Carla

Posted Monday, October 9, 2023

9mo

INFJ

Gemini

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These are MY personal advice/motivation for each type. Please nobody get offended. These are TRUTHFULLY here as my own perspectives based on my experiences with each type. If you don’t find benefit in any advice or motivation I gave here, then it’s okay, you don’t have to take it. 😊💛

ISFJ: Don’t let your pride get in the way of the pure ways you can care. Work on expressing how you feel so you don’t hold resentment and grudges. You have A LOT to offer and a lot of love to give. You make a huge difference wherever you go and wherever you work. ❤️ ESFJ: If you have an issue with someone, confront them about it instead of gossiping about them. You can be as SWEET as candy, so don’t let anyone sour your good vibes and nobody will be able to say anything bad about you.🩷 ISFP: Try to be a bit more open because keeping all your emotions and feelings to yourself all of the time won’t help you grow. You’re so unique, funny, creative, and childlike, don’t let your problems overcome those parts of you. Don’t let others take advantage of you, please.💚 ESFP: Choose a smaller circle of friends even if you want to befriend everyone. Not everyone is your friend. Be wise with who you befriend because you can turn sour or create a lot of enemies. So even though you might want to be surrounded by people, choose them very carefully. You have a lot of talents and good energy to create and give.🩵 ISTJ: Don’t ever change the way you’re chill. Don’t underestimate yourself because you’re one of the few kinds to make big differences in your work environment and it’s overlooked. Don’t forget that you make those differences because others will.🤎 ESTJ: Be more open minded because not everything is hardcore. Remember that feelings are just as important as logic and reason. Don’t diminish them because we don’t just survive on bread alone. Don’t be afraid to be soft and get into your feelings. 🩶 ISTP: Don’t lose your creativity and keep yourself motivated because sometimes when you don’t share with others close to you about your hardships, they might not ask you if something is wrong if you hide it. Your emotions and feelings are very important.💖 ESTP: Try being more expressive about how grateful you are towards those chooses to you even if they are co-workers or friends. You’re the reason our cars and machines work well. You’re very helpful in ensure practical ways. Tap into things that are intellectual because you’re REALLY intelligent and can offer more than you think.💙 INFJ: Get. Out. Of. Our. Home. More. Often. Challenge yourself on something you’re horrified to do. Practice being a little more open. This will help you achieve things you’ve been wanting to achieve for a long time. Be more confrontational whilst being tactful. Protect yourself and know when enough is enough to walk away from friendships, family, relationships, and bad habits of yours when you need to. Love yourself these ways because you KNOW nobody else will. You’re your own people. Stay strong, you know you are.🤍 ENFJ: You need to slow down and catch up with yourself. Take time to relax a bit and spend time alone just to think and evaluate where you are in life and how you are TRULY feeling. Don’t forget about yourself trying to please others and hurting yourself in the process. You’re so strong and you make a huge difference in people’s lives.💜 INFP: You should spend less time focusing on “what could be” and more time on “doing” and making what you dream of happen. You have so much to offer and many ways to express you care. Find ways to exercise reason and logic because even though your feelings and emotions are so dominant inside of you, practicality and balance are super important too. If you can merge your dreams with reality, you’ll be more happy, balanced, and you’ll feel more excited in life than depressed or unmotivated. Even if you might make excuses, some are more valid than others (this is for everyone), whatever you CAN do something about, make it happen. 🧡 ENFP: You should work on being more open and honest with your true feelings and thoughts with others. You’ll grow to have A LOT of regrets because you choose to do the “safe” option. In the end, you hurt others and yourself. So it’s best to just be honest with your real feelings, emotions, and thoughts. You’re super emotional so it’s much healthier to get them out in a healthy manner. 🖤 INTJ: You should try doing something you’ve never tried. Get out of your head and partake in something that will make a positive difference in your life like going to the gym or on afternoon walks. You have some wisdom to share, so share it openly. Practice socializing in-person, it’ll help you not fall into social anxiety or depression.💞 ENTJ: Slow down and smell the toffee. We aren’t here forever and you won’t take any belongings with you when we die. Be a bit more verbally affectionate with those closest to you. You’re super efficient, intelligent, and apparent wherever you go. You should add being more thoughtful of others and understanding of our differences. You are a really cool and chill person when you let a little loose. 💓 INTP: I would hug each of you, whether guy or girl. Y’all need it. Practice socializing in-person even if you don’t want to. This will help you shake social anxiety and you will enjoy your life a little bit more. I know some people can make you never want to leave your safe haven (aka your batman cave) but to improve your lives and lower your depression, you need to get out more. Practice socialization so you get the hang of it and so you don’t feel as uncomfortable around others as you might currently. Also, delve into your emotions and feelings because since it’s not a strength of yours, you can start to understand them better. You have traumas that you should work on to move on in that part of your life. You have way too much to experience and to give to others❤️‍🩹 ENTP: I saved you little punks for last😂 Don’t be scared to be the softies you are on the inside. Don’t just drift into the wind without aim. Don’t make your life worse than it has been upto now. Don’t let the bad treatment of others turn you into a monster you are not. Don’t let the past continue being your present or your future. You’re too special to not build yourself until you reach your potentials. Because you deserve to have a beautiful future like you always dreamed❤️‍🔥