What event in your past, if it had gone differently, would have changed your life for the better?

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INFJ

Taurus

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πŸ€”..hmm..I don't want to change any event in my past.. so far they were all good lessons for my present and solid foundation for better future ✌

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1y

ISFP

Libra

Starting therapy when I was younger would have been one hell of a game changer

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1y

ISTP

Sagittarius

Loosing my son to drowning 😞 it's the hardest thing i have ever delt with

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ENFJ

Scorpio

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havin not been born

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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I have nothing to change with my whole life even if it's full of chaos, pain, tragic, and darkness... Because it even made me to be a better person and who I am today... Life is beautiful beyond anything!!! πŸŒ»πŸƒπŸŒ±πŸŒˆβœ¨οΈπŸ₯°πŸ˜ But this would be unforgettable to meπŸ‘‡, a super kind doctor has helped me... I was infected with covid and I had to have emergency operation with angioplasty because one of the artery was narrowed by 80%... (edited)

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1y

INFP

Taurus

Having more supporting parents when it comes to a discipline.

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1y

ENFJ

Libra

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That date 🀣🀣

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1y

INTJ

Cancer

Probably asking my first love to marry me instead of being scared to ask

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1y

INFP

Virgo

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7

Acting on my gut more.

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1y

ISTP

Pisces

Tried harder in school

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1y

INFP

Aquarius

September 5th 2017, my best friend from childhood and a guy I loved like a brother passed in a car accident. Messed with my head and put me in a very bad place mentally when I heard what had happened and because of that, I was not thinking clearly because I was dealing with the reality of never seeing or talking to him ever again and I ended up making decisions I never would have made otherwise and losing out on things because I was very lost as a person for the first time in my life

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ISTJ

Capricorn

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See thats the attitude ,that is all wrong. Sitting around dwelling on what? Their is no single moment that lead to where you are right now. if you are unhappy with who you are? Then you are wasting your time. Dreaming of traveling back in time. With knowledge of the future. If you had made that different choice. You still would of made every choice after that that lead to right here. So this is that moment not 10 or 20 or 30 years ago. Right here right now is the moment. You decide, weather you want to be. Miserable dreaming of time travel, or start living the life you have. To the best of your ability, and see how loving who you are. Instead of hating who you are not works for you.

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1y

ISFJ

Virgo

Not telling my first crush about my crush on her

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1y

INFP

Leo

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Agreeing to taking that loan to study abroad for a degree. (edited)

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1y

ISTJ

Cancer

Game of thrones ending.

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INFJ

Aries

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I lost my closest 2nd cousin when i was 7 years old.. not changing it..BUT i sometimes wondering how would we be if he’s still around… (edited)

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1y

INFJ

Cancer

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My birth!🀣

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1y

INTJ

Leo

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My artistic projects (edited)

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1y

INFP

8
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not giving too much power to people that already hurt me .

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1y

INTJ

Pisces

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I would have appreciated the people in my life more . Like they say you don't know what you got till you lose it

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1y

INTJ

Leo

"I believe every experience, good or bad, has shaped who I am today. While there were challenging moments, I don't think I would change any event in my past. Each one taught me valuable lessons and contributed to my personal growth. I'm grateful for where I am now and the journey that brought me here."

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1y

INTP

Virgo

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Birth? Like being born to different parents? Could go either way, technically, but I have a feeling it'd most likely be an improvement.

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1y

INTP

Loosing my both parents when I was grade school, but now standing at my own 🐾 strong independent woman. πŸ’ͺ🏻

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1y

INFJ

Taurus

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Not playing so many hours of games

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1y

INTP

Aries

6
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my birth

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1y

INFJ

Leo

If my parents had treated me better. I feel like I would've grown up more sane and rational.

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1y

INFJ

Cancer

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Yes. Regret of not spending enough time with my late father. If only I have more time with him...

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1y

ESFJ

Virgo

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I think all the events in my life lead me to the person I am today. Any moment I pulled a butterfly effect on may turn me into someone I wouldn't even know. Tho there are what if moments of how drastic it be if it changed.

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INTJ

Capricorn

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There are many things but the main one was allowing my parents to influence my college decision. They wanted me close when i was trying to go abroad.

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INTP

Aries

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I did really bad things. But now I feel fine about it because it's my past, not my present. I don't have regrets. I've forgiven myself. And even if it was an opportunity for something good I wouldn't do it differently. Because... Well, live is life (na-na-na-na-na~)

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1y

INFJ

Libra

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Buying lotto tickets and actually wining the lottery

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1y

ENFP

Libra

Been more honest with myself

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1y

ENTP

Aries

My dad not passing away

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1y

ISFP

Libra

Idk... Pretty much a good thing on its own whether good or bad... Its a matter of perspective... Im just thankful Im still breathing today...

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1y

ISFP

Libra

My blood cancer journey

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1y

ESFJ

Sagittarius

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Not marrying my exπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ All the signs were there but love is blind right? What a waste of 7 years. Lesson learnt though

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1y

ISFJ

Cancer

Alcohol

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INFJ

Aquarius

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When I 5 yrs, i got opportunity to study as voice actor, but i got cold feet

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