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What is your most embarrassing rejection?

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INTP

Aquarius

What are we rejecting here? Dating? Friendship? My cat not coming when I call his name every time? You need to be more clear..

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ESTJ

Taurus

From a coward's point of view, it hurts more to think how many relationships have slipped out rather than being rejected because you didn't dare to confess in the past.

ISTJ

Sagittarius

In highschool there was this adorable exchange student from Japan, Miki from Hokkaido. I was smitten with her but didn't dare make any moves. However I was also developing an interest in pretty much anything from Japan, so I really really wanted to learn a bit of the language. In music class, which was the only class we shared, I'd try to strike a conversation and ask her a few things. She seemed positively impressed about my knowledge of Japan, so I took it as a sign to plan my move. After about a week or so I'd noticed she'd started to hang with two other girls, and they'd walk with her out of the school as well. Fantastic for my antisocial ass. So - I decided to write a letter, wherein I as politely as possible asked if she'd hang out after school and teach me a few sentences. I handed it to her after a class, when I overheard her class was in the room next to the one I'd just had a class in. I distinctly remember how she shyly smiled and accepted the letter. I never heard back from her after that, and I couldn't get myself to even ask her about it afterwards. Kinda wish I'd gathered the idea and courage to ask her out proper, I suspect it'd have been a somewhat smooth maneuver - albeit quirky and dorky. Oh well. That's all I got c:

INFJ

Cancer

Matched with a guy over a month ago. He never initiated a conversation...and I have social anxiety so neither did I. After 3 days of overthinking and stressing out on how to approach him, I finally decided to text him. I texted him a "Hi, Sorry I never initiated a conversation it's because I have social anxiety. Anyways I think you are cute. 😁" And he unmatched me. Never again 🥲

INTJ

Cancer

Never had one (edited)

INFJ

Libra

Faced so many rejections by now that I don't even know what embarrassment means anymore . Look at all rejections as lessons . For instance if I didn't failed that exam that time/ would have gotten that job or would have expressed my feelings things would have been different but I wouldn't have learned or wouldn't have become what I am now. So every rejection brings new opportunities. Best thing is to never giving up. 🤷🤗 (edited)

ENFJ

Don't have one. Every rejection turned out to be a blessing♡

ESTJ

Capricorn

You should look in the mirror and you’ll understand why I wouldn’t date you. Has to be the best

ENTJ

Never had an embarrassing rejection but was friend zoned a few times. It definitely wasn't fun. 🤣

INTJ

Virgo

Was called half a man for having one nut from cancer and left me for my friend after I purpose. (edited)

INFJ

Capricorn

Got told they were lesbian 🫡

INFJ

Libra

My bf keep on seducing me in vc then after that he leave me hanging lol now im waiting for him to come back, lol

ENFP

Gemini

Oh man lmao I got you. After a really fun date that went from coffee, to food, then ended at barcade, I thought the vibes were immaculate. So when I’m walking the girl back home she puts on lip gloss(sign? No no she might just need it) then had a mint (surly a sign? Nah I might be over thinking it), THEN she grabs my arm, says she had a great time, and wants to go out again. I know DAMN WELL that’s a sign right??? So I’m like green means go, and go in for a goodbye kiss, and she ABSOLUTELY SWERVES me, and says she thought the vibe was more platonic than romantic; which is totally fine btw. But let me tell you, I made a joke to break that tension, but inside!!! Maaaaaan that embarrassment still hits me time to time

INTJ

Taurus

I said I'll kiss the boy who'll help me but the two boys verbally expressed their disgust

INTP

Taurus

"It's not that I hate you. I just don't like you"

ISTJ

Virgo

Asked a girl out She said no Was interested in someone else Go to class a few days later and a friend asked me about it Asked if I had realized that when I asked her it was 14th Said I hadn't realized About 5 minutes later it clicked in my head as I was writing the date at the top of my notes It was February I had asked her on Valentine's

INFJ

Scorpio

I confessed to a girl while her friend was there. She wasn't into me but her friend was. Good lord.

INFJ

Cancer

😆😅😆 nope i was the one rejecting🤐 Sorry ! I

ESFJ

Gemini

I don't wanna nothing serious at the moment. 3 weeks after started a new relationship 🤡

ENFP

Taurus

I'm not sure why anyone would be inclined to answer this question in an open forum honestly if it was actually really bad. My most embarrassing rejection is society. It's mutual.

ENFP

Gemini

She told me I reminded her of her grandpa

ENTJ

Pisces

The last one is always the worse one because I forget about the ones before. The most embarrassing ones are the ones when I play myself trying too hard.

INFP

Sagittarius

Romantically, a guy kept throwing these hints at me. Initially I wasn't interested but I got interested and asked him for his number. He said I can have it but don't take it because I'm attracted to him. WTF?! (edited)

ENFJ

Virgo

Death

INFJ

Leo

One romantic rejection I got was and I quote, “the thought of us being together makes me physically sick.” So yeah… ouch

INFP

Libra

She rolled her eyes just by looking at me at the distance

ENFP

Scorpio

I got rejected while I was in the shower

INTP

Capricorn

😅 most embarrassing n heart breaking moment was when a person cut our vacation short, because on the first night i apparently snore too loud and he couldn't sleep. He went home alone the following day and i stayed for the full vacation. Couple of chats afterwards then he's gone 😅

INTP

Pisces

Its not a rejection but its embarassing, lol. So one of my batchmates was coming to the city and she said we'd be going for a date (nothing physical, we used to go for such dates when in college). So I was really excited about this and when we were supposed to meet she went out with someone else 😂😂 and she completely forgot she had to meet me 😂

INTJ

Libra

had one & believe me it makes you sad which matters the most & embarrasment well that doesn't matter at all

ESFP

Libra

To be rejected by your own smartlock because you just went to the dentist and your voice feel funny

INTP

Virgo

When I was asked my height 🥺

INFJ

Aries

For being a nice gentleman. She liked bad boys

ISFJ

Libra

When i said to my crush na I do like him but he told me that he already have a girlfriend woah

INFJ

Sagittarius

I've read that you gotta blink slowly and then gaze lovingly at them... I did those but my cat just stared at me and went to sleep 😢

ENFJ

Aries

I don't really consider them to be embarrassing to me. But ghosting culture is an embarrassment to the human race as a whole. It is childish behavior, and cowardly.

INFJ

Libra

None, 😎 you can't get rejected if you don't approach

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Questions Community

What are we rejecting here? Dating? Friendship? My cat not coming when I call his name every time? You need to be more clear..

From a coward's point of view, it hurts more to think how many relationships have slipped out rather than being rejected because you didn't dare to confess in the past.

Never had one (edited)

Don't have one. Every rejection turned out to be a blessing♡

You should look in the mirror and you’ll understand why I wouldn’t date you. Has to be the best

Never had an embarrassing rejection but was friend zoned a few times. It definitely wasn't fun. 🤣

Was called half a man for having one nut from cancer and left me for my friend after I purpose. (edited)

Got told they were lesbian 🫡

My bf keep on seducing me in vc then after that he leave me hanging lol now im waiting for him to come back, lol

I said I'll kiss the boy who'll help me but the two boys verbally expressed their disgust

"It's not that I hate you. I just don't like you"

I confessed to a girl while her friend was there. She wasn't into me but her friend was. Good lord.

😆😅😆 nope i was the one rejecting🤐 Sorry ! I

I don't wanna nothing serious at the moment. 3 weeks after started a new relationship 🤡

I'm not sure why anyone would be inclined to answer this question in an open forum honestly if it was actually really bad. My most embarrassing rejection is society. It's mutual.

She told me I reminded her of her grandpa

The last one is always the worse one because I forget about the ones before. The most embarrassing ones are the ones when I play myself trying too hard.

Romantically, a guy kept throwing these hints at me. Initially I wasn't interested but I got interested and asked him for his number. He said I can have it but don't take it because I'm attracted to him. WTF?! (edited)

Death

One romantic rejection I got was and I quote, “the thought of us being together makes me physically sick.” So yeah… ouch

She rolled her eyes just by looking at me at the distance

I got rejected while I was in the shower

😅 most embarrassing n heart breaking moment was when a person cut our vacation short, because on the first night i apparently snore too loud and he couldn't sleep. He went home alone the following day and i stayed for the full vacation. Couple of chats afterwards then he's gone 😅

had one & believe me it makes you sad which matters the most & embarrasment well that doesn't matter at all

To be rejected by your own smartlock because you just went to the dentist and your voice feel funny

When I was asked my height 🥺

For being a nice gentleman. She liked bad boys

When i said to my crush na I do like him but he told me that he already have a girlfriend woah

I've read that you gotta blink slowly and then gaze lovingly at them... I did those but my cat just stared at me and went to sleep 😢

I don't really consider them to be embarrassing to me. But ghosting culture is an embarrassment to the human race as a whole. It is childish behavior, and cowardly.

None, 😎 you can't get rejected if you don't approach

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