11/4/2022

ISFJ

Leo

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If you could go back in time to change one thing ,what would it be ?

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INTJ

Aquarius

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I would help my childhood best friend. Not to get too into it, but I've heard his life has turned out really badly. I know that downward spiral started with some bad relationships and drug abuse that happened when I knew him. I know it wasn't my job to save or carry him, and I don't necessarily feel guilty about it because there's no way I could've known how things would turn out, but I was very meek back then and didn't want to tell him things he didn't want to hear. Now I know, sometimes when we love someone, that's exactly the kind of thing you need to say to them. I justfeel for him knowing his life has turned out shot somewhere. He was a good person.

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INFJ

Aries

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I would leave myself a note that said: "buy bitcoins"

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3y

INFP

Aries

The day i first said "yes" to drugs. Clean now, yet I wasted a lot of my early adulthood hating myself.

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3y

INFP

Scorpio

I would go back to before my husband died , 😭😭💔just to be with him one last time

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3y

ESFP

Aquarius

Reverse global warming

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3y

ISTJ

Cancer

Not eat as much junk food 🤣

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3y

INTJ

Pisces

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7

I probably would of stayed single and never started dating. I didn't know what I was missing until I got into the world of dating.

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3y

INFJ

Virgo

Make sure the commons were never privatized so that capitalism couldn’t exist

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3y

INTJ

Leo

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All the guys I wasted my time with, would have never gotten the time of day

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3y

INFP

Cancer

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1

That I could've prevented my husband's murder. (edited)

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0

3y

INFJ

Aries

2
1

I would tell myself don't trust anyone. Be prepared to be a lone warrior.

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3y

ENFP

Virgo

9
1

Save my best friend from getting shot

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3y

INFP

Leo

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Who I dated before things turned south.

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3y

INFJ

Taurus

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1

i hate this question because even with, all the bad things that have happened in my life, so many good things have happened along the way that i can't afford to change anything even though I want to really badly... my life has been shaped by the good and the bad, and that's just how life is 😌💚 (edited)

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3y

INFJ

Leo

To not be born, period. Or if I was born to better parents that didn't leave me with mental health disorders. 🙃

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INTP

Capricorn

I'd go back and take all the money I used for university and invest it in stocks. Or at least go back and tell myself to learn about being financially literate a lot sooner. I'm learning that knowing how to use money is a better strategy than simply making more.

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3y

INFP

Libra

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I would change how I treated others, but especially my mom. In elementary school, I constantly gave my teachers a hard time and made my mom cry a lot with my selfish behavior. I still accidentally make my mom cry sometimes when I have arguments with my brother and I hate it. I used to tell her horrible things like "I hate her", "I wish she was never my mom", "I wish she would die", etc. I would say them whenever she grounded me, put me in time out, took my phone (in middle school and high school), or spanked me. I understand now that she just wanted me to work hard and become a good person. She didn't want me to become like some people in my family or like other people that we've had to deal with. I really regret all the rude and horrible things I've ever said to her. I'm still working on my anger issues and how I treat others. I try to treat everyone with kindness as often as I can. (edited)

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3y

INTP

Leo

9
1

I got robbed a couple times...so I should've stayed home depressed,listening to sad music all day to avoid that Jk i would've learned plumbing,electrical and woodworking sooner :p

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3y

INFP

Gemini

6
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If I could go back in time and change one thing I would go back and save the life that I couldn't before

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INFP

Cancer

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Never smoking

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3y

ISTP

Cancer

8
7

I would have taking my highschool life much more serious. Maybe focus on a career as a surgeon or a marine biologist.

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INFP

Sagittarius

7
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I would spend more time with my grandma and grandpa. My grandpa is dying and I'm spending time with him now. But I don't think it's hit me.

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3y

ENFP

Sagittarius

2
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Getting diagnosed sooner for BPD

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3y

INFJ

Gemini

It depends on how you see things " glass half full " or "half empty" i was dealing with depression for 7 years and trust me it's just the way we think and fall in loop of negative thoughts ( get rid of all the negativity ,start using Affirmations and getting better than yesterday) no one can heal u except you yourself, people nowdays don't wanna work on themselves and just rely on others and magic pill.

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3y

ISFP

Aries

Not Being diognose with bipolar

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3y

ENFP

Taurus

9
1

I wouldn't change a thing because if I did I would not have learned the valuable lessons I needed to become the person I am today.

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3y

ENFJ

Cancer

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8

Keeping my virginity. I was told my whole life that men are supposed to lose it as soon as possible or they are a loser… but I wish I had waited for someone special. I’ll be forever strange inside because I ran at something I was never ready for.

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3y

INFP

Taurus

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The argument I had with my best friend

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3y

INTJ

Virgo

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I would've never built my wife a bigger house. We should have been content with what we had. Now there is no us. (edited)

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3y

ENFP

Sagittarius

2
1

Study harder

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3y

ISFP

Cancer

Marriage (ex)

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0

3y

INFJ

Sagittarius

8
7

That is hard but probably stop my family from moving to a specific neighborhood 😂

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0

3y

INTJ

Leo

5
4

To stay single

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0

3y

INFP

Gemini

9
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Not to enter a relationship at 14 yo, and cut my father off a lot earlier on so I'm not having to work through as much trauma

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3y

ENFP

Gemini

I would change my decisions regarding who I dated in the past.

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3y

ESFP

Capricorn

Nothing I guess, I like where I'm at ^^

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INFP

Capricorn

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11pm, January 6th 2019. Tell my little brother to come and sleep over and ask him if he needed anything and that I love him 😭 that it's okay to be angry just not okay to do what the mind is telling you to do.

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3y

ENFJ

Gemini

My life

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