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Universes
Posted Monday, May 27, 2024
2mo
INTJ
Virgo
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Can anybody answer this why it is so hard nowadays to find genuine love? Old school love.
#love #romance #relationship #relationshipadvice #commitment
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2mo
INTP
Taurus
Too many things. Hookup culture. Dating apps. Putting weird bias based worth on people they barely know. Expecting instant results. Getting disillusioned with the reality of dealing with a real person with their own lived experiences. General selfishness and self interest. Just to name a few. Not saying that it was better back then. Pretty sure they had their own challenges.
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2mo
INTP
Gemini
Because you keep holding on to old outdated conceptions of love that evolved to fit a lifestyle that is no longer pertinent to the current state of affairs. And for some reason y'all buy into this romanticized version that early Hollywood movies publicised for the past century... (edited)
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2mo
INTP
To find genuine love, we need to show our vulnerability to the other. But we live in a culture of fear, more than ever, and fear makes it difficult to show vulnerability. People are afraid to show their vulnerability because it has been weaponized against them. Men who show vulnerability have their "real men status" questioned. Women who show vulnerability are taken advantage of. Success is viewed as "who's the biggest and baddest and richest". In that view, only a handful can be successful and the rest are left to be trampled on. While in the end, most of us just want someone kind to grow old with and maybe give/recieve a sweet little spanking once in a while.
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2mo
INFJ
Taurus
Because in the name of modernisation, people changed the whole concept of love. They call people cringe if they care for them. They call it drama if someone tries to show their genuine affection in anyway. So even good people have no option but to reluctantly follow current standards.. Smh... 👀 (edited)
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2mo
ISTJ
Sagittarius
It's not a " Nowadays " thing. Lol it's a human issue. For example. I have no clue what you mean by old school love. Love is love. No matter what school. Lol! But seriously, keep it simple. Go to social events. Make friends and maybe things will grow from there with enough effort between the two. Humans are not simple creatures{most of the time}. Love isn't so simple either as I know you know. Nor is finding Genuine people that actually know how to communicate for starters. Oi. Lol
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2mo
ESFJ
Taurus
Genuine love requires vulnerability and openness, which many people find difficult due to past experiences or societal pressures to appear strong and independent.
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1mo
INFJ
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1mo
INFJ
Scorpio
Because of social medias and dating apps I guess. It's giving people access to connect even those from different side of the world. Too much options, too much temptations 🤷. The only strong women and men with values, dignity, integrity, and fidelity can survive 😅. (edited)
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2mo
INTP
Aries
If you're finding it hard, then think about me once. Our generation is 10× complicated and way too modernized which I can't able to get into. Mostly good girls of my age gets attractrs to Red Flags who don't even respect them or 50% of me, it's just so! Disappointing 😔
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2mo
INFJ
Scorpio
Well, you kinda answered your own question. Old school is phasing out in favor of the "new school" People don't need each other like we use to. You can go through life completely single and independent these days. You use to have to work for meaningful relationships and work even harder to keep them. People chose not to do that anymore
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2mo
INFJ
Aries
That kind of love comes at a cost. A cost being absolutely vulnerable and still devoted. Most of us cannot take the risk of getting hurt, so we just play it safe.. Great love demands the greatest faith.
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1mo
INFJ
Taurus
Because some people are messed up nowdays 🥱😂
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1mo
ENTJ
Sagittarius
It isnt difficult to find. You just dont want the men who offer it.
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1mo
INTJ
Pisces
People seem to want a plug and play option in my opinion. When the reality that kind of love is something you build together, grow together, and maintain together.
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1mo
INFP
Aries
Alot of things are factors in my opinion it has to do with people not loving them self and giving from empty cups, we have to learn to love ourself so we can love others and let them love us. It takes alot to go inside of ourself and say maybe I am the problem and then take the steps to heal ourselves do the shadow works and heal the inner child. We expect other to come in and solve all our problems when we don't even know we have to work on some stuff. It's not really a bad thing bc we are all on this learning curve alot of us are realizing what we no longer tolerate the healed only want healed people and the hurt people hurt people so until we do our inner work the cycles will continue. If we can't love ourselves how the hell you going to love anyone else. 💯
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