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Meh.. its not like that person would actually care. π€£ but in all honestly.. no matter how messed up your life is.. lets normalize to be okay with it not being okay. Find happiness in other things and be good.. keep yourself happy... let a part of you fall apart but keep that amazing smile and laughter for the part of you that needs that attention and love. P.s if I do ask you how you are, I do wish to know about your bad days.. but not many people are that way. (edited)
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I answer honestly. (edited)
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Will I give them an honest answer sometimes I'm good and sometimes I'm not (moody) π
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I tend to sweeten the experience of my life but I think itβs very important to actually share how you are actually feeling, but if itβs a negative experience try to share it in a positive outlook as it helps you internalize and make yourself feel better.. obviously donβt go on βwoe is meβ tour but you can tell them your cat died or you struggled this morning to roll out of bed and it will make you feel better to say βyk itβs funny Iβm feeling really upset ab ____ but Iβm just pushing through it and trying to get ____ doneβ usually theyβll commend you for your hardened work ethic and wish you well. Always works for me :)
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Hm... I don't think anyone ever asked me how I am while I was feeling bad. People only ask how I am once in a blue moon and most of the time I'm alright, so that would be a real case of the stars getting aligned. w<) But if that were to ever happen... I think I would just say "I will be" if it's not that bad, or "I would rather not talk right now" if it's really bad. Every person has, or at least should have, a support system. That is, people you can come to when you need emotional support. Since I'm my only support system, I don't really feel a need to integrate other people into my problems; It's not that I don't trust other people, I just rather deal with problems by myself. I do think people should be honest to others when they need emotional support though, do not be ashamed to ask for help because there are people out there that care about you! \( As a last resort, if I ever had an emotional problem that I couldn't deal with by myself... I would ask my family for help. Hopefully that won't happen, but even someone like me knows it's essential to not bite more than you can chew; I just happen to know my limits really! (edited)
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Of course there's many a time that I'm not good, but I still them in good coz that's wat they want to hear. Ppl ask the question all the time but they dnt really want to hear that things are not good. They don't mind hearing 'not good' occasionally but they don't want to hear it often. So if ur going through a bad patch in life where your 'not good' lasts a while after a while u will have to say ur good even when ur not coz ppl get fed up of hearing not good. They also just think ur being negative wen actually it may just be the reality of ur life at that time
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I'm fine
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Realistically, there's rarely a day I feel okay; but no one'll know because the default response is almost always "okay".
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I sort of feel that thoughts have manifesting power. Brought to your attention or the forefront of your attention give it energy. So to say something negative brings negative energy into my life, but to think negatively also has the same affect. You can look at each moment and have a different perception of 'how you are doing' in comparison to another moment. It depends on which moments you are comparing. When someone asks me 'how am I?' my initial thoughts ask 'in what way are you asking?' Physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically, economically? Today or yesterday... the last time we talked? Better than my absolute worst moment... I am definitely better than that. So my typical answer to folks that physically ask me this question is something along the lines of... 'great now that you are here. You can tell me about...' refocus the conversation on something more productive than fair weather things. Side note- we have a local greeting to other locals (all folks within the state), we all do it an if they don't they aren't from around here. When folks make eye contact in physical passing. There's a quick. How's it? Or How ya doin? And the correct response, even if you don't know the person is good n you. You don't even stop to get a response back in passing. The question is the response and the response us the question. Folks don't typically see a lot of others on our highways, so it's polite to wave at the folks going the other way. Just like a 'Howdy, neighbor.' Unless you live in larger town then it's just in residential areas. (edited)
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Never good, best I can do with honesty is "hanging in there"
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I will answer the question "It's monster day"
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Leo
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Yep, I say how I am, depending on who I'm talking to
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I see so many people on here pretending they are okay. If someone asks, be honest, they may be able to help. π€ and if not they will treat you more sensitively because you are not doing okay. If you have people that will make you feel uncomfortable about communicating your feelings, you may need to reassess who it is you hang around.
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Pisces
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Always reply with I'm doing unbelievable, everyone doesn't need to bear your sadness.
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Aquarius
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Alot of the time I'm not good. But I put on my happy face and get through the day.
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Cancer
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Most of the time it's just a quick conversation starter or social formaitlty not a genuine question that requires a fully honest response. If it IS a genuine question, my response depends on who they are and what I'm willing to disclose in the moment. I'm very selective in who I tell I'm genuinely having a rough or not amazing day because it usually warrants follow up questions and I can only tolerate certain people's follow up questions. I also have to be in the mood to talk about it. Thankfully, I rarely have bad days/rough days, but when I do I usually only tell those people close to me who ask, and even then there are maybe 1 or 2 people that get the full scope of why it's a bad day while the other close people get bullet points of what transpired π€·π»ββοΈ. (edited)
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