12/19/2023

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Aries

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Given the current state of social media and dating platforms, how optimistic are you that the next generation will be able to find partners?

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ESTJ

Taurus

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They will be fine. It's us I'm worried about. 🥲

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ENFP

Leo

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Depends how much they want a partner. The new generation is not following the traditional norms of society anymore, so if they are happy being on their own, they will.

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ESFJ

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At the rate I'm going, there won't be a "next generation." 😂😭💀

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INTJ

Gemini

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Got to believe in magicTell me how two people find each other.. in a world that's full of strangers 🎶🎤 - Don't mind me. I just wanna sing.

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INFP

Capricorn

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I'm fairly optimistic. I think they'll have about the same luck as us finding partners in real life + online. However, due to how dependent Generation Alpha already is on technology and entertainment, they probably will have poor attention spans and unrealistic expectations, giving them considerable difficulty on dating apps.

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INFJ

Pisces

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People still meet in person, amazingly. And hormones and bad decisions still exist. They'll be fine.

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ENFP

Leo

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Love has adapted and found a way, probably since the dawn of time. I'm not too worried about it; the kids of the next generation I've had the pleasure of witnessing seem more loving and emotionally intelligent than I remember kids being when I was little. (edited)

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ISTP

Aries

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y'all realize people exist outside the internet, right?

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INFJ

Cancer

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Of course they can ..its just us trying to complicate things ..😥🤣 and keep.saying *nobody loves me*🤣

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INFJ

Sagittarius

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Lol I have more hope for the next generations than I have for my own. 😋

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ENFJ

Libra

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well...I met my daughter's father on an App...so I can give her advice and block all the accounts she creates in the future🤣🤣🤣 joke🤣🤣...yes they can meet 🥰🥰...but I think that excessive exposure and little intimacy works against

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INTP

Taurus

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Watched a video yesterday and they said that dating sites are actually making dating/relationships more difficult. It’s widening the pool, but people are getting more picky (probably for good reason) and they just stick with the person they find because they cross some things off on their checklist, even when they don’t really feel an attraction. In the past, people would date someone they knew from a friend or someone from their group. People tend to fall in love with someone they share an emotional situation with and that’s easier when they are in close proximity and interact with each other irl. A study was done where men were told to walk on this rickety bridge and to talk to a woman that was there afterwards. They were more likely to call the woman after walking on that bridge because they “mis attributed” the arousal as sexual attraction when they saw her afterward. It created an emotional situation, thus some sort of emotional bond. I guess the next generation will have to ask their dates to go skydiving or something. 😉 Also, we’re becoming more reclusive with overuse of technology and our ability to read faces, tones, and body language will probably become rusty. This creates more anxiety and makes the person less likely to interact with another human being.

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ISFP

Libra

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They have lots of options and they're easy to leave so all I can say don't lose hope and good luck..😌 (edited)

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ENTP

Libra

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Happy holidays for all of youu..*next generation* We as what is in his hand (edited)

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INFP

Virgo

There isn't going to be a next generation because no one in this generation is having kids

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INFJ

Libra

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All I can say for the next generation is good luck (edited)

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ISFJ

Aries

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let biology do their work

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INFJ

Virgo

It would be a great thing if people reply more

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INTP

Cancer

It's rather the state of society than media and technology but I'm quite pessimistic. The biggest issue is that people have more interactions online rather than offline. People don't seem to build local communities that much anymore. The state where school/uni/work are the main places for socialization should be signalling us that we messed up as a society. The first problem is that everything becomes commercialized, not just dating industry. There're very few people running local hobby clubs on non-profit basis. People look how to squeeze money out of everything and don't care about the rest. Depends on your age and country, but you might remember that it wasn't like that before. People were organizing many things for their neighbourhood not looking for profit: clubs, workshops, etc. People back then had much stronger sense of community and belonging. The shift towards online interactions has created a paradoxical scenario where while we're more interconnected globally, we're paradoxically disconnected at a local level. The erosion of community-driven initiatives has led to a loss of organic social spaces where meaningful relationships can develop naturally. Additionally, the commercialization of nearly every aspect of life, including dating, has altered the dynamics of human interaction, often emphasizing transactional rather than genuine connections. This change has resulted in an environment where the pursuit of profit seems to outweigh the value of fostering authentic human bonds.

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INFJ

Scorpio

I believe if you are persistent and have even a small degree of self-confidence you will absolutely find your person.

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ESTJ

Leo

Not at all. There are people working on creating 'realistic' sex robots for a reason, sadly.

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INTJ

Sagittarius

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Very little optimism. Even for my generation. But hope will always prevail💖 as it has done time and time again. To quote George Bernard Shaw "This is the true joy in life, being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one. Being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it what I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work, the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations."

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INFP

Virgo

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Shouldnt be a problem. It depends how much they want to find someone.

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ISFJ

Aries

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When I find my person then I would be able to be optimistic... 😶🥺

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ENFP

Libra

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I struggle to find anything. How am I gonna find someone to put up with me?/j (sorta)

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ENFJ

Libra

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I have no faith that anyone from the last 5 years... to the future will find that 1 true love. You would be very lucky if you do. Everyone else will settle. It's not easy. Most people play games , find it easy to just toy with emotions cos it's online so it's ok. Yeah? I have hope of finding love. And I know I may have to adjust my type for that. I'm ok with it. Simple things make me happy. Many people have loooong lists

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INTJ

Gemini

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I think women will be able partners, if they want to. Unfortunately, men will continue to struggle until there's a societal shift.

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ISTJ

Pisces

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Yesterday, I red an article about teenagers are being stressed/frightened by talking to a waiter to make an order, if they don't know the menu ahead of time. If you are afraid to talk to a waiter, how they will hold any harder conversation?

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ISTJ

Taurus

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Not very hopeful about it. Nowadays, people are very focused on appearances. And if a person is not pretty or handsome, they are immediately rejected. Even if their personalities are perfect, they are not even given a chance, just because people do not like their faces. I am not even hopeful for my current generation.

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INFJ

Capricorn

Not sure what generation you are talking about. Don't see many Zs or Alphas round here. For normal people attraction is triggered by natural causes, that is the way a person looks, sounds, moves and smells. Dating apps can't give you that. Look for partners IRL.

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ENTP

Gemini

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Partners no problem. Long term partners.. Maybe some more difficulty

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ENFP

Scorpio

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Not likely to improve. Humans are made to be social, this kind of isolation is not healthy at all. While dating apps are a good tool, I wouldn't say they are a problm solver.

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INFP

Taurus

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Not very.. (edited)

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ISFJ

Leo

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Forget a out the next generation! Let's find one ourselves or there won't be a next generation!

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INFP

Sagittarius

I’m hoping AI partners will happen soon. Then no one will have to be lonely.

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ISFP

Scorpio

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Next generation will like to live alone , With ownself ultimately Because they will having this understanding

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INFJ

Sagittarius

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I think the next generation can still find...at least a few...but after that it's over 🤣 Just kidding 😸 Nobody wants to really settle anymore. Partners are replaced too quickly given the oversized online offering. I hope there will be much who find Partners. Sad. Love is so precious.🥺 (edited)

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