What did you learn after your last relationship ended?

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Libra

Never love someone more than you love yourself. Never forget you. Make yourself a priority. Each of us has one life to live. You should never be the forgotten extra of your own movie. 💖

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ENTP

Libra

Not every relationship is going perfect, sometimes you have "worst" situation, don't go for seek attention someone else.. find the solution together, If you so easily for looking someone else, then you not respect and trust your partner (edited)

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ENFP

Scorpio

Solve your internal problems first before going into a relationship. It was on me. I admit I messed up, hence, the above is what I learned. (edited)

ENFJ

Libra

INFJ

Sagittarius

That not every spoken Word is a truth and that a promise isn't always kept.🎯 I have to be careful who I give my heart to, who I trust. Not everyone deserves me (red Flags). When I realize that things are going in the wrong direction (narcissic behavior), I pull back. 💯 But despite of all... I have still trust there's my man anywhere out there ❤️😍 Where are you, I'm waiting for you ☺️🥰❤️ (edited)

INFP

Gemini

Get to know someone better before committing, love isn't everything (though i wish it was), sex isn't everything, being alone is better than in miserable company, I'm freaking awesome and capable of great renewal, invest in my health and well being first before anyone else (how can i take care of anyone when I'm a depleted mess), good people lie, i can only control how i invest my time, pay attention to how I'm treated even when I'm in love (even if it hurts, better to end it sooner rather than later)

ISTJ

Sagittarius

That even though something ended, doesn't mean it was bad. I hold zero regrets in regards to my ex, those were 5 incredible years, I learned so much about myself and how to be a better partner.

ENFP

Taurus

That i was sleeping and i never had one and it was all a dream🐉🦄🏃‍♂️

INFJ

Virgo

that no one's coming to save me and that i should prioritise my own well-being or else i'll never be truly happy

ENFP

Leo

There's this whole other person called Me who exists 👀

ISTP

Gemini

What relationship lol (edited)

INFP

Aries

I am stronger than I thought

ISFJ

Taurus

Respect matters. Don't lower yourself too much. Give and take

ESTJ

Gemini

When you heal and grow from past experiences, you gain a stronger sense of self worth and confidence. Instead of desperately wanting to be chosen, you start to realize your own value and become more selective in choosing who you want in your life. It's a beautiful transformation!

INFJ

Pisces

Sometime there can be so much true love and still, no happy ending.

ENFP

Libra

Someone's traumas are not your problems, you cannot heal them. Also when you think they will someday change and be respectful and appreciate you. Haha what a joke, they don't.

INTP

If they don’t appreciate you the first time, most probably they’re not for you…🤷🏻‍♀️

INTJ

Virgo

The first time I had a relationship with someone (not really a "relationship" but maybe just a fling), we both love bomb each other. We talk everyday and we always exchange words of affirmation. We stop talking just two weeks after that. And yes, I was so sad and cried about it for the whole day. We haven't seen each other in person. And I learned not to be emotionally dependent on anyone. ever.

INFJ

Gemini

That even when you give 110% to something/someone.. sometimes all you have to give is not enough for some people...and it never will be in a world of narcissism.

INFP

Cancer

it’s important to meet each other halfway in most aspects. also, you each must have your own fulfilling lives so you don’t end up overly dependent on each other (which usually ends up straining your other life relationships).

INFJ

Scorpio

To never let myself be used or abused again and to always know I'm worth so much more 😤😊

ISTJ

Sagittarius

Communication is the key to every healthy and happy relationship

INFJ

Virgo

Find someone that is willing to put in the effort to make the relationship work.

INTP

Leo

You can try so hard.. and get so far. But in the end.. it doesn’t even matter. 🤭🤭😭🤭

INFP

Taurus

Boundaries are essential and healthy and if the person you’re with is not willing to respect your boundaries or have boundaries of their own, they are not the person for you.

INTJ

Libra

1. Open communication is vital in a relationship. 2. Never lose yourself in a relationship. 3. Your partner is not a therapist. Heal yourself first before going into a new relationship. 4. Don't force someone to be vulnerable to you. That's not how love works. 5. Don't beg someone's time, if they want to be with you, they will make time for you.

INTJ

Capricorn

That sometimes things don't work out merely because of the curcumstances, no matter how hard you try or how much you love each other

INFJ

Aries

Listen to your family and friends, they could be seeing red flags while you are blind because love (edited)

INFP

Sagittarius

That sometimes the effort and sacrifices you make arent returned and are taken for granted.

INFJ

Pisces

No amount of love or loyalty can heal a man's heart unless he himself also puts the effort to heal it 😔

ENFP

Scorpio

Sometimes people will use serious substances and they might value those more than other people around them, so don’t let them use you too, know your worth.

INFP

Libra

You need to prioritize yourself, and you can't help people who don't want help. Don't listen to sweetly worded promises of good intentions and positive changes that aren't backed by actions to make those changes. ...and if they're constantly smashing through your boundaries that you've clearly laid out multiple times... Time to go!

ESFP

Gemini

That I deserve better than what I got. I did not take care of my own needs because I was so addicted to this girl.

INFP

Cancer

That I have trust issues

INFJ

Never ignore any redflag

INTP

Pisces

The mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell.

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Never love someone more than you love yourself. Never forget you. Make yourself a priority. Each of us has one life to live. You should never be the forgotten extra of your own movie. 💖

Not every relationship is going perfect, sometimes you have "worst" situation, don't go for seek attention someone else.. find the solution together, If you so easily for looking someone else, then you not respect and trust your partner (edited)

Solve your internal problems first before going into a relationship. It was on me. I admit I messed up, hence, the above is what I learned. (edited)

That even though something ended, doesn't mean it was bad. I hold zero regrets in regards to my ex, those were 5 incredible years, I learned so much about myself and how to be a better partner.

That i was sleeping and i never had one and it was all a dream🐉🦄🏃‍♂️

that no one's coming to save me and that i should prioritise my own well-being or else i'll never be truly happy

There's this whole other person called Me who exists 👀

What relationship lol (edited)

I am stronger than I thought

Respect matters. Don't lower yourself too much. Give and take

When you heal and grow from past experiences, you gain a stronger sense of self worth and confidence. Instead of desperately wanting to be chosen, you start to realize your own value and become more selective in choosing who you want in your life. It's a beautiful transformation!

Sometime there can be so much true love and still, no happy ending.

Someone's traumas are not your problems, you cannot heal them. Also when you think they will someday change and be respectful and appreciate you. Haha what a joke, they don't.

If they don’t appreciate you the first time, most probably they’re not for you…🤷🏻‍♀️

That even when you give 110% to something/someone.. sometimes all you have to give is not enough for some people...and it never will be in a world of narcissism.

it’s important to meet each other halfway in most aspects. also, you each must have your own fulfilling lives so you don’t end up overly dependent on each other (which usually ends up straining your other life relationships).

To never let myself be used or abused again and to always know I'm worth so much more 😤😊

Communication is the key to every healthy and happy relationship

Find someone that is willing to put in the effort to make the relationship work.

You can try so hard.. and get so far. But in the end.. it doesn’t even matter. 🤭🤭😭🤭

Boundaries are essential and healthy and if the person you’re with is not willing to respect your boundaries or have boundaries of their own, they are not the person for you.

That sometimes things don't work out merely because of the curcumstances, no matter how hard you try or how much you love each other

Listen to your family and friends, they could be seeing red flags while you are blind because love (edited)

That sometimes the effort and sacrifices you make arent returned and are taken for granted.

No amount of love or loyalty can heal a man's heart unless he himself also puts the effort to heal it 😔

Sometimes people will use serious substances and they might value those more than other people around them, so don’t let them use you too, know your worth.

That I deserve better than what I got. I did not take care of my own needs because I was so addicted to this girl.

That I have trust issues

Never ignore any redflag

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