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Posted Wednesday, April 17, 2024
13d
ENFJ
Aquarius
why do people always tend to attribute failings to others but never introspect
I've seen this type of posts everywhere esp in terms of interpersonal relationships. like to me, I see both sides. let's say in the talking stage, A ghosted B. let's say I was in B's position. my analytical mind would know if our vibe was off and one party initiating the end was expected. OR I could see what note we ended it on & draw conclusions from it but simultaneously realize as a stranger (at first) they have no obligation to tell me why as that could be awkward, blunt and hurtful if said out loud. I move on to the next person. the problem is some ppl don't let it go and feel offended by it. like why? why is it solely another person's fault, or why couldn't you acknowledge it was mutually beneficial bc I hardly run into these sitches and feel it came from nowhere. because obv if it happens to one person a lot you gotta look inward for answers right? why post about people ghosting as in like, calling them out discreetly. that's pretty uncalled for. is it just me?
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