend to be good until we start ripping off the Masks that corrupt us, we won't be on good standings in general - with each other or other races. We are toddlers compared to many other species out there in the vast sea of Life. A small little tidbit of info, which our governments will keep hidden from us, is the fact that we receive technological advancement from the negative side by being signed off to abductions & experiments. How cute, right? We can't even stand up for each other. That's saddening & also coincides with many mottos like "dog eat dog world" "everyone is for themselves"(in the negative way), "survival of the fittest", and many other sayings that are promoting complete singular existence to the point of throwing each other under busses. Disgusting btw. I am not a fan of the tactic of "Divide & Conquer" the reason we are being tortured & our spirits are pissed off at us is because we can't even stand up for ourselves as a WHOLE. Running around proving our own points to others & forcing them to comply. Make no mistake Unity exists in Understanding one another. Not this horseshit of who is right or wrong. Every man-made concept is flawed, opening up your own consciousness to more, rather than sitting in a sandbox simulation, will then start making us more accepting. I believe in sharing opinions, but we also must understand, that our expectations can complicate the outcomes. All of a sudden, you are faced with a battle of words rather than coming from a place of acceptance...the "different" get automatically labeled and exiled, the society's standards of Ugly makes us feel less than, our own allowance of letting others affect us makes us feel even worse, and why? What for? What does this achieve? Self-Destruction. The one true ugliness within us is when we take on the role of punishing our surroundings through our judgements that are implanted into us from young, and our need to control. My my, sounds familiar? Let me expand that - Religion, Politics, Hollywood, Medical Science, Propaganda through pushing specific Agendas, the constant onslaught of confusion is endless. We are told not to kill, but all of a sudden the law is somehow above that and kills others. We are told not to kill and yet we are deployed to kill each other through Wars. We are told God loves us and yet "he" killed many. We are told to be accepting and understanding but only in the way we are told. Do you see the madness, the confusion, the hypocrisy? Do you honestly think there aren't any laboratories scattered around the world that don't perform experimentations on your fellow human beings? It is very much still alive, just hidden. But it is also becoming extremely bold as well, the latest test on humanity was evident as a clear day...why are you allowing yourself to be manipulated through obvious blackmail? Travel was halted not because of outbreak, but truly because honest information wouldn't be spread around the globe. They also came after pensions by killing off the elderly. Disgusting. These are truly heinous crimes, and many swallowed the hook to be sickly for the rest of their lives...living experiments... Now let's cover the problem of missing persons, because that one goes into many different venues like slave trafficking, pedophilia, experimentation, essentially you are breeding to create victims this is not about preservation of life - majority of this is to keep the cycle of misery ongoing. You are brainwashed to not murder a fetus but you are pushing for extremely disgusting crimes to happen behind your backs in the future that has apparently nothing to do with you - you just wanted to appear Saintly. F*ck off please, unless of course, you are then helping the outside person with finances & emotional struggles - but hey, you put your two cents in without taking any accountability thereafter, right? You are your own God, yes, and that's where it ends. Not a God of others. Simply yourself & the sooner you realize this - the sooner we can all move forward. In conclusion, start critically thinking, start asking the more important questions, start punishing the system in return, make it work for you than against you by following temporary goodies, but that starts inside yourself. Appreciate what is in existence NOW than what will be because that's never a guarantee btw due to energy being fluid & so is life. We start taking care of ourselves better, we will also take better care of each other. Get on it or I guarantee you'll hate the singular minded future even more where it becomes a hive mind of everyone hurting each other. You want this? We are practically there & that's why the world isn't making sense anymore... (edited)

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"You, as a species, are not yet ready for technological advancements because you haven't even learned how to take care of your own kin." "We cannot force You (the Human race as a whole) to pick a path, but we suggest you to work on your internal worlds before looking to the next ones." "We do not want you to corrupt other systems, which is why we are asking you to work on what you currently have - this world for starters & that will come when you are emitting healthier vibrations from within." So basically, we are at a plateau at this time, because of our conditioning to look outside ourselves for "saving" we will never learn...we will only pretend to care, pretend to sympathize, pretend to be good until we start ripping off the Masks that corrupt us, we won't be on good standings in general - with each other or other races. We are toddlers compared to many other species out there in the vast sea of Life. A small little tidbit of info, which our governments will keep hidden from us, is the fact that we receive technological advancement from the negative side by being signed off to abductions & experiments. How cute, right? We can't even stand up for each other. That's saddening & also coincides with many mottos like "dog eat dog world" "everyone is for themselves"(in the negative way), "survival of the fittest", and many other sayings that are promoting complete singular existence to the point of throwing each other under busses. Disgusting btw. I am not a fan of the tactic of "Divide & Conquer" the reason we are being tortured & our spirits are pissed off at us is because we can't even stand up for ourselves as a WHOLE. Running around proving our own points to others & forcing them to comply. Make no mistake Unity exists in Understanding one another. Not this horseshit of who is right or wrong. Every man-made concept is flawed, opening up your own consciousness to more, rather than sitting in a sandbox simulation, will then start making us more accepting. I believe in sharing opinions, but we also must understand, that our expectations can complicate the outcomes. All of a sudden, you are faced with a battle of words rather than coming from a place of acceptance...the "different" get automatically labeled and exiled, the society's standards of Ugly makes us feel less than, our own allowance of letting others affect us makes us feel even worse, and why? What for? What does this achieve? Self-Destruction. The one true ugliness within us is when we take on the role of punishing our surroundings through our judgements that are implanted into us from young, and our need to control. My my, sounds familiar? Let me expand that - Religion, Politics, Hollywood, Medical Science, Propaganda through pushing specific Agendas, the constant onslaught of confusion is endless. We are told not to kill, but all of a sudden the law is somehow above that and kills others. We are told not to kill and yet we are deployed to kill each other through Wars. We are told God loves us and yet "he" killed many. We are told to be accepting and understanding but only in the way we are told. Do you see the madness, the confusion, the hypocrisy? Do you honestly think there aren't any laboratories scattered around the world that don't perform experimentations on your fellow human beings? It is very much still alive, just hidden. But it is also becoming extremely bold as well, the latest test on humanity was evident as a clear day...why are you allowing yourself to be manipulated through obvious blackmail? Travel was halted not because of outbreak, but truly because honest information wouldn't be spread around the globe. They also came after pensions by killing off the elderly. Disgusting. These are truly heinous crimes, and many swallowed the hook to be sickly for the rest of their lives...living experiments... Now let's cover the problem of missing persons, because that one goes into many different venues like slave trafficking, pedophilia, experimentation, essentially you are breeding to create victims this is not about preservation of life - majority of this is to keep the cycle of misery ongoing. You are brainwashed to not murder a fetus but you are pushing for extremely disgusting crimes to happen behind your backs in the future that has apparently nothing to do with you - you just wanted to appear Saintly. F*ck off please, unless of course, you are then helping the outside person with finances & emotional struggles - but hey, you put your two cents in without taking any accountability thereafter, right? You are your own God, yes, and that's where it ends. Not a God of others. Simply yourself & the sooner you realize this - the sooner we can all move forward. In conclusion, start critically thinking, start asking the more important questions, start punishing the system in return, make it work for you than against you by following temporary goodies, but that starts inside yourself. Appreciate what is in existence NOW than what will be because that's never a guarantee btw due to energy being fluid & so is life. We start taking care of ourselves better, we will also take better care of each other. Get on it or I guarantee you'll hate the singular minded future even more...

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