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2y

INTJ

Pisces

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Physical appearance but then comes intelligent conversation and typically I am disappointed. 🀣🀣🀣

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7

2y

INTJ

Libra

Their energy has to vibe with mine

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5

2y

ENFP

Virgo

7
6

EQ, self accountability/introspection, able to see other perspectives and also understand WHY they hold the perspective they do, ability to make me think and ponder, willingness for growth and to see me grow, ability to let go and have fun sometimes in adventures, but also grounded enough 🀣 since I sometimes lack in that area for myself. A short list πŸ˜…

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2y

ENTP

Virgo

6
5

When I feel seen while talking and doing things with someone. Joking around and being nerdy

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1

2y

INTJ

9
1

They're interested in me. Interested as in really wants to know about my day, keeps up with my life, listens to me, wants me around, and is open with me about themselves. Physical appearance comes after because I'll figure out what I find attractive about them.

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2y

ESFJ

Libra

6
5

Maturity πŸ’―

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1

2y

INTP

Leo

Teleportation

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2

2y

INTP

Pisces

6
7

Personality, love for nature, nice sense of humor, intelligence are top priorities.

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2y

INTJ

Aries

3
4

Physically: eyes, size, hair, smile Other: makes me laugh, kind, strong, intelligence, compassion, geeky, shared interest I think that's it.

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2y

ISFJ

Scorpio

The fact than she is a women

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1

2y

INTJ

Aquarius

6
5

When that person Is good to me, can listen, can help. Care about me. ❀️

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2y

INFP

Capricorn

Eyes

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0

2y

ENFP

Sagittarius

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1

Personality, their 🧠 (smart) and good sense of humor. Attraction is good too but not always the case for me. Someone I can have intellectual connection and talk about our goals/future. Being supportive. Having the same hobbies is huge for me . But of course having our own me time to not smother each other :)

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2

2y

ISFJ

Capricorn

9
1

Personality ☺️

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0

2y

ESTJ

Capricorn

Tough question. Physical attraction cant be replicated, its what intially draws us in....come into the parlour said the spider to the fly. LOL Some qualitities like looks are transitory, they fade after a time. However, qualities like loyality and trust can only develop after a time. And there in lies the conundrum DEAR HUMANS. Our continuously restless and unfulfilled nature torments our frail souls. Never satisfied, always wanting more and never appreciating whats right in front of us the whole time. A la Drew " To find love is easy, to hold on to it is something else completly." May you all find and treasure love. (edited)

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2y

INFP

Pisces

8
7

The way to narrate things, the tone of their voice, the passion about something, can be anything, the smile, the shine on their eyes, their smell, the music they're into, the patience to explain things and teach things

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0

2y

INFJ

Gemini

Kindness and intelligence. Both are kinda rare for some reason

2

6

2y

INTJ

Aquarius

Femininity, kindness, morals, mentally stable, takes care of her body and similar interests.

3

1

2y

INTJ

Gemini

Because they are kindness

4

0

2y

INFJ

Sagittarius

Warmth and pure genuine kindness. Finding such a thing these days is like a needle in a haystack.

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1

2y

INFP

Virgo

Being willing to take me as I am and try new things with me. Life is short and I'm an adventurous person, so being able to expand your horizons and not letting difference of hobbies, interests, etc be a complete turn off. Also kindness. Basic kindness is kind of a rarity when meeting new people where I live.

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2y

INFP

Capricorn

Looks, soul and intelligence

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0

2y

ENTP

Cancer

Feminity. It is hard to gauge loyalty until it is missing. The basics seem pretty basic but they are not common.

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0

2y

INTP

Virgo

Her scent

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3

2y

ENFJ

Pisces

9
1

Reliability. If they say something they gotta mean it and follow through. Words of affirmations mean nothing if your behaviour doesn't match.

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0

2y

ISFJ

Virgo

6
5

Too much to care..

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1

2y

INFJ

Gemini

I’m not blind to handsome men, but intelligence, kindness, empathy/compassion, humor, honesty, and integrity definitely get my attention.

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1

2y

ESTP

Capricorn

7
8

Eyes , smile and jawline 🀩

2

2

2y

INFJ

Aquarius

Intelligence---witty humor, especially!

3

0

2y

INFJ

Gemini

5
4

Apparently being there therapist lol

2

1

2y

ENFJ

Libra

6
7

A clever sense of humor

2

2

2y

INFP

Virgo

Eye contact, confidence, friendly, pays attention to detail (like compliments or asking specific questions), and showing general respect.Treating me like an equal. πŸ₯°

2

1

2y

INTJ

Libra

8
7

Not sure, still haven't found it

2

1

2y

ESTP

Virgo

8
9

For me, When they are blunt/straightforward and when they communicate how they actually feel, I like a Honest date along with fun in the present moment who can live it up with me πŸ”₯

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