How do you cope with your loneliness?

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When we are well with our own company it is difficult to feel alone. Solitude is different from loneliness. But the human being at some point needs to be with someone, but it is possible to do well anyway. Do something you like, visit family members, practice outdoor activities, try to connect with yourself, so your relationships with other people will be much better.

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ENTP

Sagittarius

Gaming. I'm a gamer for life, and I believe that.

ENTP

Scorpio

If society didn't make it the norm to be in a relationship, would you feel lonely as a single person?

ENFP

Virgo

I think for a lot of us, loneliness is more about disconnection than being alone. I can be alone, but to feel disconnected/lacking in being understood, is the actual feeling of loneliness for me. I try to build on the connections with people that remind me that there are people I can communicate with that get it. I introspect and reflect more about what I want to attract and how I can surround myself with community to build the connections I desire (edited)

ISTJ

Leo

Listening to music,going out for walks and doing exercise.😊

ENFP

Aries

INFP

Taurus

Music/ workout/ games. One of these 3 things for sure

INFJ

Scorpio

I let it destroy me slowly

INTP

Pisces

Going out for walks, and doing exercise. Doing anything to keep yourself occupied will help ease loneliness. Loneliness will strike most when you're alone and have nothing to do. Try to keep yourself occupied!

INTJ

Gemini

I pray🙏

ENFP

Aquarius

Tbh sometimes being alone can be good for the state of mind, sometimes having to much people can add to stress or etc

ISFP

Just make yourself busy,go outdoors. Learn how to be happy by yourself,self love

INFP

Pisces

A good old doobie

INTP

Aries

Ability to have a conversation with yourself... Do it right and it's like a crowded in there...

INFJ

Pisces

Feeling alone and loneliness do come from a sense of lacking in a person. But it seems people don't always realize where that lacking is coming from and the fact it is not always want of a companion. People do feel alone after loss and major life changes like illness. It's not necessarily a connection to just anyone, that people seek. For example: children who lose their families. They can be happy alone, and positive, But there is an internal loneliness of not having that (family) connection in the world. Or even the existential connection to the universe. There is a reason so many people have a connection to spirituality (aside using it for gain). When I want to connect, I enjoy: hiking, swimming, playing an instrument, working out, art/design, and hanging out with my dog

ISTJ

Leo

Playing Sudoku

INTJ

Libra

I'm alone .. today I got cancelled on 5 mins before we were supposed to meet .. all that loneliness hit at once and I cried .. then stopped.. then cried again . No one should be loney .. we don't cope not really it hurts to no we have this big world of people and the only thing that stops us feeling lonely is music.its not fair . (edited)

INTP

Sagittarius

Create something. Art, music, grow a plant, knit a sweater, whatever it might be.

ISTP

Aries

You don't cope with it, you just get used to it.. If I had survived before anyone, I will obviously survive after that person as well.. But the goal is to make sure that person realize that you are better without them

ENFP

Capricorn

I don't think there is anything that can wipe away one's loneliness (not that the OP suggested it), but, to dull the ache, I practice meditation, listen to audiobooks, have video calls with my friends and loved ones, and occasionally I'll go for a little extra delicious beer or a fine cocktail. Sometimes a well crafted drink can loosen some of the things up inside your heart that have felt stuck, or it can alter your mind and help you see some joys you forgot to count.

ISTJ

Libra

I used to loneliness since my teen-ager yes so I can deal with it ,ost of time I go to walk alone in the seashore, make some food. For homeless animals, I love dogs and cats , watching series,movies .

ESFP

Cancer

Keeping busy at the gym💪

INFP

Pretend that I'm not until I can't maintain the facade.

ESTJ

Aries

Through music 🎶

INFJ

I just don't think about all that. I'm keeping myself constantly busy :)

ESTJ

Virgo

I cope with it by journaling and self seeking within myself of what could be changed within to want a positive change I'm my current status. Expressing and releasing what is no longer needed to make room for better and positive people, situations or what ever it may be you are now seeking in your next move in life.

ENFJ

Gemini

Honestly, sometimes it's better to be alone. But that's my opinion. But the way I cope with the feeling is listening to music at night and spending time with friends and family in the day. The less your stuck in your head the better. I know, easier said than done. But it's still possible. 😁

ISFJ

Leo

Well, it's not loneliness anymore if you learn to enjoy your own company. I stay alone most of the time of the day, so I lift weights, cook dishes and sometimes binge watch stuff and listen to music.

INTJ

Cancer

By accepting it? Sometimes by chilling with my cat, maybe even meeting friends and thinking about other things. Mostly by deflecting it

ENTJ

Libra

Watch a horror movie and now you don't ever feel alone

ISFJ

Leo

idont want to rely with other people. when i feel lonely, i work out, go out and make myself busy. im on process of making myself comfortable with me being alone and do things that makes me happy.

ENFP

Sagittarius

I simply don't! Actually, I try to surround myself with great people. This, I think, would be my way to cope with loneliness. To people who feel lonely: you are enough. There are fantastic people out there: there are waiting for you. 😀

INFP

Libra

Food and tea is the best. When you are alone you have to share with friends, but if you have noone...all for you

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How do you cope with your loneliness?

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Gaming. I'm a gamer for life, and I believe that.

If society didn't make it the norm to be in a relationship, would you feel lonely as a single person?

Listening to music,going out for walks and doing exercise.😊

Music/ workout/ games. One of these 3 things for sure

I let it destroy me slowly

Going out for walks, and doing exercise. Doing anything to keep yourself occupied will help ease loneliness. Loneliness will strike most when you're alone and have nothing to do. Try to keep yourself occupied!

I pray🙏

Tbh sometimes being alone can be good for the state of mind, sometimes having to much people can add to stress or etc

Just make yourself busy,go outdoors. Learn how to be happy by yourself,self love

A good old doobie

Ability to have a conversation with yourself... Do it right and it's like a crowded in there...

Playing Sudoku

Create something. Art, music, grow a plant, knit a sweater, whatever it might be.

You don't cope with it, you just get used to it.. If I had survived before anyone, I will obviously survive after that person as well.. But the goal is to make sure that person realize that you are better without them

I used to loneliness since my teen-ager yes so I can deal with it ,ost of time I go to walk alone in the seashore, make some food. For homeless animals, I love dogs and cats , watching series,movies .

Keeping busy at the gym💪

Pretend that I'm not until I can't maintain the facade.

Through music 🎶

I just don't think about all that. I'm keeping myself constantly busy :)

Honestly, sometimes it's better to be alone. But that's my opinion. But the way I cope with the feeling is listening to music at night and spending time with friends and family in the day. The less your stuck in your head the better. I know, easier said than done. But it's still possible. 😁

Well, it's not loneliness anymore if you learn to enjoy your own company. I stay alone most of the time of the day, so I lift weights, cook dishes and sometimes binge watch stuff and listen to music.

By accepting it? Sometimes by chilling with my cat, maybe even meeting friends and thinking about other things. Mostly by deflecting it

Watch a horror movie and now you don't ever feel alone

idont want to rely with other people. when i feel lonely, i work out, go out and make myself busy. im on process of making myself comfortable with me being alone and do things that makes me happy.

I simply don't! Actually, I try to surround myself with great people. This, I think, would be my way to cope with loneliness. To people who feel lonely: you are enough. There are fantastic people out there: there are waiting for you. 😀

Food and tea is the best. When you are alone you have to share with friends, but if you have noone...all for you

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