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Posted Tuesday, April 16, 2024

4/16/2024

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Taurus

Would you date someone who is disabled and couldn't walk?

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INTP

Pisces

I’m in a wheelchair and I’ve been single almost ten years. It’s tough finding someone

ENFJ

Libra

A disability is just like other characteristics, like height, skin tone, or hair color.

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ISFP

Capricorn

I dated someone who needed the assistant of a wheelchair. The only difficulty I really struggled with was sharing my hobbies, he couldn't participate in a lot of outdoor activities and I was sad I couldn't share some of my favorite things with him. It was hard for both of us but I'm glad to say he met his wife shortly after and had a beautiful little girl last time we spoke 🙂

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ESTJ

Capricorn

Yes. It’ll be hard for them to get away

ENFJ

Sagittarius

I'm not sure, since I haven't been presented with the scenario but I always care more for compatibility and personality, so I'd like to think so.

INTP

Gemini

No, I dare speak the truth and not lie like so many of the people will do when asked such questions. I know people, and I know they say anything that they think people around them wish to hear, which is also "socially acceptance." Because they know they don't have to live up to it, they simply need to say it. Reality doesn't reflect their talk. it's just empty sentiments; they don't know what love is and when it's based on an ideology, they will say whatever matches these expectations. People will hate people for being honest, people who lie are far more unreliable because they will sell you out, they will lie, etc.; heck, they even lure you in based on lies. Disabled people have special needs. I am not stepping away from my goals and purpose, knowing full well that not even the average person wouldn't handle a life outside of the city limits with me. I have dreams and aspirations, my life matters too. If a woman in my life got into an accident, that would be an exception, because it can happen at any given time and you don't abandon people you claim to love. But right now, I have made life-changing decisions and life goals that I won't step away from. Anyone who has the strength and tenacity to step on that road with me will earn my trust and loyalty, because it takes real guts, courage, and commitment. I get to see who they truly are, and when we start out that journey together, we will finish that journey together, and the vows will be kept no matter what. I simply work twice as hard to keep the dream alive for both. But I am not out looking for disabled people; no one essentially is, it might be easy to say they would until the reality of the situation dawns on them. If people actually can and actually put actions to their mouth, I applaud that. But I won't lie for social acceptance, because that would be morally worse, and it's already too big of a problem with society and has destroyed whatever trust is left to be had in this world. Because everyone keeps yapping their mouths and doing the complete opposite. These sentiments can also be quite demoralizing to disabled people, because millions of people say they deserve love too, and love conquers all, but then it never truly happens for them. I am not saying disabled people shouldn't have love, I am just saying most people say Yes, but they always expect everyone except themselves to step up and do it. It is also acceptable that a person can't date a disabled person. Just look at how liberal cities treat homeless people; it's just empty words. Based on dating trends, people seem to struggle with height, sooo.... yeah... (edited)

INTP

I don’t think I’m stable enough to think about this

ENTP

Libra

❤️why not? I would say yess.. (edited)

INTP

Virgo

Disabled as in couldn't walk or is there something else? But if he can handle himself alone---provide and care for himself, I don't see why not. Honestly would have more respect because I think it would require a lot more grit. Plus I know people who don't have a disability but still act helpless. But I wouldn't date them if it will feel like I'm their caretaker. Unless I feel extremely strong for them, but even then I know I would reconsider. But eh, never been in this situation so I wouldn't really know how I'd feel then.

INFJ

Aquarius

Yes.

ISTP

Gemini

Yes. (edited)

ISTP

Cancer

As a person with his own disabilities, absolutely. I'd also date someone that's blind. Deaf would be hard simply because I'd have to learn a new language but maybe.

INFJ

Scorpio

As someone who had a dad with muscular distrophy and the strain it had on my mom and the help I had to give him it would depend on her outlook on life.

ENFP

Cancer

You know, I want to say I would. I really really do. I am all about personality and not looks. But at the same time, that would take tremendous effort. Effort I'm not ready to give just yet with where I am in life.

INFJ

Cancer

Yes maybe...I already did ..it was my recent ex ..he was my friend for a 10years .before we had a relationship he got sick...he can't walked..😕 after he recovered he courted me and i dont know if its really love or just emphaty..it lasted for 3 years and 6months a Long distance relationship..we broked because he lied to me on something..not a 3rd party thing he never cheated on me..he is good but he is a man with so much pride ..I'm just human I get tired ..its hard to help someone if they don't want to help themselves..

INTP

Cancer

Being a Fortnite player is more of deal breaker than being disabled

ESFP

Libra

If they were disabled before we dated probably not. If we were already dating and they had an accident I wouldn't leave them though.

ENFJ

Libra

Just because someone has a disability doesn't make them any less of a human being . Doesn't mean they don't feel and exsperence love. I dated a guy in a wheel chair in college , he had a better personality than some of the walking guys lol. He played in a wheel chair basketball group . He didn't let his disability define him. So yes I would.

INTJ

Aquarius

I've never been in the situation b4,, but here's my thought.. Each & every one of us have our own disability, that person just happen couldn't walk. So long that he isn't mindfully & emotionally disabled (basically a psychopath), I'm okay with that. I'd only see whether we're connected & compatible or not

ISTJ

Scorpio

Yeah! Love is not about physical appearance.

ISTJ

Aquarius

Yes, because everyone deserves to be loved and to have someone who cares for them. Also disabled people have qualities which make them great and unique human beings. I would try to help them as much as i can.

ISFP

Cancer

Sure, if the person does not have a problem to accept, i will feel glad for having givn me the honour to b choosen (by trusting me) 🦢

INFP

Gemini

I believe i would, as long as there was a connection and desire to be together.

INFJ

Cancer

Absolutely. Love is love as long as it's mutual. Love doesn't come in conditions (i.e: I love you just because...), it's unconditional therefore disabilities and even some flaws are overlooked in potential or in relationships.

INTJ

Taurus

What an interesting albeit based & insensitive question- For argument's sake, yes, I would! Because (a) they are just as capable as the "normal" individual, if not more so! And (b)

ISTP

Leo

Yes

INTJ

Scorpio

Well, it depends on what type of disability cause some things I'm not strong enough for which I must admit. I did took care of my late grandma for a bit so I think if to date and if I love the guy, it's a yes. But will it last? I'm not sure. I'm loyal to a fault when I truly commit tho.

ESTP

Aries

that's a hard one. And not because of shallow reasons, but that is an entire lifestyle that you would be entering into. There would be a lot of things to consider besides the obvious ones. And the everyday things that we take advantage of as not being disabled, you will now have to not only consider but apply to our lives for our partner's sake. So everyone has the right to say no to that if it is not for them. it doesn't make you a bad person, it makes you emotionally intelligent enough to know it would not work for either party.

ISTJ

Pisces

Yeah yeah as long as it works

INFP

Virgo

yes, I accept anyone and hate that society is ableist and hope we can bring in helpful resources like better public transportation

ESFP

Leo

Of course. Why not?

INFP

Gemini

Everything else being compatible? Sure, no problem!

ENFJ

Capricorn

Why not? I'd treasure her and love her as she is. That's what genuine love is.

INFJ

Taurus

I've had a crush on someone who couldn't walk when I was 15, but never had the chance for it to be anything more than a crush. Other than that, I don't see any reason that I couldn't, because I had a partner who had something happen and wasn't able to walk, it wouldn't make me love them any less.

INFJ

Aquarius

yes. if there is chemistry between us, why not?

ENTJ

Taurus

I DONT MIND IF ITS LOVE ITS LOVE we can still have fun

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Questions Community

I’m in a wheelchair and I’ve been single almost ten years. It’s tough finding someone

A disability is just like other characteristics, like height, skin tone, or hair color.

Yes. It’ll be hard for them to get away

I'm not sure, since I haven't been presented with the scenario but I always care more for compatibility and personality, so I'd like to think so.

I don’t think I’m stable enough to think about this

❤️why not? I would say yess.. (edited)

Yes.

Yes. (edited)

As a person with his own disabilities, absolutely. I'd also date someone that's blind. Deaf would be hard simply because I'd have to learn a new language but maybe.

As someone who had a dad with muscular distrophy and the strain it had on my mom and the help I had to give him it would depend on her outlook on life.

You know, I want to say I would. I really really do. I am all about personality and not looks. But at the same time, that would take tremendous effort. Effort I'm not ready to give just yet with where I am in life.

Being a Fortnite player is more of deal breaker than being disabled

If they were disabled before we dated probably not. If we were already dating and they had an accident I wouldn't leave them though.

Yeah! Love is not about physical appearance.

Yes, because everyone deserves to be loved and to have someone who cares for them. Also disabled people have qualities which make them great and unique human beings. I would try to help them as much as i can.

Sure, if the person does not have a problem to accept, i will feel glad for having givn me the honour to b choosen (by trusting me) 🦢

I believe i would, as long as there was a connection and desire to be together.

Absolutely. Love is love as long as it's mutual. Love doesn't come in conditions (i.e: I love you just because...), it's unconditional therefore disabilities and even some flaws are overlooked in potential or in relationships.

What an interesting albeit based & insensitive question- For argument's sake, yes, I would! Because (a) they are just as capable as the "normal" individual, if not more so! And (b)

Yes

Well, it depends on what type of disability cause some things I'm not strong enough for which I must admit. I did took care of my late grandma for a bit so I think if to date and if I love the guy, it's a yes. But will it last? I'm not sure. I'm loyal to a fault when I truly commit tho.

Yeah yeah as long as it works

yes, I accept anyone and hate that society is ableist and hope we can bring in helpful resources like better public transportation

Of course. Why not?

Everything else being compatible? Sure, no problem!

Why not? I'd treasure her and love her as she is. That's what genuine love is.

I've had a crush on someone who couldn't walk when I was 15, but never had the chance for it to be anything more than a crush. Other than that, I don't see any reason that I couldn't, because I had a partner who had something happen and wasn't able to walk, it wouldn't make me love them any less.

yes. if there is chemistry between us, why not?

I DONT MIND IF ITS LOVE ITS LOVE we can still have fun

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