If you could fix any mistakes from your recent relationships what would they be?

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2y

INFP

Pisces

Starting the relationship in the first place

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2y

INFJ

Libra

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I would focus on myself and not center my future around him.

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2y

INTP

Gemini

7
8

Giving second chance.

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2y

ENTP

Aries

I would have bought bitcoin when I heard about it

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2y

INFP

Aries

7
8

I can't. I'm doomed to upset her again and again. I cant just turn mental illness on or off. Someday I'll find someone who I like who is both kind and tolerant.

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2y

INFJ

Virgo

When hearing troublea, only listen. Give no advice unless specifically asked.

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2y

INTP

Gemini

Well...staying in them more than I should've had, probably.

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0

2y

ISFJ

Scorpio

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5

Took the first few red flags seriously and not giving too many chances.

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2y

INFJ

Leo

7
8

Don't block the person when I feel overwhelmed if he doesn't contact me for 4 days. 🥲

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2y

ISTJ

Pisces

One mistake I made while younger but I no longer make it is don't rush to commit to a relationship. Dating takes time and at least give it 2-6 months before both parties agree to commit cuz it never pays to rush into a serious commitment. Made that mistake often in my 20s but I learned and realized it's just best to give her time & give myself the time to know if we are suitable for a committed relationship. Not everyone I like will be a partner, sometimes it's actually just best to be friends even if it's friends with benefits. Ofc being in a committed relationship is great as well.

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2y

INFP

Libra

not communicating properly..causes a big misunderstanding resulting to arguments then breakups

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0

2y

ISTP

Aries

Everything

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2y

INFJ

Gemini

2
1

Codependence. I should have been emotionally stronger

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2y

ISFJ

Gemini

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4

To let them go sooner, they're much happier now.

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2y

INFJ

Gemini

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9

Pffft nothing, they're the ones that made the mistakes! 😂😂😂😇

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2y

ISFJ

Capricorn

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7

Not trusting my instinct in the first place. But we do that all the time in the face of love, something new, exciting. We blindly dive in and that's okay cause we are humans and we can learn from our mistakes.

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1

2y

ENFJ

Libra

Don't ignore a few early boundary crossings... set expectations for treatment from the start, do not proceed if they don't respect them.

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2y

INFJ

Virgo

To not give as much when they weren't matching that effort even after constant communication talking expressing my truest feelings, in the end I loved someone who only took and took and took until I had nothing left but the pieces they left behind

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2y

ISFJ

Virgo

I would talk with her more about some stuff, and carry more of the load in the relationship.

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2y

INFP

Cancer

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5

Maybe not letting my wife talk me into jumping into polyamory as fast as we did. Working out traumas still and reeling from the lopsided situation I'm in -_-

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0

2y

INTJ

Cancer

2
1

Communicating more and to not start a relationship just because there is potential while not knowing very important things that matter to you about the person

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0

2y

INFP

Leo

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4

Believe the red flags the first time they're seen.

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0

2y

ENFP

Sagittarius

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7

If I could fix one thing it would be to just leave her after the 2nd brake up. Me and my ex broke up 22 times. She said she loved me even though she didn't show it now that I look back to it and I genuinely loved her and really wanted to make it work. After years I realized what me and her had was extremely toxic and not worth any of the headaches. Much happier now

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2y

ENFP

Virgo

Wouldn't change anything. The reason we called it off because we realized our huge differences and thought that our relationship will not work out. We called it off on good terms though. So, there's not really a mistake but a decision.

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2y

INFJ

Cancer

9
1

Not fall inlove and start over

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2y

INFP

Aquarius

I wouldn't. How are we supposed to learn from mistakes we never made?

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2y

INTJ

Leo

8
7

I dont fix anything because i try my best, no regret. I failed, yep, but I always learn from my mistakes. C'est la vie.

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2y

INFJ

Capricorn

9
1

for being stupid for staying in a relationship that was toxic and dangerous to my health.. I stayed in a relationship for 5 years as a battered wife, he prevented me from having contact with my family for all those years and stupid as I was, I stayed until he left. I got depression and today I'm angry about myself to lost all this years with my family So if i could change anything i would make sure it never happened and i never met him. (edited)

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2y

ISFP

Scorpio

No notjing to fix to that man let him.fix his scattered mind and self people who have no right way in life cant be fixed some people dont know what they want thats why they cant make agood partnership... Some people can't be commited person because even them cant put thier self in one place where they can find peace and comfort in life....

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1

2y

ENFJ

Leo

2
1

Commit to getting the help we needed instead of half passing it and then repeating the same mistakes until it destroyed our 9 year long relationship that neither of us wanted to end but it got so bad externally that it had to.

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2y

INFJ

Scorpio

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5

I wouldn't have stayed as long as I did. I should have done me the favor of leaving when I knew that he wasn't what I wanted and how toxic both of us was becoming towards one another.

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2y

ENFJ

Virgo

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5

Keep listening my intuition no matter what, at least afterwards there is no question "what if" and continue living my life without regrets...

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2y

ENTJ

Taurus

9
1

Social Networks

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0

2y

INTP

Libra

Don't let ur emotions get the best of you.

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2y

ESTJ

Capricorn

8
7

That I shouldn’t be nice to everybody.

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