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If you could create a better dating system, how would you set it up, organize it, make it work better?

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Libra

You can't talk to more than 1 person at once and you won't be able to see the queue of people who right-swipe you 🤝🏻

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INTJ

Aries

Two men enter, one man leaves.

INTJ

Sagittarius

Dating app stats have shown that all women go for the top 14% of men. That's the major reason why dating apps are a waste of time and money for most men. In my dating app, if a man matches with a woman, he's immediately off the platform for 1 month. That's how you fight the polygyny of Alpha Males.

ENFJ

Taurus

Have women actually respond🤣

ESTJ

Capricorn

Randomly. Have a left wing person hookup with a right wing person. A vegan with a meat eater. Let chaos ensue

INTJ

Scorpio

Nice try Boo marketing. You can't have my IP.

INTJ

Cancer

I would follow Boo in his footsteps (edited)

ENFP

Pisces

I have a pear ring. I hope there are enough people in the US using it so that I can maybe find different nearby who's interested.

ENFP

Aries

I would think being able to see when someone was last active would be great help. You know.... so we're not all wasting our time.

INFP

Aries

Use every personality and questions available to have the match be the best. And it costs nothing. It takes donations to operate. Therefore, only people who truly appreciate what the app can do will possibly pay. Which means the app needs to be top notch.. If only we got paid based on quality and nothing else.

ESTJ

Scorpio

Just stop playing with heart strings at the wrong tune. Everyone is not for everyone.. honest courting wouldn't hurt a bit.

ISFJ

Aries

I think the only way to make it better is to get rid of it. Sounds kind of bad but the internet killed the dating world

ISFJ

Capricorn

Make it have a Best Match System based on the personalities of the users.

INTJ

Virgo

I like how OkCupid used to work 13 years ago. You had a lot fo questions to answer, it would raise your match percentage and you would end up seeing profiles with a significant higher match.also probably there was this culture on OkCupid where everyone wrote nicely about themselves on their profile. I miss the old ok ukcupid

ENFP

Virgo

You know that meme where it’s a slide of all their traumas, something like that, with how I’ve been molded and grown, who I think I am, if I know, what I want the future to look like, what I need from a partner. 😂 I guess having that as my profile, and if marched, we can chat a few days, then voice message can open, and you have to have one audio or video call by the end of week and choose if you wanna keep talking or not at that point lol.

INTP

Leo

Let women have unlimited likes, and make men have a limited allotment of likes per day. The main issue I've noticed in data provided by all dating apps is that women tend to be more careful with their likes while men swipe right without care. This would rebalance that. This of course is for straight relationships. I am a cis straight male so I have no perspective outside of that realm. Would love an LGBTQ+ perspective on this system. (edited)

ESTJ

Aries

I would go back to the old school phone chats. I loved being able to get to know someone’s voice and personality without seeing an image.

INTJ

Aries

I cannot tell you how many times I have straight guys messaging me wanting to hook up when the first sentence in my profile says I'm a lesbian. Make the gay tags big and bold. Make it 100% absolutely clear and in your face a persons sexuality. It would be nice to only be visible to women. It hasnt happened here yet thank the gods, but there's always at least some guy who wants to argue with me about sexuality or how he can "Change" me and my "world".

INFJ

Cancer

A dating site that you can only matched with one person..😆 (edited)

INTP

Capricorn

I would add a battle pass.

INFP

Gemini

Assigned marriages through a random lottery and if you get divorced you get assigned another partner who has also been divorced

ENFP

Taurus

Match people based on hobbies and interests. Oh and let your therapist be connected to your profile so they can put proper personality info to match up on 😅 (edited)

INTJ

Capricorn

Make an app that gives you points for engaging in conversations with people

ISTP

Capricorn

I’d like a “maybe” category that I can save & match with one at a time. I don’t like talking to a lot of guys at the same time. Gets overwhelming and feels like a second job.

INTP

Activities of some sort. Conversations are great and all. But Activities bring out more fluid conversation. I wouldn't know what kind of activities or anything, but I still think it might be a game changer.

ESTP

Aquarius

How about a dating app that you can’t msg people. You match with someone and the app sets up a single coffee date. And if you don’t show up? 9 billion dollar penalty. Paid in stamps to help the post office.

INFJ

Sagittarius

I would do away with the swiping. I think for most people the swiping is about the photo, with little or no time taken to read the profile. Leave that stuff for the the hook up sites - or have a separate section of the site just for that.

INFP

Scorpio

Have it to where the men can't see the women and can't message the women directly. Only the women can message and have a minimum word count. After 10 or so messages the women can show herself. You don't get any creepy guys asking for dirty stuff and the women have to put themselves out there and possibly get rejected. And both sides have to have a personality

ENTJ

Gemini

Just add an option to filter by BMI.

INTJ

Libra

Just a few ideas: 1) Implement a mandatory, rigorous identity verification system. 2) Permanent ban on accounts that consistently match and never talk. 3) Enhanced controlled visibility, so that the users can choose who exactly can view their profiles, photos, and personal information. 4) Enhanced personality and compatibility assessment, with encouragement to create comprehensive profiles that include interests, values, etc. 5) Limit the number of daily matches to promote quality connections.

ISTP

Capricorn

Pixilated images that gradually become more detailed after engaging with the other person a certain amount to develop a connection 1st

INTJ

Leo

A dating application where people who look for ''hookups , short term relationship , and time passing people , cons and creeps aren't allowed 😐 😑.

ISFJ

Gemini

I don’t think there really could be one with too many different personalities, preferences, past experiences, expectations, and so much more variables. It really all just comes down to taking a chance into the unknown.

ENFP

Cancer

I would implement the Lemon Law from How I Met Your Mother.

INTP

Cancer

If anything, I would have a good handful of psychiatrists on hand so that anyone that would sign up were required to take an evaluation to see if they were in a healthy mental place for an actual relationship before hand 😅

INFP

Leo

Probably one where you fill out a questionnaire and then you're automatically matched with the other person

INFJ

Gemini

I will make it for free 🤠

ENTJ

Aries

This one works just fine tho. Many issues are cultural/societal, they'll keep coming back in any format.

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You can't talk to more than 1 person at once and you won't be able to see the queue of people who right-swipe you 🤝🏻

Two men enter, one man leaves.

Dating app stats have shown that all women go for the top 14% of men. That's the major reason why dating apps are a waste of time and money for most men. In my dating app, if a man matches with a woman, he's immediately off the platform for 1 month. That's how you fight the polygyny of Alpha Males.

Have women actually respond🤣

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Nice try Boo marketing. You can't have my IP.

I would follow Boo in his footsteps (edited)

I have a pear ring. I hope there are enough people in the US using it so that I can maybe find different nearby who's interested.

I would think being able to see when someone was last active would be great help. You know.... so we're not all wasting our time.

Just stop playing with heart strings at the wrong tune. Everyone is not for everyone.. honest courting wouldn't hurt a bit.

I think the only way to make it better is to get rid of it. Sounds kind of bad but the internet killed the dating world

Make it have a Best Match System based on the personalities of the users.

I would go back to the old school phone chats. I loved being able to get to know someone’s voice and personality without seeing an image.

A dating site that you can only matched with one person..😆 (edited)

I would add a battle pass.

Assigned marriages through a random lottery and if you get divorced you get assigned another partner who has also been divorced

Match people based on hobbies and interests. Oh and let your therapist be connected to your profile so they can put proper personality info to match up on 😅 (edited)

Make an app that gives you points for engaging in conversations with people

I’d like a “maybe” category that I can save & match with one at a time. I don’t like talking to a lot of guys at the same time. Gets overwhelming and feels like a second job.

Activities of some sort. Conversations are great and all. But Activities bring out more fluid conversation. I wouldn't know what kind of activities or anything, but I still think it might be a game changer.

How about a dating app that you can’t msg people. You match with someone and the app sets up a single coffee date. And if you don’t show up? 9 billion dollar penalty. Paid in stamps to help the post office.

I would do away with the swiping. I think for most people the swiping is about the photo, with little or no time taken to read the profile. Leave that stuff for the the hook up sites - or have a separate section of the site just for that.

Just add an option to filter by BMI.

Pixilated images that gradually become more detailed after engaging with the other person a certain amount to develop a connection 1st

A dating application where people who look for ''hookups , short term relationship , and time passing people , cons and creeps aren't allowed 😐 😑.

I don’t think there really could be one with too many different personalities, preferences, past experiences, expectations, and so much more variables. It really all just comes down to taking a chance into the unknown.

I would implement the Lemon Law from How I Met Your Mother.

If anything, I would have a good handful of psychiatrists on hand so that anyone that would sign up were required to take an evaluation to see if they were in a healthy mental place for an actual relationship before hand 😅

Probably one where you fill out a questionnaire and then you're automatically matched with the other person

I will make it for free 🤠

This one works just fine tho. Many issues are cultural/societal, they'll keep coming back in any format.

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